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Lolo - sorry to hear about your family. I hope that they are ok and safe even though they lost their home.

for you and I hope that AF stays away!

Lolo Im sorry youre having such a bummer of a time right now. I hope your family's home isn't too badly beaten up. Hurricanes are horrible. big hugs I really do need to find a new ob. The only other one I know of is a male. Im not big on a male snooping around my lady parts. Plus hes kinda creepy. I went to him last time i was pregnant. My boyfriend at the time did not like him. I didnt hate him, but I switched doctors because it made my bf uncomfortable. (but my bf was controlling and jealous so thats why). I might go back to him. Im moving 2 hours out of the city once I have the money to move. So I'll have to find an obgyn there. There;s only one I think. The delivery hospital is 30mins outside the town I'll be living in too.

ako hey, how ya doing? Why would anyone put someone down for conceiving. thats horrible.

babydust OMG! Congrats!!!

swanky GOOD LUCK!

whileimwaiting still early. Good luck waiting. I dont have that kind of willpower. :)

Jayne Im sorry AF showed up. Good luck next cycle evbuddy!

ababy I hope life is treating you well. I understand not trying because other things come up but I wish you good luck when you do start trying again.

wishingwewere CONGRATS!

maggie CONGRATS!

AFM: Im over on the June board now. AF started on the 6th. And she's still going, which means I should ovulate when I see my BF this month. I'll try to get some BDing in even with his daughter there. I think were gonna have to invest in a lock for the bedroom door. haha.

DanielleH13: Thank you. But thank God no one was down there. None of my family live down there. It's basically a vacation home that my Grandparents had built. They and a group of friends, picked a spot years ago, before I was born, and built a type of community down there and when they passed away their children , my parents & uncle took it over. And thankfully it is still standing, just a lot of damage was done. I'm kinda glad I didn't get the chance to make plans to go down there this year. But my parents and inlaws did. Now it's just a wait and see if the damage is too dangerous for them to still go down.

_snowwhite_: Thanks. My parents vacation home is right on the beach and has a sea wall. The wall is pretty badly damaged and crumbling in certain parts and the beach front windows were all broken and the doors were broken as well. Parts of the patio was also severely damage and sunken. There was also a fair amount of sand inside as well. Not as bad as some very old pictures I saw from something like 20-30+ years ago where I guess we had like 3 feet or more of sand in the house. But still...doesn't look like an easy cleanup and fix.

I'm a bit surprised that there aren't more options for OBGYN's. I don't blame you either...I was never very comfortable with male doctors. Even though my FS is male. But my OBGYN is female. Hopefully whoever you switch to will listen to your concerns and help put your mind at ease.

AFM: Still feeling a bit down today. I thought I was feeling some cramps earlier which made me nervous but who knows really. Just pray the witch stays far away!

Lolo - glad to hear know one was down there at the time. My family also has a vacation house situation like that but its in the mountains. The biggest issue we've dealt with was when the city water main broke in the front of the house and over 20,000 gallons of water went through the house. Lots of repairs, but there is a gorgeous new bathroom out of it!

Hi Ladies!

I took another test this morning and it was another BFN. I have a feeling AF is on the way so I am expecting it. Feeling bummed about it. Was really hoping this was our month. Oh well.

We have had a very rainy morning and it is still raining. The drive to work...sucked. Hoping it stops by this evening, for my commute home.

DanielleH13: Oh I bet that's also a nice vacation spot to go to. That sucks about the water damage...great about he updated bathroom. Sad part is is the community down in Mexico had finally gotten things to where they wanted it. And my parents not that long ago had just bought new curtains for some big windows facing the ocean. The glass broke in those windows and I am pretty sure those curtains were ruined. Thank God for Insurance that's all I gotta say. I am just glad that no one was down there. It's so hot down there during this time of year that I think even our close friends that live down there leave for vacation to cooler climates during this time...lol.

OK ladies well, hope you all have a good day...I will be checking in.

Good morning ladies!!

LOLO: So sorry to hear about your family's home.. That is terrible and I will keep you all in my prayers.

Babydust: Heck yeah!!! Congrats, girl!!!!

Congrats to all the BFP's!! FX for those in the TWW!! Sorry to those who got AF.. :(

Yall, I think I am in the process of ovulating.. I don't temp, but since I have become so in-tune with my body and have studied my CM like nobody's business the last 5 months, I really think I am about to ovulate!! Dh and I BD'd for the first time since the MC on Monday night or should I say early Tuesday morning.. I had noticed before then I was getting some stretchy like CM. It wasn't much though.. Yesterday and today I have had loads of CM and even sperm (still?). We had made the decision that we would NTNP and let nature take it's course. Kinda scary bc I can't be totally sure that I will actually ovualte and would have no idea how far along I would be if I do get pg. Then I think to myself, does that really even matter to know a specific date? I just want my baby!!

Is this possible to ovulate so soon after a MC?

Bumpin - you can actually ovulate 14 daysish after your miscarriage starts. You could kind of see it as day 1 of a cycle. Certainly that varies - but I think that's why the recommendation is to wait until one cycle after miscarriage to try again - to give the lining time to build back up, etc.

I am not really feeling any pregnancy symptoms this month. I'm 8 DPO - should know something by Friday. The TWW hasn't been too bad for me this time - I think that's the positive side of trying for so long and having such a rough go at it, I guess. AF should start Tuesday if I don't get a BFP.

@Atalk - how were your numbers?

I got my BFP on the 5th! I'm 4 weeks today, woo!

Well, I think it's official. The arrived.

I guess it's onto another month of TTC. Onward to the June board. I will try to check in on you ladies to see if there are any more BFP's.

OMG OMG OMG!!!
I thought I was so out for the past 2 cycles as I haven't seen my DH for 5 weeks. I didn't even look into the forums to not get depressed.
As hasn't showed up yesterday I took test this am. This is a miracle.
After so many chickups it's finnaly happened. Now I am just hoping this one sticks.

Good luck to all of you still waiting for your turn to see. Keep your hopes up.

Congratulations to all of you having May babies.