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By the time I got into work, I had some heavier spotting. Not a full flow, but I think I am really out this month :( Ugh, this really sucks! Why is it so difficult to get pregnant??!! I really don't get how people accidently get pregnant without charting, or even knowing when they O. It's just bizarre to me! Ok, that's my rant and my pitty party :)

@ shrader- well a lot of weomen confuse inplantation bleeding with periods so until full force it could still happen, keep ur head up, I'm with u on people who don't care to get preg and give them up or worse, and the ones who want them the most have a hard time, but I am a very very firm believer on everything happens for a reason, so maybe making it harder means more then u know!!! Keep ur head up!you to topo!!!

@ pices- yes my girls are very close they r always playing together!

Did ne one else have a hard time reading the last page, like it was cut off or something?

@tiff -- Yeah, I keep telling myself that. I will wait and see. I think having a negative test though is pretty telling. Totally, I don't get it at all! It makes me so mad, but I know God has a plan for me and I know I am supposed to be a mother!

Yes, I had a hard time reading it from my phone, but when I went to use my laptop, it was fine. Are you on a phone?

Good morning. Busy forum this morning with all you chatty ones.. :) I love my sleep. I got to bed late and get up late. I have to have my 8 or 9 hrs of sleep. Usually I only get 6 because I wake up so much throughout the night..

@tiff ~ Glad it's sinkin in that your preggers. You are so blessed to have 2 girls already.

@topo ~That would suck not getting to spend time with your dh child. LIke pisces said you can always get it court ordered and demand visitations. Looks like you will be getting surgery then 3 or 4 days after your next AF? That's in a few weeks. I think it will be a good thing. So you have one daughter?

@Lschrader ~ Sorry about the bfn this morning :( I hate that. It's so dang disappointing.

@pisces ~ I agree that once you form a bond with a child and raise them wether they are your blood or not, they never forget you. I'm glad that you have a good and close relationship with your ex's son.

@ shrader- ya I just use my I phone for everything

@ miracle- you sleepy head, ur luck! My girls woke me up at 6:30 this morning and they never take naps at the same time, I'm so tyerd, got to leave soon to go get a test done to make sure I'm preg

@piecesgirl and miricalmomma lol court order yeah right last time i ended up almost going to jail in court she starts her ranting and raving and then bomb i pop off and i am so more agressive then her yip yap mouth lol my dh poor soul is dummer then shit he always gets shit twisted lol during the divorce we where going for visitation she put in witness list and everything girls she was making it supper hard for him they judge was asking for parenting classes and everything it got so frustrating to see her ugly face at cour my dh said fuck it if he has to go through all that to see his son and fight this naggin whitch he rather wait till he is 18 i am not giving her a dime unless we where able to see him then granted we will support him but she wants to be ugly then so be it i know it sounds uglybut some ppl just need to be treatded ugly.

@ miricalmomma yes i have a daughter just one a lil munskin.

@LSchrader lol i feel u i was just having a moment a cow fit lol but miricalmomma and piecesgirl n tiff made me feel better i feel u i cant even get pregant when they shot the sperm in me and monitor my ovulation imagin that piecesgirl had her failed ivf with my iui it is hard i am constantly banging my head against the wall wondering to waiting for my bl4essing.

@topo- Yeah it's just such a defeated feeling. I know some girls who just stop tracking everything all together and want it to just happen when it happens. I am wondering if I should do the same, but at the same time, I just don't think I can!

I know me stressing only makes it worse, so I have lots to think about!

I actually work for a family law attorney and handle custody battles all day long, so I know exactly what you ladies are talking about!

Well ladies, it's for sure, I'm preggers! Went to get a prof. Test just know

Yay!!!! Congrats!!!

Well ladies, AF came in full force today. :( I was incredibly bummed and had to take a moment to myself and just cry.

I was kindly reminded by my sweet co-worker that our open enrollment date for our insurance is June 1st. I am getting on my work's insurance to be double covered since I am also on my husbands. However, if you are pregnant before your enrollment date, it is considered a "pre-existing condition" and all pregnancy related appointments are not covered. This is the only good thing that I can think of, and could also be a huge factor later on.

Trying to stay positive!