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It is a little quiet around here. I miss you all as well and am a little sad that I am not sharing the same experience this cycle.
However, my bleeding has subsided. It is very light now. I got my test results from yesterday, my level went from 6 to 2. So even though I am still disappointed about the m/c I am happy that I won't have to have a D&C. My dr. was very positive that things should return to normal soon and that he's not concerned with me having any issues in the future.
I am going to wait one cycle and then we are going to try again. Research shows that women who conceive within the first 6 mos after a m/c have over a 30% chance of not miscarrying again and having a healthy pregnancy compared to women who wait longer. Also I think that after one cycle I will be ready to try again b/c it was so early that I am not emotionally traumatized.
So I'm not temping right now b/c my temps are probably all over and I am not using OPK b/c it would be a waste of money. Just waiting for AF to come back. I can't believe I am anxious for her to be here lol

Zuberi: hope you get your positive OPK soon! Hopefully you will soon see a pattern to your cycles. It would be really nice to see that you O at the same every month and that your luteal phase is the same length every month.

Topowifey: have you been back to the dr? Any new news? I don't know much about IUI but I'm more than willing to learn through your sharing but you may have to break it down a little for me

Still praying for both of you to get your t his month!!

hi amanda i agree it has been so quiet on here i guess everyone has been bummed i know i have i am back on my medication i take it to insure i make more follicals to release at least two follicals for a better chance of pregancy being i have so much going on in there i guess. i am on clomid and injections i checked in with doc i am going to do two back to back iui this time because just one didnt work last time this will be the last my insurance covers for iui if i dont sucessed he wants to do hoprscopy surgery of my uterus and do some scraping i am a bit bummed but having all the same symtoms early and now i know not preg symptoms medication symptoms they apparently mimik pregancy symptoms go back to check follicals next week so keep fingers crossed..
i am glade u are feeling okay i can only imagine but u are so postive i remember when i went through that i have had six misacarriges and one where there was no baby just sack..

Hey ladies! Anything new? Have either of you O'd yet?

Topowofey: I really hope this time it works. I'm sorry to hear that this is the last treatment that your insurance covers.

@amanda lolz nothing new babes I hope this is my month to I'm almost all tapped out of funds so dnt know what to do I'm so scared I have doc apt tomorrow so let's see how many follicas of it looks like a better month wt better follicals n better sperm as we'll as better lining I will let u no tomorrow stay posted

Hi Ladies,

Nothing new. got a dark okp line today but not quite a +. I think tomorrow will be a for sure +. But I told my dh that it was + at dinner so we are going to start on our 5 days of bding tonight and.......hopefully i can get 6 days to seal the deal. . Hope we catch the egg this cycle.

Topowifey: Good luck at the dr tomorrow. Im praying for you.

Amanda: how are u?

Topowifey: Good luck at the dr today!

Zuberi: Yes, I hope you can catch it this time! How's your CM this cycle?

AFM: Doing fine. Basically I'm just bored out of my mind. I'm still thinking about TTC everyday but can't do anything about it lol I've read about being super fertile after m/c.. wondering if there's any truth to it. Some sources say yes some say no but most say it's a very short window (the kind that you miss if you aren't trying the first month after m/c). I am not keeping track of O so we are going to have sex like normal (like before TTC) and not use any type of b/c. Whatever is meant to be will be. So not trying but not preventing this month. It's tempting to take my temperature every morning or look for CM but I promised myself I'm going to relax this month that way I'm ready to jump back on board next cycle. Now just wondering when AF will come back around.

I thought that not TTC would make time go by faster.. I was wrong! All I can think about is being able to try again.. ugh!

Good morning ladies,

I got a + this am on my opk, so i made a lunc date with my dh to bd. Didn't work out too well last night he fell asleep. Lol. i pretended to be mad this am before he left for work. That's how i got the lunch date. Lol. I didnt have a + opk so it would have only been practice.

As far as my CM goes it was egg like at around 3am when i wiped after using the bathroom. . . . I guess the tracker is off by two days. I think i will O tomorrow.

Amanda: im glad you are feeling better. I can understand how u must feel trying to wait until to next cycle. TTC becomes such a big part of our lives and it literally consumes us. But hang in there. Everyday that passes brings you a day closer to trying again.

Topowifey: we need to hear a good report from the Dr. we are keeping our fingers crossed.

I will check on you guys later.

@amandayes boo u r fertaile after a mc speaking from experiance I will keep u posted @zubreri congrats on her positive time to bd lolz ur to cute pretending to be mad I do it to lol I will keep u posted to my doc appt is 100pm cali tim so stay toned fingers crossed ladies

Topowifey: where in California do you live I live in Oakland.

@zeberi I live in san fernando valley