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@ mirical- thanks, yes I wish I had help so I could take a bath and a nap, that would make me feel better I think but when I get sick I don't get to cuz I have to take care of my girls, plus the baby has been moving a lot today wich hurts my tummy more! I'm soooooo sick

Phew ladies! You have been busy little bees!! Sorry I was MIA all weekend. I had a partylite party on Saturday and then DH came home from Vegas after that. Don't worry @pisces-he totally got jumped ;) I am 99.9% certain though that we missed our window. DH felt pretty bad, but it's not his fault. I have never O'd on CD11 though. How weird is that! Usually I am a CD13 O'er. My cervix was SHOW on Friday, majjjoooorrrr O pains/cramps an dmy temp spiked Saturday morning (although, it dropped Sunday again) and is back to 97.77 today. Since this is my first month of seriously temping, I know it will take me a few months to get the hang of it.

By Saturday, my cervix was tightening up and Sunday it was firm and medium for opening. So I am just not going to even worry about this cycle. I will continue to temp to get in a routine but that's it. Tania said she said November for me as the start of my pregnancy, but I have no clue how that would even happen. We didn't even use the softcups or preseed because I knew my eggie was probably gone.

DH goes in for his second SA on Thursday. I am anxious and excited to know his results. He then has an appointment with his urologist again next week.

@miracle-Oh I am just waiting so not patiently to see if you have tested!

@Lyrah-Welcome! You found a great group girls. We keep each other sane that is for sure. Hopefully you will see your BFP soon.

@Pisces-How many DPO are you? When is AF due?

@tiff-I am so sorry you have the flu :( Just what you need! Get some rest and please take care of yourself!!!

Idk what's going on with this period, but it has been horrible. It's like I've gone a long time without a period when this my first 30 day cycle in a long time. It's been painful and very clotty and I'm talking huge clots. I decided to wear pads this time because tampons are bad for you and I haven't mastered putting the softcup in. So I thought what the hell, but I forgot how yucky pads make you feel. Ughhhh I'm ready for af to be gone.

Antsmommy I hope you caught the eggie.

Pisces shame shame for testing so early :) dh is watching you.

Lschrader I hope y'all caught the egg!!!

Miraclemama I hope that this it for you. I want this for you so bad. You have waited a long time for this.

Lyrah welcome all of the women in here are very supportive and here for you.

Tiff I hope you feel better.

@Lschrader ~ Thank you! You never know though your egg could have hung around 24 hours and you still have a chance AND if not then maybe the end of November is the start of your next cycle that does it?

@Athena ~ I'm so sorry your having a horrible yucky period. I know how you feel b/c I get horrific periods/pms Sucks! I hope you feel better soon. Your comment made me tear up. I hope it's my turn for a bfp too!

AFM ~ Had a crazy dream about me and my bestie (whom in real life is 5 months pregnant) In my dream we were both pregnant and smoking pot. LOL! Too funny! I don't even smoke anything at all in real life..

Miraclemama that's funny, this girl that was a friend of a friend of mine tried to tell her that her dr told her smoking pot would ease her morning sickness. Since this was over 5 yrs ago and pot is no where near legal in Tennessee I think this girl made up an excuse why she was smoking pot while pregnant.

@Lyrah - Sorry about the BFN yesterday, your plot for testing Wednesday and talking DH in to more tests is brilliant. Haha! I'll be keeping my fingers crossed!

@pisces - Go for it! Let me know if you have any questions. #1 piece of advice, do the crumbled cake + icing method, not the cake pop maker method. Those aren't the "real" thing! lol My DH is the same way, he doesn't know how many tests I bought in those two months we were TTC! He would have gotten on to me. lol

@Ants - I hope you got to BD in time and catch the egg.

@rebecca - Hope the TWW isn't so rough for you this time round. Keep your spirits up!

@miraclemama - I'm doing pretty good. Did you have crazy dreams two nights in a row, or was the pregnant pot smoking from the other night? Crazy! lol

@LSchrader - That really stinks, maybe you still caught it... I can't hope for you. ;)

@athena - That sounds awful, sorry you're having such a bad AF. :( Haha! Yes, it does sound like that girl was making up an excuse.

AFM - AF showed up! Woot. 35 Day Cycle. That is within the "normal" range, so I'm at least grateful for that. Hopefully no more 40-50 day cycles. Ugh.

@skyline- YAY! Glad AF showed up for you! Hopefully your cycles will continue to stay regular!! I'm so happy for you!

Yay skyline glad af came earlier. I'm wondering if I did have a chemical, the clots are so large I can feel them coming out.

@miracle, yes! AF would be due on the 25th of November, so it could still be November for me. Although, I will be in Disneyland over my next fertile period....that would be great, however, we are sharing a room with another couple! I won a trip on the radio for four to disneyland and it's only one room. So we might just be kicking our friends out for a bit, haha!

@Athena-I was going to ask if you thought you did. It kinda sounds like you may have :-/ Our first cycle I really think I had a chemical. Horrible AF, clots, and had all the signs of being pregnancy. Have yet to have a period like that since. I was also late. For me though, I take it as a good sign that DH can actually get some simmer's up there for me. Hopefully it eases up on you :-/