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Hi Ladies.. well no sign of Af yet. I haven't tested at all this cycle b/c I don't like wasting money and seeing bfn's month after month.. year after year.. it's depressing to say the least. So I'm patiently (ya right) waiting her arrival. If she doesn't show tomorrow then I will be late and I will test Fri morning. Like I've said before, I think I ovulated 2 days later than normal and AF will be here tomorrow. of course there is a small little voice inside me saying "what if this is it" I am 41 and been ttc #1 my whole life. If it's Gods will than it will be.

Hope everyone is having a great wed.

Oh Miracle, this will be your first? Sorry I just want to ensure I understood correctly.

Oh my goodness there are suddenly so so so many new people, it's hard to stay on top of everyone's story and where they're at in their cycle!!!

@Miracle- I really hope AF stays away and you get your miracle baby! Praying for you, dear!

AFM: Today's CD8. I don't even know my CD unless I look- it's marvelous!! I don't really like BDing while AF is here (it just gets too messy haha) so last night after dinner my DH cornered me in my closet. It was so unexpected! TMI, sorry ladies :) I think I'm going to stick with my original EOD plan and follow the SMEP. I don't know. I'm trying to not think about it as much with the hopes that does the trick. I do feel less stress/pressure to have it happen ASAP. DH is taking his fertility supplements, too. Hopefully those kick in quick and make his little swimmers strong and F A S T!

Hello to @Skyline, Pisces, LSchrader, and anyone else I may have missed!

@ mirical- can't wait till tomorrow!!! If u decide to test early make sure u let us know! Good luck:)

@delaliluv Yes I have been cramping since I O'd. Today was by far the worst. The cramps, backache, headache, and now the UTI all has me confused!!!!

Jessica, I can totally see how you are confused. If I had a UTI I would be confused for sure. Do you usually have this cramping? If not it can be from the UTI. If it isn't I really hope you get your BFP!!!!!

@DeLaLiLuV it's so annoying right?! i've been more gassy than normal [yikes] also this cycle and we definitely actually TRIED so I'm remaining hopeful but between the amount of bfn's I've had in the past [when not trying, but hoping] I don't want to get too excited. AF is due tomorrow so we shall see -- although my cycles are irregular.

@athena -- good luck!!!!!

Makeupmommy, I was REALLY gassy last week and I never get that way. Did you say when you are going to test? My cycles are relatively regular, although they fluctuate slightly ever since having DD.

@DeLaLiLuV i'm going to test this weekend if AF doesn't come tomorrow...LMP was 11/9 10/9 9/7 8/1 so if it stays around that time frame it should have came already but my app says 12/12!

Makeupmommy, I use an app too, lol. It usually comes around the time my app says, that's why I am waiting until after the weekend if af doesn't come. Ohhhh how exciting nonetheless, hehe. Can't wait t hear everyones results, especially yours since it is coming soon!!