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Pisces - if its an ectopic, you need to go to the dr immediately. Please go. Maybe it's just a little bean snuggling in - I had some ovary like pain each time I've gotten pregnant. But it's always worth it to check it out. And never feel like you went for nothing. It's your health you're talking about sweetie! I'm praying for you to get good news!

Skyline - how awful! That's just terrible that this would happen beside you! So thankful they didn't go crazy and shoot anyone else's house up! Glad you're all safe and well.

Miracle - love and hugs to you! Glad to see you.

Lschrader - pregnancy massage sounds wonderful! I could do with that right now. I've been working around the house like crazy trying to get caught up on all the work that's been set aside while I've been carrying kids to one appointment or another. I think I've washed like 20 loads of clothes in the last two days (don't ask), and by night time my back hurts and I'm cramping. Your pictures on FB were gorgeous, your sister did a great job.

Jules - how are you and your dp doing? Any news on your friend?

Afm - trying to balance all the work I have to do and taking it easy when I start cramping. The cramping is normal, I've had it each time, but I can't help having some anxiety. Hate going to the bathroom because I'm afraid I'll see blood. Just trying to pray and stay calm and take it one day at a time. Oh, and I told my dh the morning I tested! Couldn't keep it secret, called him while he was at the Y. He was surprised, to say the least!

As I suspected treated like a pscho at the urgent care. they don't have a in house lab so I will have to wait to the HCG quantitive from my OB/GYN tomorrow. They did the fastest ultra sound..it didn't even look like they did anything & told me to follow up with my OB/GYN & that if the HCG warranted a follow up sono then he would schedule it tomorrow. sigggghhhhhhhhhh story of my life.....thats why I didn't want to go. my side is still sore & tender to touch. is it too much to ask that these doctors not treat our concerns with a little respect. I told them I have one tube and one tube only, I don't have the option of them to make a mistake & loose it

@picses-Ugh for some reason the website cuts off the end of the posts. So from what I read it sounds like you went to the urgent care and they did did a super quick U/S and drew blood? Well, it is very frustrating they did not take you more serious about this. I am hoping everything is ok and its just some normal pain. I know my SIL had that with her first pregnancy and she ended up being perfectly fine. Have you tested again?

I am so frustrated.. Every post for
the past 24 hrs is literally cut right
down the middle of the page. I have
no clue of what half of what anyone
is saying. :(

@Pisces - Not sure what's going
on but from what I gathered in
trying to just guess what your post
is saying is that you got a pos hpt?
Had bad pain, went to ER and have
to wait it out to see what's going on?
I hope this is your bean snuggling in
at last. Fingers crossed.

@Skyline - From what I gathered after
reading half your message is that there
was gun shots, gang related next door
to you last night? How scary. Wow!
What un unsafe feeling for you and
your family to feel. I am so sorry.

AFM - Anyone know how to stop reading
only half the messages here? Is it this site
acting up?

I tried to type this post centered to
the left of the page and not all the
way across the page. Hope it helps?

@miracle - It happens whenever
a long line of text is posted with
no breaks, usually when a link is
shared, if you don't break it and
start a new line, it causes the
glitch we're seeing to occur.
I always have to copy the post
and paste in another document
to read the whole thing when
this happens. @pisces was worried
about it being an ectopic
pregnancy and the people at the
ER didn't seem to take her
concerns (wanting to protect her
good tube) seriously. Hopefully
her OB/GYN is more helpful!
And yes, our next door neighbor's
house was shot up and one guy
wounded. We are trying to figure
out our options, we are
underwater on our mortgage,
so we are truing to see what our
options are. :-/

@skyline - Thanks for the tip on copying and pasting text into another program. Oh man that really sucks about the gun shots being fired. I hope that something good comes about for you guys regarding your home situation. How scary and worrisome for Pisces to be going through this pain right now not knowing...

@pisces - I hope that the pain has diminished. I am keeping you in my prayers right now.

They said my betas say I'm not pregnant.
Possible chemical and that's why
my cycle was early and I had
Such a faint positive after my
Cycle ended. Sono wasn't
Very telling so they want to
Proceed with the HSG on wed
And they said this will be a better
Look at the tube & hopefully it's
Open or they can get it open.

I liked that today my Reg doc
Did take the time to listen to
The whole story and not brush
Me off.

My side does not hurt much but
It's very sore & tender to touch.

@pisces- I am sorry about your negative beta and
the possibility of a chemical. Did your doc explain
why your side hurts so much? I am glad that they
are still moving forward with your HSG this week.
At least it's something to look forward to after
hearing news you didn't really want to hear. I
am sorry lady. Praying for good news at your HSG
and a starting point for what's to come.

@Sky-UMMMMM what?! That is so scary!
What in the world?! I sure hope your neighbor
recovers. Holy moly! I am sorry to hear about
you being underwater on your mortgage. That
must be just a terrible feeling. Can you refinance
or do a loan modification? I am nervous about finances
as i approach my due date as well. With me not going
back to work, it is just scary. I know we will do what
we need to do, and i can always find a job, but I
think the unknown is the scariest.

@miracle - Your post came through fine with you
adjusting it. I am trying the same. I don't like this
though!

@Rebecca-How you feeling? When is your US?

AFM-I am having a rough start to my morning!
Just slow and not feeling so hot. I know the flu
is going around, and i REALLY hope i am not coming
down with something. My work is throwing DH and I a
shower tomorrow. I am really excited for it! Should be fun!
I hope we get some much needed items. To my surprise, we
barely have any clothing for her! I always thought that
was a go-to for people to buy for showers. Our first one,
we didnt get any clothes! I am sure we will tomorrow though :)
I have my 34 week check up on Thursday (blows my mind) and
then at my next one, i get my final ultrasound. Very excited to see
how much she has changed and how big she is. The last time we
got to see her was at my 19 weeks ultrasound! Feeling very tired
and ready to meet our little girl!

@sky ok I just saw the post sbout
Your neighbors house OMG
That is so scary. I wish you
Lived closer to me since I am
Very much into real estate these
Days. I am done with class on
Dec 12th and then I have to study
For the state exam. My DH
Is into investing and fixing
Them up so we decided that
It would be easier to get my
License + if and when I ever
Get pregnant, I can stay home
And just do real estate.

@lsch which brings me to you
Ever thought about real estate. You
Make your appt's on your time and most
Times take baby along with you.
My teacher said she had three kids
And with real estate she never had
Any of them in day care when they
Were young.

@miracle so ladybug you are 11dpo?
I don't want you to feel left out,
Your little ladybug is coming...
I know it's very discouraging, I'm about
As down n out as one can be right now
But I've come too far to give up now

I'm 9dpo and i keep having at like cramps just on my left side no spotting I've disappointed my self and have taken 2 test early and BFN.. Today I'm at home sick sore throat and stuffy nose. Food doesn't taste right. Finally got that weird taste out my mouth. Hopefully I get some good news. My af is due Sunday I'm gonna test my final time Friday.it kinda just feels like af is coming but I never had symptoms of af this early always the day before and the week before I'm eating everything in sight. So I'm kinda confused