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@tiff thank you!!!! I am patiently waiting my turn, God told me long time ago to have patience and he has slowly, one step at a time given me the tools to TTC. In case you don't know I was in a difficult marriage. It started out blissfully happy as most romances do. We were defying all the odds (he was Mexican, I am black...he was divorced and struggling to finish school and me a single parent ...I worked two jobs to put him through his last year of college. And as soon as he graduated, we bought a house....great jobs and as soon as I got pregnant he started revealing his true self, he was a mean drunk. Mean to my son when he was drinking. When I said I didn't want any more kids with him he lied and claimed to have a vasectomy. Faked me out by pretending to be sore down there. 6mths later ...I was pregnant. I tied my tubes. I knew it was wrong but I knew the more kids, the less chance I had of getting out. When my baby was 3 I left. I spent time alone just casually dating but trying to find myself and I prayed 9 yrs ago to send me the love of my life, somebody worth putting my tubes back together for , somebody that who deaerved me and all the love I have to give. Who doesn't resent me for being successful. Years ago a psychic told me that the love of my life would wear a uniform and here he is an Air Force man ... And after 5 years I untied my tubes in jan and I am waiting ....

@lsch sounds interesting and I have anemia too.

@tiff I am 7dpo or 5Dpo depending on when I really O'd . Still too early to test. I don't even have any. If my temps still look good over the weekend I might give it a try. My chart looks great right now but I have heard of awesome charts that end up in BFN. So I am not getting uber excited. The bbs thing is different but I don't know if I made them sore or if they got this way on their own??? If they still sore tomorrow then maybe. I do have an OPK or two, I read that those can read positive because HCG and LH are so similar. Hmmmmm???

@ pices- I'm so sorry, when was your mc, how far along we're u?

@tiff what MC? Huh?

@ pices- miscarriage

@ pices- lol!! Sorry I thought I read miscarriage but I just re read it and it said marriage

@tiff lmao I mean I was on elliptical machine when I typed it...lol..

Hi ladies,
I have been ready this forum for the last few weeks and firstly want to say thank-you.
The support you have for each other and the strength and faith you all have is amazing.
Just reading from the sidelines has given me help and advice when I needed it and smiles every day!

So my story! I am in Canada and have to credit the system here for being extremely fast in reacting and helping. I came off the pill and kept thinking I was pregnant, turns out I have 56 days cycles. So longer than a two week wait for me!!!! Diagnosed with PCOS.

I went to the Dr's and was referred to a fertility clinic, and with cycle monitoring and clomid (I think) I was blessed with my now 14 month old daughter.

We are now TTC #2. I am waiting for my next referral so thought I could spend the months wisely! Have used OPK's once (got positive and BD'd appropriately :)) and the next month maybe waited too long to use them as had negative every time. I am temping but know that won't be much use until AF arrives. Did have a spike the last few days but it has dropped again?!?!

All very unknown for me at the moment but am getting lots of info from all of you - so thanks!

Good luck to everyone

P.s. how do I work out my luteal phase??

Hey Trouble (@introublealot) what cycle day are you on today? And what type of a drop. Welcome by the way. We are glad that we are of help. We are a silly bunch but this group of ladies are folks that I admire and adore greatly. The way you judge character is how a person behaves when the going gets tuff. and in this forum the going gets TOUGH sometimes and as you have read sometimes the going is EASY like all these BFP's this past month. As you can see, nothing is off limits for discussion here. So welcome, kick your shoes off and stay a while.