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Aww thank you Kerzie and clan,
All I saw was a shadow :( its gone now, have got sdrug tests and will try one tom, not sure whether to try at a diff time though, don't know about u ladies but by the morn I have a bladder full (Niagara Falls comes to mind) and wonderin if its a bit weak, but I figured either way if I was preggers it would show sooner or later so will wait it out and yes that was the late night at friends, she had a lot to talk about, men mostly grr
39 bless ya, hows it going, tell us the goss on this BD incident, sounds funny already
& to all, have a super duper weekend wonderful ladies -x-x-x-x-

Hello kerzie I really don't know what date I will start the second trimester. I don't even know how far gone I am right. I only found out I am pregnant on Wednesday. I haven't been to the doctors yet.

Kema. Got my calender up on my phone. If you were roughly two weeks when you tested it will be the second week in August. So your job is to relax and enjoy the summer.

Pink. Testing can be so frustrating. Line vision is the worst but if some of us ladies are seeing something too..... So so so so much luck with your next test

Thank you. When do you think it's a good time to tell the manager. I was planning not to tell them until 3 months.

Kerzie I think you want to see those lines as much as me when someone I know posts and see them even when they are not there lol -x-

Kema. It doesn't hurt to have a quiet word early on so your manager is aware that you can't do certain things. It will also explain frequent visits to the toilet. If (God forbid) anything goes wrong then your manager would know why your mood is different. You could always ask them to keep it quiet until you are happy to share.

Pink. Phatgurl must want it as much as I do too. And all the others who voted positive. The pic with the grey (cushion?) Is much clearer than the other. I hope this is it for you!!!!!

39 - seriously? If rabbits are a good sign then perhaps I'm in trouble! I've been seeing a lot of them in my yard lately. They dart in front of me when I get home. LOL My dh wants twins afterall.... I'd be thrilled with one healthy baby! I'm curious also about the funny bd, but up to you whether or not to share.

Pink - I looked at your chart too and you could have definitely implanted late. Test again in 2 days maybe?

Kerzie - Take care of yourself and try to get to sleep. Too much Mrs. John Wayne I suppose? Hope you get your much needed rest.

Miracle - thinking of you!

Kema - It is entirely up to you whether you tell your manager now or not. I guess it depends on the job that you have AND your manager. You are the best judge there. I didn't tell my boss until 3mos because I knew it wouldn't have been kept a secret.

ATM - I am 7 DPO on this site and 6 DPO on Fertility Friend. LOL I tend to agree with the 7 DPO. My temp is the same low temp as yesterday morning. Although my thermometer died after I saw the reading so I'm off to buy a new one tonight. Go figure. LOL My cramps/achiness are less today, but still woke up with a headache. Pollen is really bad in my area right now. I'll let you know if something changes, but I do update my chart daily.

Hi ladies
So what i was fearing happend!!!!! I lost the baby, i started bleeding heavy Wednesday night. My scan pn Thursday showed that i lost the pregnancy. I got a d&c today...im completely heart broken. All i can do is cry...my husband said he is tired of seeing me suffered, so he said he is done trying...we got into a fight as well......i dont know what to do ladies, should i give up?
After my recovery my dr wants to start a whole bunch of testing but hubby dont want to...

Miracle, first of all take a long deep breath, what you and dh have gone through is a long awful emotional ordeal and it will take time for you both to see past today, dont think/worry about anything just yet, give yourselves time to heal, your dh has said that as he obviously loves you so very much and that love will also turn round again to show he will want a child with you once more, the row is nothing and you can take comfort in each other when things have calmed down a bit, cry it out if it helps and you will pick yourself up again, (like us amazing woman do), when your ready, one day at a time, I promise it will get easier/better and we are all here for you in the meantime

Hi,

Miracle. I don't think I can word it better than pink. I'm so sorry this has happened again to you Emotions are running high for both you and your husband, he just wants to protect you. Before you can even think about trying again you both need to heal and process everything. Of course you want to try straight away, you have all the hormones bouncing about your body. We are all here for you in this difficult time

Baby. Got a positive opk at last so at least I know I can take a night off soon. If rabbits are a good sign I'm going to the pet store tomorrow. I'm only tired as ds has been getting up during the night so dtd gets further and further into the night. I'm always too wound up to sleep after. Could the cramps with the low temp be implantation?