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Well Af is due today. I know she will be here by tonight or tomorrow. I tested this morning and got a bfn :( I really was hoping this was my month. I felt so different than any other cycle. I want to hurry up and start my af so I can move on to May. My birthday month.

@miracle sorry about the BFN lady bug. Have you ever considered clomid? Since you have a regular cycle it helps you produce more eggs which give you a better chance of one implanting. I fought tooth n nail to get it because during my IVF they explained to me that hey wanted to transfer up to 6 because at my age the possibility of implant was lower. Just a thought.

@pisces ~ My obgyn wanted me to go see a RE specialist for talk of surgery to have my septate removed. I had a hsg done and my tubes were clear and open, but during my hsg they couldn't see my entire uterus, only half of my uterus. So I was sent to have a mri done of my pelvis area. That's when they saw I have a septate uterus that divides my uterus and cervix into 2 separate compartments... So basically I have 2 uteruses and 2 cervixes. Woman get pregnant but often miscarry with this abnormality because the embryo implants on the septate wall which has no blood flow nourishment going to it and so the baby can't survive there. It's something woman are born with but have no idea they have it unless they go to get a hsg or mri done. It can make it harder for woman to carry full term as there isn't as much room in half a uterus for the baby to grow and c section is how the baby is delivered. Woman can have twins, triplets and such, so I know our uteruses can stretch an make plenty of room. I never went to see a RE specialist or a surgeon to see if I could have the septate removed, which most woman do and go on to conceive...However because this would be all out of pocket for me and that's not an option for me. So you see now why I have the username miraclemama... because at my age and with my condition it will be a miracle for me.

@miracle well if you could loan me those good tubes then I will forward you my uterus an then we'll be two baby making machines. Why don't you move to New Jersey for about a year, infertility insurance is mandatory over there. Then you wouldn't have to pay as much. Then after surgery, you can head back up Cali. By the way this is Infertility Awareness Week and I wrote a letter to my congressman to make infertility treatment part of insurance.

Meant to say in every state.

Oh and Ladybug, I do believe in miracles.

@pisces ~ Good for you for writing your congressman... I agree with you that every state needs to put infertility on the insurance plan. I know you believe in miracles otherwise you wouldn't have had your tubes untied :) The psychics I spoke with last month said carrying wouldn't be a problem..they said I was having issues with conception... DUH..lol Well guess what just started my period like clockwork... it's here. Today is cycle day 1. Forgot to temp today. I will temp tomorrow.

Everyone else AF got me. Today is cycle day 1. I'm ok. Actually relieved to have answers. Now I can get onto getting pregnant in May. My birthday month.

Ladybug sorry the witch got you. But glad you will be able to try again during your birthday month. What day is your birthday? Are you a Gemini or Taurus. As you can tell, I get along well with both...well not Taurus men. Taurus/Pisces are supposed to be one of the greatest love matches but I have proved that theory wrong. DH is a Leo and we are supposed to be the worst love
Match ever...lol but the thing is, my dad is a Leo and i understand them very well. Leo's are all bark but under that they are all heart. In fact the bark protects the bark just like the Lion in the Wizzard of Oz.

Now how did astrology end up in our TTC forum...lmao

Here is to CD1&2 **whoop whoop**

@pisces ~ I am May 26. I am a gemini. My dad is a gemini and so is my sister. Now my guy is a capricorn which is not supposed to go with a gemini but he keeps me stable and practical. I have been studying astrology as a hobby since I was 14 years old. Very fascinating for me. I can do a little bit of charting. You know it goes way beyond our sun signs? We have all the other planets influences as well. Well if my first time temping was correct from last cycle then I ovulated cycle 10 or 11. I didn't even baby dance until april 14. So I missed it by a few days. So I will be SURE to get all the bd'ng in I can on cycle day 9,10,11,12 that I can :)

You nervous to start the clomid?

Wow momma you O early!! Bd early and keep bd till after temp rise!

Piecies I'm good how are you? Where do you live in New Jersey? I live in south jersey Bellmawr is the town! What do you need to know about clomid? I just hope we get BFP soon cuz I hate clomid!!! Lol just hope it works! I did temp but still having hot flashes so I'm sure not close to O which I usually don't u til cd 16-20 I'm a late bloomer!! Loki told my Dh we will be busy for a good week and half the every other day until I get pos opk then everyday til temp rise! Praying I release an egg