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I'm in mo we r getting ready to get hit with a winter storm in a day the temp will be 0!

TIFF I think we at getting hit by the same storm. But it's supposed to be in the 20s.

Welp, looks like it was all wishful thinking. Light spotting has started and by tomorrow, I'm sure AF will be full force rubbing in the fact this wasn't my month. Onto the next cycle, again, although I'm thinking about taking a break for a little while. I don't know. TTC has started to consume my every thought, and I so desperately want a baby, that each month AF shows I can't help but get angry with my body.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you, Athena. I hope your DH is right about this month for you!!!

@LSchrader- I will also keep my fingers crossed you don't O until tomorrow! Enjoy your vacation; it's just what you need to keep your mind off the horrid TWW!

EDIT: does anyone have any experience with Fertilaid for men?

@football I was hoping you & @athena tested today. I am praying that "you know who" does not show up for you. I will wait for you two to tear tomorrow.

@purple Welcome!!! I agree with @athena, try and hold out as long as you can to avoid false negative :-)

@lsch I heard that BD'ing before is better anyway. So of you O tonight it may be better. @jsx said that her last BD was the night before she O'd **good luck**

@miracle wow crazy dreams!! I had some weird dreams the last few nights but it's because me and DH decided to watch the tv series the "walking dead" and we started with season 1 on Netflix and we've been on. Marathon. So I think my reason for dreaming all crazy.

@athena when are you testing again? I'm ready for this chain reaction of BFP's to start rolling in.

AFM - I believe I have confirmed O. My temp was 98 today. Also since DH and I are only common law...we decided to make it official. We got our license today and are courthouse'ing it on Jan 7th. So now I need to find a cute short dress and line a photographer and then I'll finally stop bitch'n at him about a real ceremony. Lol He didn't understand why legally common law wasn't good enough for me? Men #weirdos

@Pisces-WHOOOOOOOOO! For O and Wedding! How exciting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Miracle-I mean to respond to you're post. What a crazy dream! Maybe that means you will have a c-section and a baby who loves the water!

I sure hope I caught the egg. I think I am pretty sure I did or will be Oing today. So at least I can BD tomorrow also and hopefully the eggy will last a little longer for me!

@tiff - Yeah, I just heard them talking about that storm on the news!

@football - Bum diggitty! I'm sorry. :( Have you been TTC for 2 cycles?

@skyline- going on four cycles

@pisces - Wish I were closer, I would totally do your photography! Some friends of mine are courthousing it and I was going to do their photography, but then they decided they wanted a destination courthouse wedding and are running off to NY! I'm happy for them, but sad not to be doing their pictures. lol

Anyway, congratulations!!! Very happy for you. :)

@football - How did I get 2 in my head? Blergh. Well... I understand if you feel you need to take a break, but I kind of regret having taken a break... What's done is done, but last cycle things went so well and I know I O-ed and I can't help feeling like I missed a good cycle. Maybe that sounds silly. lol

@skyline- I know what you mean. And I know I sound so silly feeling so frustrated when it's only been a couple months, and some of the other ladies have been trying for years. Each month I keep getting a little hope, only to be let down and sad again. I don't know if I'm going to take a break per say, more like a "stop thinking about it and planning it so much but don't prevent" type of thing. I don't even know. I'm so heartbroken and torn.