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Guess I was seeing things, woke up this morning to very light pink spotting. It is only there when i wipe. I hope the other ladies get good news

Pumpkin. Hoping for bfp and not pms for you What job would you like to get and would provide best through a pregnancy? I'm sure with what you have said you will get to pick from both How good would it be to get a choice of job and a bfp

39. How are you? I want to bounce up and down on the toes for coming anywhere near you I'm smiling while I bounce cause she deserves it!

Miracle. How are you? Did af come? Did you test again? Hope your ok

Calvin. Has your temp gone back up? Looking forward to seeing a bfp from you this month

Meg. I'm sorry it an emotionally Crap time for you but I'm glad you are able to go through it together. I hope talking about it with your dp helps bring some peace

Woozle. Are you ok? I know you had your hopes up this cycle. It can be hard when all the signs point to pregnancy and then af shows. Get your dh to give you a big hug from us all!

Hi ladies, i never got a regular period. Just bled 1 day and spotted brown discharge for 2 days. I tested yesterday at lunch and BFN!!!!! Im still cramping lightly. I gurss its a weird period.
Good luck to all who are testing.

Newbie to these discussions. Will be turning 43 in Dec. Single, never married, never pregnant. Very conservative woman. I've struggled for many years over the idea of having a child out of wedlock. Well, I'm told I need to attempt right now or my fertility may be lost forever. I can't wait for Mr Knight in shining armor. Was going to do IUI last week but there was a cyst on my ovary and the doc wants to wait until next cycle. My AMH is .12 otherwise normal labs. I'm perfectly healthy and body mass index normal. I've never had any issues with my lady parts. Normal periods. I'm super anxious though. I should not have waited so long but hind sight is 20/20 right? I'd love to hear positive stories of IUI in your 40s with a first child. Thank you!

Miracle. Are you taking vitex? I was taking it all month and wasn't getting proper periods so have gone back to taking it CD01 to ovulation, it worked better last time when I took it like this. My main worry was that with so little blood how could my uterus lining have been thick enough to support a pregnancy? Think everyone reacts differently and you just have to adjust it to your own body. for that darn witch catching you!

SMP. and welcome! I understand exactly where you are coming from, I didn't meet my husband until my late 30's and was starting to look into alternatives. I think it's a brave and positive decision you are making. I haven't tried the iui route yet but can definitely offer support and encouragement, I hope your ttc journey is short and sweet

So is anyone testing over the next few days? Hope the stayed away from those due af

Kerzie,
Yes my temp went back up. It's zigzagged alot this month, but I'm back up in the 98s now. But I'm 10dpo and still bfn. Sigh. I just want to see something!!

Hey ladies, 10dpo for me today and i'm pretty excited. I got a super faint barely there positive yesterday, faint enough I was questioning it's existence. Anyways, I got super impatient, and I tested this morning, and it's dark enough to wear it's ALMOST a standard positive. So i'll confirm it Friday with a digi, but i'm pretty positive about it xD Good luck to all the other ladies for you

Congratulations Pumpkin!!! Yes! Good for you!

Hey ladies been watching all of your stories and hoping to see bfp. DH and I all but decided to stop actively trying since it seemed to be causing more stress on me. Still exercising and trying to lose weight which has been a slow process and I've had a cold from hell the last 9 days. As some of you know that keep up with me getting DH to bd is also a slow process and I've pretty much have learned to say "F" it. But of all times he got frisky last night and just so happens I'm in open window even though I suspect it's a miss. I had lots of O pain Friday so I'm guessing I'm probably 3 DPO so bd last was well needed I do not believe anything more than a good nights sleep and a smile will come of it. Always a small chance though.

Hi Kerzie i take vitex everyday cuz is in my multi vitamin that i take. I was not aware of it at first. Im feeing better.
Good luck ladies and congrats to all bfp.