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@football- We all get it and it is really hard. Like i said yesterday, every time i log on to FB there is a new pregnancy announcement. It's very hard to see. Maybe a solution is to cut out social media for a while. If you find that it is bringing you down and putting your focus on other's instead of your journey, suspend it for a while. I think you would feel a lot better if you did reach out to your friend though. In her defense, she has no clue what it's like to have to try and try and try. She hasn't gone through the heartache and suffering. My sister (who is 27 weeks along) was complaining about feeling fat to me yesterday. She knows our struggle, and actually we started trying at the same time in the hopes of getting pregnant together. I just replied to her saying that I would give absolutely anything to feel fat from being pregnant. She then said she was so sorry for complaining and being insensitive. But the thing is, I am her person so I want her to complain to me, so I told her that. But I told her she is very lucky and to not take that for granted either.

I can tell you that I will not be one to post every moment of my pregnancy on FB...simply because I know how much it hurts when you want it that bad. I don't want to make any other woman feel sad and feel the way I did.

My sister-in-law is also trying. I have a feeling she is pregnant and just not telling me. We had a big talk about me wanting her to tell me and how I don't want her to feel bad or scared to tell me. She said she got her period, but I just have a feeling. My in-laws are doing to visit her this weekend too, so I just have this weird feeling. I am trying not to be jealous (if she is in fact pregnant) because I know she will be before us. She is family, so I need to be happy!

Sorry for the long post!!

@Lovelife07- I have heard different things about b/c. I went off a year ago just to get it out of my system. I have actually heard of women going back on b/c after trying for a year or so and then getting off and getting pregnant right away. I think it leaves your system pretty quick though.

@pisces--have you tested again???

Pisces I agree I wanna see these tests.

Miracle he has been pretty wonderful. I actually ordered some lingerie to surprise him :)

football - don't feel bad. We all deal with feeling like that at different times. That's what's so good about this forum. We can come on here and let it all out, and everyone understands.

Lschrader - if your sister in law is pregnant, I hope things work out for her. I know it will hurt, and there might be times you get jealous, but I'll bet your joy for her will overcome all of that and you will be happy. I'm in the same boat with my sister in law. I'm happy for her, but part of me is just so sad.

If I ever get pregnant again, I wouldn't announce it at all. My kids might figure it out because they've seen me sick and pregnant twice now, but I won't tell anyone. It's just too hard to have people happy and excited for you, then having to tell them at 16 weeks or so that the baby died and you don't want to talk about it. (And then having to deal with them either avoiding you for a month or every time you see them they just look at you with pity.)

Sorry, I'm a little down today.

pisces - can we see a picture?

@pieces

POST THE TEST, POST THE TEST POST THE TEST!!!!

@rebecca-Totally. This is why i love this forum so much. I can be selfish and say the things i would never tell her. So thank you! I know I will be so happy for them, regardless of my sadness. I know my time will come!

@pisces-seriously lady, get with it and post!

The test from Tues & Wed are posted I tossed the one from this morning but it looks just like the other two.

#197726 and #197727

http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/res/img/bbtcharts/mychart-264866-78173.png

Will you ladies take a look at my chart. I just feel like my numbers are all over the place. I swear i am temping right, but I just don't know what I am looking for...

Pisces-There are lines for sure, i just can't tell if they are evaps or not. The one skinny line looks pretty good. Have you tested with anything other than the $ store tests? It seems weird you would have SO many evaps.

@lsch ever the expression "just my luck" that's what it is. Lol. I even walked all the way to the store by my job and they are out of Harris Teeter brand, the oNE fRER they had was all bent up andof course they are fully stocked with clear blue easy and we all know that is an evap waiting to happen so I walked back out. I'm just waiting for the witch at this point.

Lsch your chart looks like you ov'd cd 15 based on temps.

Pisces I've had evaps like that :(