Group for the BFPs
Hi, girls! I just wanted to create a group for all the BFPs we have gotten. There have been so many lately and i have gotten to know a lot of you and i don't want to go to another forum. I feel bad talking on other groups about my bfp when others are still trying. So I figured we could talk about things in here too! I am 6w5d today. I have a 2yr old dd and am 39 yrs old. Just starting to get a few symptoms and my eye is twitching out of control. Hope to hear from my other bfp friends!
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Hello, RooRoo! Congrats! Anyone pregnant or not is welcome. I just made the group because i felt bad for posting about me being pregnant when others are trying so hard. I almost felt guilty talking about it because i was so excited. I love your user name. My daughters name is Ruthie and her nickname is Roo Roo.
Glad all is well, Dragonfly. I can't wait to see updates of Isaiah. I just ordered my breast pump cause i have to go back to work at 6wks. I got the spectra 1.
As for me, it has been a bit stressful. You ladies are actually angels in disguise. I never told you all but i moved to alabama when my dd was 2m because my bf wouldnt work and was not a part of the pregnancy at all even though we lived together. I stayed at my moms in alabama for 17m and talked to my bf every day and flew up every 3m to visit for 2wks. He had convinced me he had changed and that he was working and wante us in his life so we moved back a yr ago. Since i have got pregnant this time, it has been the same. We live with his parents and he has worked 4months out of the yr. He watches her during the day while i work 8hrs a day. I have bought everything for this baby and fix her dinner and bathe her and have her after i am off. We have separate bedrooms. He doesnt even brush her teeth or help potty train. Hasnt acknowledged this pregnancy at all or went to any appts, like last time. He has never bought our dd a bday, christmas or any present. So i have decided to move out in March and me and the girls are getting our own place. I dont want them growing up thinking it is ok for their man to be a dead beat while they do all the work. It isnt fair to any of us. I love him for giving me two girls but there is no in love any more. We havent even carried on a conversation since i have gotten pregnant. Sorry to unload but i had no one to talk to about it and i just needed to get it off my chest. Thanks again for listening to me ramble.
10 months ago • Post starter
Thanks Kelliria! That's part of my issue is I want to talk to people and ask questions but there are several women who are struggling to concieve and I feel bad bringing anything up. So this forum is wonderful. My user name is actually my oldest daughters nickname too lol but her name is Serenity Jade and Roo Roo just came out and stuck one day lol. Your the first person I have ever met that had the same nickname for theirs, that's awesome. I know we don't know each other yet but if you don't mind I'll add in my 2 cents worth and say good for you!! Being on your own with your babies sounds like a better environment than the stress your currently dealing with. I can't even imagine what that would be like. You must be a strong woman.
10 months ago • Edited
@Kelliria. I remember you mentioning the first pregnancy and will send you a private message. I'm proud of you for being strong and doing what is best for you ansld your girls as they are important and they are going to need you to stay strong for them.
@RooRoo. Love your daughters name. It reminds me of Queen Serenity from Sailor Moon.
10 months ago
what an adorable little bean, @beaut1ful8 my daughters heartbeat started off quite high in the early weeks but has been steadily around 140 throughout this pregnancy. i dont know if that helps you much!
@dragonfly23 how are you and little Isaiah doing settling into home? and how are you feeling?
@RooRoo welcome and congrats on the BFP! You are more than welcome.
I had an appointment 2 days ago and this kid is already 3/5ths engaged. I had a strong feeling that would be the case and i can already feel shes settled down in there. It sure feels like lightening. i can eat better without feeling like im going to pass out after a glass of water. her kicks arent so much in my ribs anymore and i have a lot of pelvic pressure and lightening crotch and anus-fun stuff. I was scheduled for 37+3 but due to her being engaged, increased cramping and the fact that i have the cerclage in and i cant go into natural labor, doc says we may have to go in a week earlier at 36+3. I think its overkill and hope we can still make it to 37+3 and i believe we will.
nonetheless, it seems i should probably start getting serious about packing some bags around here...
10 months ago
Neomasie, omg! That is so soon! If the dr feels like it is necessary, go for it. I understand your worry though. 37 wks sounds much better. I can't wait to see your baby. Are you nervous? I cant believe we are all so close! After work yesterday, i carpet cleaned my room which is huge. It is a full, finished basement and took till 8pm. Hoping all the work will help engage her! Seriously starting to nest.
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