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@tif -- are your cycles typically pretty regular? My co-worker was just telling me that with one of her pregnancy's the whole time she was testing she kept getting BFN's but she was actually pregnant. So don't get too discouraged.

Best of luck! I myself am trying to hold off until this weekend to test.

@pisces ~ I have been studying mostly my own chart for years. I love it. I have also gotten into numbers (numerology too) It's the dreamer/magician in my gypsy soul that loves all this stuff. Did I tell you that one of my jobs is that I hand water color angel cards and put affirmations on them? So fun. I think your doctor is right. I'm so happy that you had strong O cramps especially in that tube. Yay! My temps are still all over the place. I wake up throughout the night for like 5 to 10 minutes but then I go back to sleep..I never get up or walk around. I just lay there in bed. Some reason I wake up but then go back to sleep.I'm wondering if this would mess up me getting accurate temps? I don't know. Plus my temping time is 6:30 to 7:30. Not exactly the same time every morning. It's a learning process I tell ya. Why did I have to be intimate, now I'm back to questioning and obsessing again..YIKES!

So we are ttc#1, and I have had this thought in the back of my head since we started trying and just have to get it out.

I have ALWAYS dreamt of getting pregnant, and have this weird feeling that I will totally love it. However, I cannot even fathom seeing a positive test. Maybe because I have never experienced it, but it's something that I just can't imagine seeing. Every time I have tested, I just know it will be negative. I realize I probably sound very odd, but has anyone felt this. It's almost like knowing you want something so bad, but I am just so insecure with the realization of it...like it may never happen. Am I crazy?

@ shrader- I know this is bad but first time I kept track of days, this is day 31 of my cycle, but every month af is usually around same time I think, I'm gana get a test when hubby gets home ( with money) lol! Ill let ya know

@ all- getting a test soon cross ur fingers

@tiff Say YES to the TEST. I think it's gonna be positive. It is sooooo possible to test at 14DPO and get a negative and then get a positive later. let us know!!!

@lsch how are you feeling? When are you testing again?

@topo there you are love bug. I know you are going through a really tough time with your uncle and I really pray that they catch his killer soon to give you and your family some closure. Hey stop with that stress you are supposed to be having fun during your month off. As soon as AF shows up, then you can schedule that surgery and it will make you feel so much better :-D

@lady bug I knew you were an artist. I don't know why, I felt like you made your living in the arts some how. I write poetry, I have a guy who has asked me to publish my stuff but I am a true Pisces, I write when I am inspired to do so. I don't work for deadlines.

AFM: was out running errands with the family and BAM egg white cm. I don't think I O'd yet. My left ovary feels full and from what I read, many women reports a feeling of relief after O'ing on clomid and I don't feel that relief yet. So, it's getting closer to me going home and the closer the better :-D

@pis- feeling good. sore bb's today still. Just too scared to test for the BFN.

@lsch I know just what you mean!! BFN's suck!!! So I understand your reluctance to test. I read somewhere that the boobs are the first indication that you are pregnant. I have been pregnant 3 times and my bonds never hurt until weeks after getting a positive preg test. Every woman is different. But sore boobs is good. Do you normally get sore boobs before AF?

@pis - I do. However, the feeling with AF is much different. Typically they are very full and just ache all over. Right now (and starting two days ago) the pain was located under my armpits and side of my boobs. It is still there, and moving under my boobs too. My nipples are not sore (which they are normally really sensitive). But then again, they don't normally get sore until a day or so before my period. So I am really hoping that difference in pain and location is a good sign. They don't ache, they feel as if a pulled a muscle!

Just took a test, looks neg, this sucks :(

@tiff so sorry, I was so sure you were. I wish I knew when you O'd. No faint lines.

@lsch different from the usual is good!