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hey ladies!!

af was due on 12/12 and STILL a no show. 2 FRER were BFN yet cp still high soft closed and having A LOT of thick white/pale yellow cm....i mean A LOT..i never ever have this much. bbs still pinch/tingle, backache still there and headaches beyond crazy!

not sure when to expect AF but just going to go BD crazy until my well woman exam Jan 9th.

@Skyline I don't know when they will come in. I'm assuming a day or two. U/S tomorrow so I'll ask technician.

@makeup-I would go get a blood test done. I think I said this before but when SIL is now 10 weeks along and the first thing that tipped her off was TONS of white cm. She has super long cycles and didn't test positive until CD44 i think.

@LS I go to my gyno on Jan 9th for my annual so I will wait it out since I've gone on to having 60+ day cycles. I will test again next week and see if anymore symptoms pop up. I do feel wierd about the white cm since that is not normal for me.

@football - I'm feeling fine. The past couple of days I had a few brief but strong cramps, haven't had any today and other than BBs still being full/slightly tender I'm feeling pretty good. I was a bit glum yesterday, but working out improved my mood 100%. That is definitely a positive OPK, hooray! You should O within the next 24-48 hours and with all that CM they should have a very friendly environment. ;) (I was completely dry on and around O day.)

@LSchrader - Okay, hopefully it's a good sign then! Are you 12DPO now? About the BBs, even if progesterone dropped, it could just be balancing out or something, but still high enough.

@makeup - Are you sure you cervix is soft? Seems like it should be firm if it is high and closed. Just keep on BD-ing in case you are O-ing late. I hope you get some answers soon!

@Jessica - Keep us posted.

AFM - In case any of you CP checkers are interested, I checked my CP a few minutes ago, still feels the same as it did at 13DPO. Maybe a tiny bit harder to reach this time. At first it just feels like the tip of a nose, but if I feel up and along towards the back (does this mean I have a tilted cervix?) I can feel the indentation and what I am assuming is how "closed" feels.

@skyline-I was thinking to myself as i was reading...i wonder what her CP is. Ha. Glad you posted that. My CP is high, firm and I think closed. I guess i can never tell if it's open or medium. During O it is open and i can tell, but I feel like it's always "kinda" open. It's pretty darn high right now though. I know CP isn't a good pregnancy indicator, but it is different for me.

@Skyline- I'm glad you're feeling well and that working out helped you out of your slump. It's amazing how it can do that, huh? When's your first doctors appointment? I bet you and your hubby are just ecstatic.

Should I stop taking OPKs now that I've gotten a definite positive? I always continue taking them, and I think that confuses me haha. Thanks for all the advice!

@football-I usually test two days in a row. I usually only have one positive though and then the next day it's almost positive. I have heard that you should stop once you test positive though. To me it kinda makes sense to keep testing especially if you are temping and can possible feel when you O.

Thanks, @LSchrader. I agree, it makes sense to keep testing. I like to get a feel for how long my surge is!

Update!!
36 weeks preg
Had my appt today I'm dialated 2 cent and 70% effaced!!!