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@Mrsrogers ~ A lot of people don't know how to handle this kind of loss. The emotions come and go like a tidal wave. Let the tears fall. Make sure you are getting your rest, eating and keeping your strength up. Give yourself lots of time to grieve. I am so sorry. I wish there was something that would take away your heartache.

Thanks @miracle, it's never any easier or any different, no matter what kind of loss, it's all raw and unnatural and strips away all the hopes and dreams you've had for the future in an instant :( I think the fact I still feel pregnant and have to wait to see my dr and get a D&C is the worst part, now I know that there's no hope I just want it over and for this sickness to be gone, just seems like a cruel joke my body is playing on me, making me still feel pregnant when I'm not :(

mrsrogers~ so sorry to hear about your news, how terrible & cruel the world can seem at times. I do hope you feel better soon. sending hugs your way for you & your dh.

Sky~ I love how your mind works on getting dh to have tests, that's the way I have to do it, the not so obvious way! Saw your pics at the game, awesome!

LSchrader~ Any sign yet? I do so hope your time is soon!

Rebecca~ loved the announcement and you can now breath a little easier. You have been so brave & positive, you certainly give me inspiration for if & when we go through it all again.

makeup~ Gabriella! What a beautiful name & the shoes-adorable!

miracle~ hope the news is good for your mum. cant imagine how hard it is for you & your family right now.

hi every 1 we are home sorry i havent been on in awhile as you all may have seen , the twins are here ,, i will go in details of what happened at a later time but heres a pic for those i dont have on fb ,, especially for you @ miracle ....

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Oh, Lolee! They're adorable! You did good work, mamma!

Well my mom is in surgery right now. She is having a full hysterectomy. She is in the best hands. My sister lives near the hospital so her and my mom's husband are in full support for her. It's a big surgery with at least a month of recovery. I will see if I can drive there mid next week and help take care of her. I'm ok. I prayed about it and gave it to GOD. I had a good cry out of worry and sadness for her but praying all goes well.

@Lschrader ~ Any news? Af or bfp? Have you tested? I'm eager if you can't tell. lol

@Lolee ~ Your twins are precious. Congratulations to you and your family. So happy for you. Thanks for posting a pic for us.

Hey ladies. AF hasn't shown yet but I am sure she will any moment. I have a little brown tinged cm, only when checking cp. I tested just a bit ago because we are doing stuff tonight that could involve me enjoying a beer. Bfn. I know some women don't get their bfp til after AF should show and doesn't. If she doesn't show today I'll test again tomorrow with fmu.

My mom came out of surgery and is in recovery now. Praise GOD! I am so very grateful. Maybe I can start to breathe again soon.

@Lschrader ~ I hope Af stays away for you. There's still hope. It's not over until AF shows in full flow.

Hope everyone else is having a good day.

Miracle my mom had a full hysterectomy almost 14 years ago because she had really bad endometriosis. The recovery was tough but she was fine within 6 weeks. I think the biggest change will be the hormone patches. At least that's what my mom has to use.

Lschrader fingers crossed for you.

Lolee those babies are so precious. Wonderful job mama.

@Lschrader- did you test?!?!?

@miracle- I'm so sorry but glad she got the medical help she needed!

Right now I'm so angry! I was EXHAUSTED yesterday. So much so that I took a four hour nap late it the evening (8pm). I don't ever nap because I usually have a hard time sleeping. Well, sure enough I had an extremely difficult time sleeping. I woke up often, was hot, tossed and turned. Well I was hoping today I'd get my 3rd consecutive temp rise, but it was really low. I'm thinking it's just because of a terrible night sleep so I discarded it. Praying I get the final rise tomorrow. Now I'm really nervous. I had a huge temp dip and a huge rise followed by another rise and then today. Ugh. I hope I ovulated.

I found when I discard CD12's really high temp, FF gives me crosshairs. I'm not sure if I can/should do this, though....I did only get like 2-3 hours of sleep before temping because I was awoken by a phone call that I didn't answer. My gut tells me to discard.