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Hello Kristis! I'm sorry the baby making dept isnt going as planned. But I'm glad you have a great doctor that's willing to start testing. Most drs want to wait a year. Even though bbt charting only shows when OV has already occurred, it's a great tool for those that dont OV at the same time each cycle...like me. It's the only way I know I actually OV'd. I'm sorry about your m/c...I'm going thru my 3rd now so I know how it feels. Hopin you wont have ro squeeze your boobs much longer.

Aw, thanks waiting~
I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through right now. You seem like such a strong and resilient person though for having that much faith and keep on going after 3xs. I hope this is just a stepping stone to get you to getting your family.
I have a hard time not feeling a little resentful of people that get preggers so easily and they aren't even trying. And when they don't take care of themselves while they are carrying. I try and check myself when I feel that way. It's crazy though how it seems like everyone around you is getting pregnant all at the same time.
Oh well, I know whatever is meant to be will be.

Thank you sweetie. We all get aggravated and jealous when people are highly fertile. I have so many cousins and friends that are knocked up right now. And it's so easy for them! Take my friend for instance, they wanted a baby but werent really trying...yet they had sex once during her fertile period and boom she's 7 weeks preg! ONCE! Dh and I have been banging our brains out and all we get is AF and losses! It sucks! Sorry...going thru my anger stage lol.

Kristi dh and I have been trying for a year now and I may have had a chemical last week. I try to pray when negative thoughts come to mind. One thing that has helped me get past some of the negative is I had a fertility reading from a psychic, if you want the info I could shoot you a message. We have become a close knit group of friends in here, welcome and feel free to vent. We all have at one point or another.

Kris - welcome!

Holly - hope you get your BFP tomorrow.

Tara - are you still nauseous like before? How do you feel physically right now?

Wellllll....while we're venting....dh is driving me insane. He wouldnt talk about the pregnancy and get excited for fear it wouldnt work out so I couldnt talk to him about it. It was like he put a wall up between him and me & baby. I understand him though. But now that things have gone downhill and the pregnancy isnt considered viable...he wont acknowledge that either. He keeps saying the numbers are wrong and nothing bad is going to happen. Before hand he wouldnt talk like it was real and now he wont talk like it's a mc. If I start talking to him about how I feel or say 'i dont want to go out with this going on', he replies 'I dont know what you're talking about..nothing's happening'. I try to be serious with him but it doesnt work. I'm dealing with this alone just like last time. Dont get me wrong, he holds me when I cry but he always ends up saying 'dont know why you are crying though. Babies are fine'.

Hopeful is one thing but denial is another...

Tired, nauseous maybe a couple times a day, and nipples still sore. Temps are high (still temping so I can see when/if it drops so I can keep a closer eye out for bleeding. Afraid I'll bleed all over the couch or something if I dont have a big pad on.)
Lots of pulling pinching. Feels like my hips are being pulled on by a string towards my uterus. I'm sure my body just hasnt gotten the clue yet.

tara i think its harder for men when they cant see anything eg he not seen u bleed so for him its not real to him u are preg . does that make sence ? ( and they say us women are hard to understand lol )

and im with everyone else i think they got your numbers wrong your in my thoughts and prayers xx

i do keep spying on u all lol

hi to all the newbies

and to those who have got their