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Cutie I agree with everything you said, so lets make this happen :)

Tara I'm glad she is going to see you. Maybe it will finally get you on track and having baby.

Hkellerman goodluck. I started smoking when I had a bf and 2 roommates that smoked about 6 yrs ago. I quit when I came home a year later and my dad was very upset that I had started since a lot of people in his family have died from lung cancer. I know I didn't smoke for that long but it still wasn't easy to quit so I pray that you overcome it. Now the smell of cigarettes makes me sick. And I am sorry the got you.

just bought some more gum so i dont have the i ran out excuse. So ive got 28 pieces of gum. Havent chewed one yet, last smoke about 3 hours ago.

Just bought some softcups from walmart. of course I couldnt wait to check em out so, since AF is here I am trying out one today. cant really feel it in, although do a have a twingy tummy not sure if thats the cup or the cramps:) Im willing to try anything. I am already sick and coughing and the cigs are just making it worse so.....ya know. I smoke when I am bored, I have a lot of time off even with two jobs. Its a bad habit, I mean I can smoke 4 in a hour or none in 3. Im an all or nothing girl, If i do it, i go overboard, if I don't complete abstinence is what works for my other issues or as I like to call them subscriptions!

Hey ladies, bad news. decided to come today. Grr. So upset, but maybe next month. I'll keep trying. I've tried the softcups before with AF and i guess i didn't put it in right. I think i'll try them again though. I don't think me and the bf enough this time.

Anyway, to all of you!!

I need stop going through the hpt gallery it depresses me. I am still having a slight red/pink bleeding mixed with my cm. twinges in ovaries, but ov tests are still negative grr.... Hoping so bad this is our month, but don't want to get my hopes up too much.

@hkellerman you can do it! I'm glad i never picked that habit up. I've tried it a few times and it just never stuck. We're all here to support you though.

So, this past month, i've been taking Fertilaid to help boost my chances and also to help regulate my cycle, because unfortunately, i've had irregular cycles since i've started my periods.

I was on bc for a while and i could predict my period to the day and it was awesome, but then i stopped because i wanted to get pg and my cycles started getting irregular again. I wanted to look for a more natural remedy and i came across Fertilaid which did it's job. This month i've had an exact 21 day cycle. So, maybe this is a good thing i didn't get my BFP this month. I can track my ov day easier this way if i can predict AF better.

Well, back to work, i'll jump back on later since i am going to be here for 6 more hours. Lots of for everyone!!!

So I bought some OPks along with hpt;s off ebay for like 9.99. Hopefully they will get here before AF stops. Gonna try bding in Am more this time around. Since bf has a hard time keeping his hands not to himself in the am lol. Told him no more "moisturizing" come wake me up lol. So got OPKS and soft cups, so hopefully I will have my BFP by x-mas, next cycle due 12/17 hoping to give mom and dad x-mas suprise:)

pains and cramps are getting worse its just like it was before i went on birth control . im more scared now then ever that i cant have kids i see a long line of gynecologist appointmenst ust like i had years ago . i have docs on the 4th got to take all info on periods and things . i no i need to stop thinking about it but i cant help it

Hang in there Lammy! Just keep trying.

On another note. Is anyone using soft or instead cups for ttc? Thinking about trying them this cycle. I'm trying hard to give my family a for Xmas!

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone. So, i'm stuck here at work instead of stuffing my face..lol. AF is not being very nice this time around. I'm bleeding really heavy and through almost everything i've worn since i started. Sucks so bad, especially when i'm at work.

Gave the soft cups a try when i got home and out of the shower. I need some more practice putting them in the right position. Unfortunately, i still had to use a pad while i slept as an extra precaution and good thing i did, it overflowed. grr.

Well anyways, after i'm done with AF, definitely gonna try and bd more. I have a higher sexual appetite than him unfortunately. So far, it's been about, oh almost 3 weeks since the last time we . Also another big problem is the fact that this whole month so far we've only ONE time!!! What the hell is that?!

Okay, gonna stop talking everyone's ear off, i'll hop back on later, hope everyone is enjoying their Thanksgiving!!

Lots of

Happy Thanksgiving girls!!! I'm stuffed but I did pretty good at portion control so I dont gain anything for my appointment next week!

HOWEVER... Just found out today that if I dont start a round of provera tomorrow that I have no chance of getting a christmas bfp...which is what I've been wanting ALL YEAR LONG!!! I have a dr's appt the 29th to go over all my info to take next steps, praying dr gives me my first round of clomid for a christmas present. So, the breakdown...If I start provera tomorrow, I'll start on day of appt (nov 29th) and if she puts me on clomid, then I'd ovulate in 2ish weeks and possibly get a bfp on dec 24th or 25th. Dh and I talked about it tonight and decided that we'd rather have a chance of conceiving than none at all for christmas. Say a prayer my doc gives me provera tomorrow and clomid next week!!!! If she isnt wanting to take any steps towards helpng me...I'm calling the Fertility Specialist in my area called, "Fertility Partnership". See it everytime I go to church and had I feeling I'd end up going there .

Stil having very low anterior abdominal cramping all day today (not poo ).

@enbutler-Happy Thanksgiving honey! My sister had to work her shift tonight too but luckily got to see her for a bit before she went to work.....ONE TIME!!!!

@athena-I get more depressed at opks now!

@hkellerman-ROFL!! Put some hot pepper sauce in the lotion! LOL. Dh never wants to do it. He says he wants to save all his little swimmers for me!

@Lammy-I'm praying you get a answer darling!!! I'm prayer for healing also!

@Holly-I've been dreaming of a christmas bfp all year long!!! I'd cried in the car tonight when I realized that I may not have a chance!