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Just wanted to say hi! Was on the site nearly 19 months ago ttc. Not long after was diagnosed with thyroid cancer, but that's all good now so on cycle 1 of TTc again-sorry for gate crashing just wanted to say hey x

familys grrrrrr

i think this month we are going to take a break things are just a little too stressed atm DH only has 6-7 weeks left at work and working till late every night so hardly see each other plus he has still got to look for a new job . we have a mouse problem again so thats stressing me out and now my bro in law has upset my DH something was said and things have got out of hand im not 100% sure till hubby gets home ( to me him and his gf are just jealous of us plus he dont like me he has never said it but i know it )

so im very stressed

Well today has not been a good day! I got a text from my sister this morning of a picture of a positive hpt! I cried! Im on my phone eight now so i will tell you all about the dr when i get on the computer

OH SHAY! I'm sorry!!! I'm so scared my sister is going to do that to me again before I get my turn! I'm sorry. I wish I lived near you so you had a shoulder to cry on. UGh..I dont even know your sister and I'm jealous and mad at her!!!

Got a baby shower invite in the mail the other day...made me cringe . Now I have to drive 2 hours for a baby shower I dont want to go to, with my mother in law in the passenger seat who nags me for not giving her a grandbaby yet.

Hi Mystery! Are you being incognito too??!! Please, gate crash! We love new admissions to the asylum! I'm sorry you had to deal with thyroid cancer. I've known some with it.

Tara- I am pretending my pillow is your shoulder *ya that sounds a little creepy..just a little!* I am really pissed off dont get me wrong i am thrilled for her BUT our nieces are 6 weeks apart k well I announced i was pregnant and magically 6 weeks later shes pregnant, now about 2 months ago i told my sister we are ttc she said oh god i dont want anymore blah blah blah then BAM shes pregnant! Its like she has to have all the attention! and THEN i text my mom and we were talking about her pregnancy and my mom says and i quote "now you need to wait and finish the schooling you started" MIND you i already have my degree i have a damn good job and my sister works at a casino just moved out of my parents house 3 months ago! AND I have been waiting 2 EFFING YEARS!

ANYWAYS- As far as the doctors went, If i do not get a BFP this cycle she wants to do surgery and go from there, If after the surgery i am still having trouble getting pregnant then we talk fertility treatments!

Tara- No i never get a + opk with DT brand.

Hi ladies, I have been reading for the last few days and although i think i belong in a padded room while 2ww! I feel like i know you ladies.. here is a sum up of my story...
I am happily married to my best friend of 11 years,been together 3,married for 1! We have a little boy who,will be 2 at the end of this month and been desperately ttc since April!
I had problems in the past ttc with my ex and was told i would need medical help to carry to birth and to get pregnant!
Well as the story goes we split i got with my now husband and got pg on our own with no medical help and had a perfectly healthy baby boy that icarried to39 weeks withno complications other then needing a c section because he never dropped fully...
So i feel ya ladies!

Oh an i am currently in the middle of the oh so loved 2ww and let me tell you this month seems diff but i have surely lost it by now right...

Hi, there, newcomers!

Tara - that seems so long to wait! Congrats on your weight loss, though.

Shay - I already told you how I feel about that stupidity, but let me tell you again - what a selfish beyatch!!

I have started reading stuff about PCOS, and I don't think I have it, but I'm not too sure I'm not in pre-menopause. When I was in my tww I took a bunch of OPK's along with my HPT's the last few cycle days, and they were awfully dark. I can find almost no data online for mid-cycle LH normal ranges, but I found stuff about CD3 and normal ranges for O time. I'm going to call the doc to see if he will order labs so I can make sure I don't have low progesterone. I have more or less convinced myself I've had a couple of CP's and it's because of my LH & progesterone levels. I'm also kind of worried about prolactin problems which I read can be linked to high LH. We'll see I guess...

I am going to take an hpt every day for a month to see what they do. I had low progesterone levels with my last 2 pregnancies. Not low enough to affect them, but low enough to cause concern. If it's dropped even further it could be too low to support pregnancy.

Shaybabe, you and I could be twins with what he deal with familywise! I'm youngest and shortest...meaning I'm the least noticed apparently. Well you know what happened to me...I told my mom about my miscarriage and her response was a guilt trip for me to feel bad for my poor sister cause she may have issues getting pregnant...SHE GOT KNOCKED UP THE SECOND TRY! Feels sometimes like my sister has to be the center of it all. I guarantee that if I told her we were trying she would miraciously get pregnant too . It sounds messed up but everytime I see a used condom in their trashcan...I SMILE! (I dump their trash...I'm not looking for used condoms! ). I'm sorry you have to go through with that crap! Go ahead and use your pillow as my shoulder!!! I dont care one bit if it's creepy!!! Praying for healing so you dont have to go through yet another surgery!

Hi TTC#2mommy- I'm so glad you found us and that you feel so at home! Welcome welcome darling! I'm sorry this go around has been tough for you. As you've read already we can empathize. When is AF due?

Phat-I'd definitely get a blood workup! I dont think you're crazy. I think you may have had chemicals.