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@topo yes I knew that it was an auto correct on my phone I had already hit submit when I seen it lol

Uggh spent the day on the phone with doctors they are giving Eli his 15 month shots early next month then in October he goes back for more blood work if his numbers are low again they are gonna hospitalized him

@LSchrader , Im just here to give you words of support. GIrl, you are really young to imagine that you are out because yo are not. Please, hold on, and receive it from a person that is OUT for two months.
You know what? Please do not lead your future for the words of a person, but do it for the words of the FATHER, and let me tell you that Good Book has tons of promises, and all of i them are for us.
I give you a word and it is that YOU have the right to take part of ALL the things that belong to you as a divine right. Take the promise, see it even when you dont have it.. Give him the thanks!!! Its really hard, but is called FAITH.
Please keep believing, wait and you WILL SEE!!!
Walk on honey!!!!!

@hontcat-thanks for your reply. Sometimes it's hard to let Him take control but I know I need to do that. I am meant to be a mom and I know it. Just hard to see others enjoying the journey you want to be on so badly. I will get there.

@lolee hey hon, I really hope the babies numbers are better. We are all going to lift him up in prayer and keep him surrounded by faith. When My oldest Phillip (almost18) was born and it took them 3 days to realize that his lungs were not properly developed by then he had been 3 days without proper oxygen. They had to put him in a drug enduced coma for two weeks and then they said he would have brain damage and may never walk, talk or be normal. My whole family went down in prayer and lifted my son to up to God and said medical is one thing but faith in God trumps them all. That child who would never walk, talk or be normal according to those doctors made the Varsity football team today. He is first team on offensive AND defense. Receiver ANF Free Safety! He's awesome! He's healthy! He is a walking testament of what God can and will do! #hope #faith Hang in there **Big Hugs**

@honCat always have the right words to lift us all up. I'm so happy that you are still popping in, thank up Sweat Pea!

@jsx, @desertchic and @tiff - Role Call!!! The 28th is fast approaching, we have to start taking these side bets on sex of 'dem babies!

@lsch to answer your question, my FAMILY doctor have me clomid. My OB-GYN was FIRED by me in February. She was so gong-ho and positive 4 months before my surgery and my follow up 4 weeks after surgery, she wanted to flap her jibs for 45 minutes about how old I was & IVF would have been better....blah blah you're 41....I cut her off with the "black girl" hand gesture to be quiet and I paused ....and then I spoke "O ye of little faith, I happen to know exactly how old I am, I have known it all of my life....I also know that God has the final say and i KNOW he didn't bring me this far to leave me" ....and I walked OUT!!!! The doctor who did my tubal reversal is the same Fert doc who did my failed IVF. At 3 months post surgery, I wasn't ready to see him yet so I went to my regular doc who happens to WONDERFUL and she gave me low dosages but is sending me back to the Fert doc to increase to 100 if I am not pregnant this time. He has better equipment than she does so he can keep an eye on my ovaries for over stimulation, which at my age is highly unlikely. I agree with @honcat, keep the faith. Your time is coming sweetheart, I know it is. **big hugs to you too**

@lauren hey welcome! 13 DPO almost there. Did you test at all? Do you have a 28 day cycle or is it longer. I have never heard of twitchy eye but hey what the heck when you are in the 2ww anything goes. The problem wot the 2ww is the rise in progesterone can be so deceiving, it can be a symptom of both. I do hope that this is your bfp. Welcome to our forum family!

Where the heck is @athena? Girl I will send out an Amber Alert for you!

@miracle...@firebug called for you earlier, now it's my turn! Where are ya?

AFM: still nothing to even observe. I almost had some cramps earlier but....no not really. So then I had frequent pee pee but ....could be anything...and thought my nips are sore but....not really too much if you touch them.....I really got nothing ladies...lol.. **shoulder shrug**

Now what I DO have are paying cake orders for September! A baby shower, a party, and a birthday. Also on Friday (this Friday) I have a birthday for one of my employees. Wow! And I STILL have taken the dag-gum class! Yeeeeeeeeeeee Haw!

I'm here Pisces lol. I just have been so sad. I try to be positive, but it is so hard when you see so many people around getting what you want. I just don't know where to go from here. I feel like I will never get pregnant. It's been 13 months and it just feels like its never going to happen. I try to be positive I really do but there is always a cloud of doubt because it hasn't happened. I just don't know what to do at this point. My heart is hurting a lot. It made me feel really special seeing you ask where I was though. Thank you.

@athena honey I knowwwwww you are hurting but remember it is always darkest before dawn. Don't loose hope Athena, look to other avenues. You said you considered Clomid, give it a try and see what happens. The important thing is for you to keep pressing forward. You have no time to waste standing in one place. Athena I tied my tubes almost 13 yrs ago and for almost 13 years I hated myself, I hated my decision, I hated EVERYTHING TO DO WITH BABIES. And God tested me, he tested my faith. I used to pray that God would let me be one of those accidents that got pregnant whole their tubes were tied. And a friend, a close friend who had the same tubal by the SAME doctor got pregnant. I was certain God was punishing me. I was jealous and hateful that I really lost my friend. We speak but not really. I WAS ANGRY!!! and why not me Lord. And one day it hit me ...you have to stop this, "thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife, house, car, and also pregnancy.....it's a sin. The Lord made a way for me Athena and now that I am this close, I can't give up now. Giving up is not an option. And I won't let you either!!! I was a puddle of gasoline with no spark....God gave me that fire and once I started finding joy in the miracle of life and having REAL joy in heart for others around me that were pregnant. Doors started opening that I thought were sealed shut. It's coming Athena, pick your head up, go to the doctor get a plan....I had left doctors who don't believe in me, I kept going to until I got everything I wanted. Be relentless! Don't take no for an answer!!!! Because God said YES!!!! **big big big HuGS***

Pisces I won't be able to get on Clomid until probably December. Dh has to be tested and between work and football he won't have time. The only option my gyno has is Clomid. Tania told me that she thought I needed to see an RE but when I looked into it. The first thing they do is have you lose weight which I have a lot to lose so that is definitely my first step. I've lost 10 lbs but I am kind of stuck right now. I'm very glad I have a friend like you. You always know exactly what to say. I want it so bad, I've been pretty patient until now. I spent time with my 4 month old nephew yesterday and it just made me feel how much I really want it now. It doesn't help when you have a million people asking when you are going to have kids.

@piecesgirl i am here luv bucket here just checking in i got the biggest migrain ever omg my head hurts so bad. what are u doing hope staying busy not symptom spotting aka observing lol sending the newbies wrong bad habbits

@miricalmomma gonna put the amber alert off soon lol where are u.

@ athena8789 i beleive we all can feel u on that hun i been ttc since oct 2011 it is hard and that is why we are all here to uplift eachother which we are all really good up keep the faith sometimes when i give my words of hope n help i need to remember to practice what i preech becuase sometimes i eat my words and if i told u i dnt feel like u sometimes i would be lieing u stay strong k.

@LSchrader sorry about ur and that dame but it is just a picky upper get up now and dust it off and wait to get back to if i where u i would see a fertality specialist because u dnt want to be waiting and trying all this time and something is wrong it is better to know then waste any presious time u may have to obtain that little bundle of joy if i didnt go i would have never found out about my blocked tube i would of never new i had pcos there is several reasons why ttc can be deficult. ny suggestions is go get checked hun see obgyn let them run test they obgyns usually want u ttc for 1 year before the will refer u to a specialist i hope this helps hun. i thought i heard u say someone is ssymtpom spotting who is it they better note

@lolee817 lol that was to funny though dispite the typo but on another note ur son will be in my prayers i know how frustrating being on the phone can be i am always doing so for my husband.

@LaurenB87 welcome and hello sorry unsure if i have welcomed u before or if this is ur first day sorry ttc brain lol

@SkylinePigeon9797 hello how are u feeling today anything new.

afm migrain nothing new anywho how is everyone if i forgot u all the newbies NO SYMPTOM SPOTTING its a bad habbit and causes u to freak out and break things and give the dh or boyfriend or significant other bad ideas on what we do on this forum its heart breaking to spot all these symptoms to turn around and get a dame remember I AM WATCHING U good night my lovley ladies sweet dreams

Thank you pisces and topo

Just remember how short life is and just because you eventually get what you want one way or the other make sure you cherish every moment you have with them cause you never know when God will call them home..

Hi Ladies,

I'm here... Just super busy the past few days. I was with my guy bedding lots, watching dumb movies and pigging out on tons of ice cream (so bad but oh so good) lol
Nipples a little sore starting yesterday which confirms that I O'd a few days ago.. :)

Welcome to the new ladies! I hope you find comfort, joy, wisdom, compassion, understanding, empathy and FUN in this forum like I do..

@Lschrader sorry to hear about your bfn/spotting. I like your cleanse idea though and yes your bfp cycle could still be connected to August like Tania said. Sending you a big HUG as I know you could use it.

@Topo I'm here hon, just busy in a good way lately. Hope your migraine went away. I hate those. I love how much you LOVE your DH. Your both blessed to have one another. My phone has so little storage space on it that I don't think I could even download the instagram app on it.. :( I so want to see your pic's and pisces and lschraders' too.

@Pisces ~ You are approaching implantation time now.. congrats on all your cake orders. I knew you'd get busy doing them with your awesome creativity. I got a order today for my cards for my best guy friend's bridesmaids.. I was pretty happy about that.