Group for the BFPs
Hi, girls! I just wanted to create a group for all the BFPs we have gotten. There have been so many lately and i have gotten to know a lot of you and i don't want to go to another forum. I feel bad talking on other groups about my bfp when others are still trying. So I figured we could talk about things in here too! I am 6w5d today. I have a 2yr old dd and am 39 yrs old. Just starting to get a few symptoms and my eye is twitching out of control. Hope to hear from my other bfp friends!
1355 Replies • 2 years ago
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Tryingafteraloss, talk to your dr about pgp and spd. With both pregnancies i have had spd and it went undiagnosed until now. I never knew my hips were out of align and the pain while walking, rolling over in bed, stairs, or getting dressed is immense. My hips are twisted almost 4 inches out of align. I have been to a chiropractor 2xs this week to get them back in. The hormone relaxin relaxes your muscles and puts more pressure of them. It has helped tremendously. I have to go back every 2 wks until birth because the relaxin. Pelvic girdle pain is in the hips and back. May be worth looking in to.
I am doing good physically, atm. Was up with my 2yr old last night. Compalined of a headache at 530pm. Layed her down and them by 8pm she had a 103.6 fever. I got it down to 101.4 and checked throughout the night. Now it is 102.3. Debating on going to work. Never had a call off so am going to see how she feels by 8am. My mother had a stroke 3 days ago and is in the hospital. Hope to hear something soon.
2 years ago • Post starter
Congratulations to the new BFPs!
@Trying - she looks so cute! I'm so glad everything is on track. I have my anatomy scan in 13 days and I'm starting to get anxious about it.
@Kelliria - I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. That must be very stressful. I hope its mild and she makes a quick recovery. Your little one as well.
@dragonfly - What a cute basketball of a bump! You're so close - almost to the 30s!
AFM, I had a bit of a breakdown this morning. I was up at 530am with horrible restless leg syndrome, but it was too late in the night to take another pill since they make me sleepy and I had to go to work in a few hours. I just walked around suffering, then just lost it after about 45 minutes. I was so tired. I AM so tired now. I cried and cried and my hub finally woke up and calmed me down, but I was majorly freaking out. The pacing was so much like towards the end of Oscar's pregnancy when I couldn't sleep and the kicks kept me up all night...I just can't lose another baby. I can't survive it. I'm very nervous about the anatomy scan and seeing if she's growing on target. If she isn't...it's not good. I have to keep focused on the positive or I'll lose it again and I'm at work. I just need sleep at this point. Don't mind me. I'm having one of those days. I'll probably feel better tomorrow.
2 years ago
@kelliria I'm so sorry about your mom. I can't Imagine having to deal with those emotions whilst pregnant. I'm praying she makes a full recovery.
@calvingirl ughhh I'm so sorry your going through this, I know those feeling so all too well. I had a similar breakdown about 2 weeks ago due to extreme fatigue fro, working a hectic schedule, long hours, and work travels. My body felt like it was shutting down. And I felt so much guilt that I was overworking myself and dooming my child to the same fate as my daughter whom I lost. And I felt incredibly sad for my daughter, all over again. I left my office and drove home crying. I had to call a close friend to meet me at home and call me off the ledge.
I know it's so much easier said than done, but please try to stay calm and positive. Remember the power of positive thinking: your baby will be fine. Your anatomy scan will show a thriving, healthy, growing baby. You will NOT lose this baby!! I hope you're able to get some rest soon and that it makes you feel better.
2 years ago
I hope everyone had a good and restful weekend. Mine was rough. My little sister found out she had a missed miscarriage and had to have a d&c. So it was a heartbreaking weekend, to say the least. Seeing her heartbreak and tears was so hard. It also brought a lot of emotions from my loss flooding back in. Not to mention, I'm in the same week I lost my daughter in October and I'm trying to deal with those emotions. It's just a reminder that this life is so unpredictable.
2 years ago • Edited
@neomasie. I'm truely sorry to hear about your little sister having a mmc. Try not to worry about your little one. I remember early in my pregnancy when another lady and I were to have our baby around the same time and she had a misscarriage and the same thoughts crossed through my mind. I had to keep telling myself, just because it happened to her, doesn't mean it will happen to me. Now that my pregnancy has progressed farther and am able to feel him more and more, he reassures me that everything will be alright and not to worry. With that, I am sure your baby will be fine.
2 years ago
Neomasie, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister :( what an awful weekend, and I completely understand the anxiety you must have too. How are you feeling now?
We are currently half way through out holiday, it's all going well and im ok if i stay out of direct sunshine, i had 20 minutes burrying my husband on the beach with my children the other day and I felt like I was going to collapse and throw up all at the same time, it's been around 40'C here so very hot. I was ok again after a nap and have stayed in the shade ever since.
I'm currently just over 25 weeks, baby literally never stops moving, is awake kicking all night and all day so I think he/she many be a handful when they arrive lol. You can now see lumps and bumps poking out of my tummy when they are moving. Is a lovely feeling.
How are all the other mama's progressing? xxx
2 years ago
Lakarmw I am happy to hear you are enjoying your holiday! Definitely take it easy and try to stay cool.
I am counting down until I can feel those kicks and movements! Currently 7weeks after many loses and just embracing all of these strong symptoms :)
Nausea has hit full force if I don’t keep food in my belly and the exhaustion is unreal. I find myself at my desk during work nodding off between conference calls!
I go in next week for my first ultrasound and am anxiously hoping to get to hear/see that little heartbeat!
2 years ago
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