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Pisces..hey, lady! There you are, SO good to hear from you. I'm very, very sorry your grandma passed away. I know it hurts, hon. Long distance hug and prayers to you and your family. Praying too for good news about the coverage you need. Try not to stress!

Lschrader. ..woo-hoo! !!!! A great big hug flying your way! After all our little boys, wouldn't it be sweet if you're carrying twin girls? And if Miracle has a girl, too?

Miracle...be safe, dear, and enjoy time with family. FX'D for your specialist appointment. And like someone else already said, it won't be a waste of time.

Zyara...praying for you, too! Be safe getting to Mexico and back. I know you'll enjoy being with family again. Lord willing, you'll be back with a bfp!

Skyline. ..I know, right? I get on to read every day, but just have to fight for time to post! That's just life right now.

Afm...O day has passed. We did the best we could, and had fun doing it, trust me! Now it's the dreaded waiting game. But I'm trying to chill and not obsess. Easier said than done for me! Lol I'm in a good place.

Hi Ladies - Made it to LA. Stopped off and visited my dad along the way. Had lunch and a great catch up. I love seeing him.

@Lschrader - Yahoooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!! 2 embryo's it is! Hope you enjoyed your acupuncture session and are feeling hopeful, happy, calm and taking it easy. When is the earliest you can take a hpt? Or will you wait and go straight to a blood hcg test? Tell your little embies to get all cozy in there for 9 months!

@Rebecca - Glad you had fun baby dancing and ttc with your dh. So the tww begins.

I will check in soon with everyone else when I get some time.

@lsch yayyyyyyyy pregnant until proven other wise! How exciting! I feel like this is it for you sweet pea! You are young and your uterus will receive those babies and make room. I wish I knew everything when I had mine that I know now, that's another reason that I feel so positive. We are all certified fertility specialist in this room. You have prepped your body well. I literally went from let's have a baby and two weeks later I was getting IVF.

@zyara Mexico!! How fun! Relax and I hope you get your BFP in Mexico that would be awesome. I also want you to relax and envision your uterus receiving baby and making room. It is going to happen!

@ladybug (miracle) you also enjoy your trip and pull in that positive energy. Receive it! You thrive from nature and family and LOVE. Driving and soaking on nature along the way is good for you, it recharges your batteries. Send the name of that tea, I am ready now. Thank you for the sidebar emails and keeping me lifted up. You do not know how you helped me these last couple of months

@sky and @rebecca totally understand how busy you ladies are...all hands are literally full.

@rebecca hopefully you caught an egg and you have plenty of company this time. With God all things are possible!

AFM: entering fertile week also I am not feeling hopeful. I feel that something is wrong and I will not be able to complete this on my own but I also believe that God has the final say and he will bring me victory. I just turned 43 and never envisioned that it would be this long and still no baby. My poor husband. I am very aware of how empty my uterus is...does that make sense?

Ladies, I made the mistake of looking down there with a mirror to see how things were healing...it seems as though I can see my cervix (it looks like it's about maybe an inch away from my vaginal opening)...the os looks perfectly round unlike the slit it should look like now that I've delivered vaginally.

(So sorry if this is insensitive) ladies who've delivered: was your cervix low after childbirth? I'm doing kegels like crazy now but I really hope I don't have a prolapsed uterus. :(

@LSchrader- SO SO SO SO EXCITED!!!!!!!! :) :)

Football..oh, sweetie, I hope everything is ok! My only vaginal delivery was 11 1/2 years ago. All I remember was that I tore and they had to put in stitches. Trust your instincts, just like you did with Winston. There's nothing wrong with getting checked out just to be safe!

Pisces...I totally feel where you are. I've been there with our troubles. Hang in there. Keep asking questions if you feel something is off, but always trust God through the process. And you DH LOVES you.

@LSchrader OMG!! I am so excited and happy for you, sending you prayers and lots of sticky vibes! From now what comes next? How long you have to wait for testing, how was the transfer? How are you feeling today? I wanna know everything!! Hehehe

@miraclemama how fantastic you got to see your dad and I am happy you made it safe, enjoy time with the family, hope you have great news for us by the time you get back

@footbal I'm so sorry you are worry, I'm hoping is just that, being worry, and that everything is fine and you'll be great soon. Sending you a big hug!

@pisces I am so sorry you feeling this way, how supportive your DH has been only proves how much he loves you and you are a strong woman. I know The emptiness feeling since every month for the past 2 years I felt that way but I am sure God has great plans for us both and pretty soon this will all be history and we will look back and laught of all the nonsense and stress we were and when we will be holding a little one in our arms the world be different. I don't know you in person however I envision you being a mom so please keep it up, after all this you been through you will get your reward. Sending you lots of love!

@Rebecca thank you for the prayers, they are Mia welcome and most needed. Hope this TWW is not to hard on you and sending you best wishes and baby dust your way!!

@skyline love your little dancing party emoticons lol!! You are so sweet :)

Sending a big hug to everyone else!

AFM so I tested this morning thinking the line will be gone by now but somehow is still there. The funny thing is that I only got 5000 units of the trigger and usually by now is gone (from my previous testing at 9dp trigger) but somehow is still there and I don't know if my eyes are playing tricks on me but looks faint but somehow less faint than yesterday. I was not going to test till next week but now I'm going to buy some more dollar test and take them with me to Mexico to keep testing to see if the line goes away or gets darker. I'm so excited! Could this be God listening my prayers?? So far no symptoms, no sore breast no cramps no nausea no nothing (like previous cycles) the only thing is this morning I feel like a little mini cramp on my left ovary, more like a pinch... I never tested out the trigger so let's hope this is a good sign!

@zyra-I sure hope your trigger is out and this is the start to your BFP!!!! I am glad Mexico is keeping you preoccupied!

@pisces-I am so sorry you are feeling this way, Yes, DH does LOVE you!!! When will you hear back from the military regarding IVF?

@football- Nothing you say in here can be insensitive! I hope someone in here can give you some insight on this!!!

@skyline- Well, the transfer is done, and now we PRAY for implantation of TWO! Implantation occurs six to ten days after retrieval, 1-5 days after transfer. Today would be day one :)

@rebecca-Hopefully you caught that eggie! You are one brave woman...that is all i have to say!!!!

@miracle-I hope you are having a great time with family!!!!

AMF-Well today we are 1dpt. Feeling pretty good. My doctor recommended 24 hour bed rest so i am still at home on the couch. My poor boss! My mom made a great point....I have come this far, why waste it with a stressful day at work.

I just found out today that we have two embryos that made it to freezing!!!! Makes me feel SO much better about this. If this does not work, we have back ups :) I pray that we are able to use them in a couple of years!!!

Hi Ladies,

Well I just spoke with the RE doctor and he wasn't able to view my mri images that I brought with me on a cd from from the mri imaging center from my hometown. We called the facility and they are going to overnight the disc to my dr. He said that the findings in the written report that I brought were pretty accurate. He seems to think I definitely have a single cervix but very long septate uterus. He informed me that given my age and uterus situation that I had a 1 - 2 % chance of a getting pregnant and staying pregnant even with IVF. Not good ladies. I left there crying. He said he wouldn't do surgery to remove the septate wall unless I had already done a retrieval of several healthy eggs. I understand where he's coming from. He is right and that's why I am sad. Since I have no money or way what so ever to come up with IVF money, I have to keep praying for a miracle. I feel defeated and discouraged and really really sad. :(

@Lschrader - So happy to hear girl!! Im sure everything will go well from now on. Just relax and take it easy for awhile

@MircleMama - I am so sorry to hear your news :( I couldnt imagine what your going through. Big hugs to you

AFM - Well nothing new with me. Just been feeling down lately about the miscarriage. Hopefully in april we can get some answers to why this keeps happening.

@Miracle- Oh lady, my heart hurts for you. What did he say of you getting pregnant last year?? What does DP think? Was he there with you. I am so sorry. You will get your miracle. I have said it so many times, God would not give you a taste of what it's like and then to take it away. Whether it be through adoption or pregnancy, it will happen.

@amber- i hope you get the answers you deserve lady.