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I had a faint positive. Very faint but even my dh saw a line. Now all negative. I put this down and someone said about a chemical pregnancy which is where you have a miscarriage very early on. I'm not saying you had he same but that's what was suggested for me so it has got to be possible for you. I hope that wasn't it. Are u going to carry on ttc? Cos if you got pregnant once surely it could happen again? Just wish we had all the answers don't you? It's all guess work and waiting with ttc I think.

So are you saying your tests are negative??? Yes wish we had all the answers.
Think i can catch the egg but to old to fertilise and i lose it. Sad but true. Hubby in bed and me crying like a baby having a glass of wine watching trashy tv. Stupid gordy shore

Well I thought I could see a line when the pic was inverted on this site but people have voted and said both lots of tests I put on are negative so I have no idea now tbh. I'm going to wait to see if I ovulate or my af comes. If not I will then test again and see what that says.
CNt believe your hubby is in bed while your so upset. I was crying my eyes out the other day and my hubby was there giving me a hug and talking it over. Although I do have a tendency to hide away when I am crying.
Must be hard to be producing eggs and able to get pregnant but not able to keep then because of the age of your eggs. But you will find a donor. I'm sure of it and you'll have a beautiful baby.

I looked at your test and inverted i could see a slight line.
Hubby has worked 14 days straight and is tired he doesn't really know how upset i am. He is from a different kind of family. His family are Italian and that is a different story it itself. I really should head off to bed it's 2am

I don't know then about the tests. I am confused. As per my username lol

You should sleep. Your body has been through a lot your heart and mind a lot more. Sleep well and take good care of yourself and I'm sure we will talk tomorrow.

@ mandi- i'm sorry love. I know it sucks. I hope you get donor eggs quickly! Based on your history this cycle, it does sound like a chemical. A chemical pregnancy is a pregnancy confirmed only by hcg...meaning +hpt or bloodtest. But the pregnancy ends before ultrasound. I've had it happen 4 times. I get a positive test, sometimes multiple but the bloodwork shows rapidly decreasing hcg and within 4-5 days af starts. My hcg drops fast too. One day it'll be 35 and the next 23. Your hpt remains + for a couple days cause the hcg is still being filtered out through your kidneys. So hpt will be + while bld test will be neg. I never get past 5 weeks. I know it's hard to deal with. I became a zombie each time. All I wanted to do was curl up in a ball and cry. Dh was understanding but was annoying me lol. He kept trying to joke and tickle me to get me back to my normal self. I just needed time to grieve. Cry as much as you want! It helps. Lots of icecream helps too :).

@confused- when do you get your results?

Afm- like athena, no temp spike yet. But my cervix is ripe! And my cat is fine...just stressed.

Yes i agree. Taking it in my own hands and using my leftover gonal -f injections. Doesn't matter about the trigger i will ovulate on my own maybe i will be lucky and have twins. I have more scripts from my fertility specialist
Just realised i sound like a woman possessed

Bahahahahaha!!!! Wait til your head starts spinning! Lol

mandy So sorry sweetie, I know how hard this is. Taking it into your own hands could be a good thing. Ive done it and I am now waiting the big O. Finished my last clomid yesterday so going to starting OPK tomorrow. I don't care about the odds of twins, I would welcome the idea and pray hard that they are safe. I wouldn't mind the extra work or being extra sick during pregnancy, I just want it to happen.

waitingonmymiracle. I love your name, its what we are all waiting on. I was able to get hold of the trigger shot through a friend, not online. Sorry if I got your hopes up. I just have everything crossed that this is my time. I have seen so many new babies and pregnant bellies, that I think "Hey it should be my turn now". cousins and friends are having babies like there is going to be a famine on them, so I think its about time I got a turn.

Sending lots of to everyone.

Hey all. Can anyone tell me if they started getting small veins showing up on there bbs in early pregnancy? I am very pale skinned and I noticed quite a few have come up. Or can it be a hormone imbalance??

I have to have my next period and then wait till 10 days before the one after that is due before I can have all the blood tests. I've got a great list of stuff I am being checked for. My doc was very understanding. Then depending on the results he will refer us to a fertility clinic.