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Man Tara I thought my f-in-law was bad. He is nosey and thinks that everything we do should be ran by him. Which is why when we decided to buy a house we didn't include him. We live in the church parsonage so we were kind of under his thumb, but now we will be completely on our own. He hasn't even seen the house we bought because he would've made up reasons to complain about it even if there was nothing wrong because we picked it out and it wasn't his idea. Good luck with yours.

Do you temp do you temp vaginally or orally?

Thanks athena and waiting. I appreciate the praise. As for me and the bf, we actually haven't seen each other since New Year's day. Been a couple of weeks and before monday we hadn't talked since Jan 4. He kinda shut down on me for all the reasons i mentioned earlier. Monday, when he called me at 2am (he just got off work), we talked for 45 mins because the week before that i wrote him a very long letter telling him how i feel since he wasn't answering my phone calls. I just typed a letter (didn't want it to look all messy) and went by his house after work and taped it on the door so he would see when he took the dog out. We talked about what i wrote and he told me the reasons why he does what he does to me.

I've finally finished my FAFSA for school and submitted it, so i'm waiting to finish this whole financial aid thing and then tomorrow, i have to meet with an academic advisor to determine what classes to enroll for and then get books and my parking permit for the semester. Just so much to do. All that matters is that i'm getting all my priorities straight, getting in school and still working (trying to find a better job too) and once i get my momentum going there's no stopping me. I told him that sometimes i need help being motivated and he told me he doesn't want to have to do that because he wants me to be self-motivated which i understand, but with my untreated hyperthyroidism, i don't think he understands how hard it is for me to be motivated. I will be getting back into the gym as well and go on a diet plan so i can lose this extra weight that could cause me to get diabetes. Diabetes runs on both sides of my family, plus the fact that i have pacific island blood in me is like a triple threat for me. I'm gonna give Slim 4 Life a try for a month and see what that does for me and if i get the results i'm looking for then i'll have to look into a weight maintenance plan.

There's just so much going on right now! Whoo.

1st blood test they was unsure if I was ov but 2nd test showed I am ov some of the hormones were a little low but nothing that would stop us conceiving so I got to have my thyroid tested as having trouble losing weight and a family history of thyroid problems and just got to wait for dhs test on the 29th and get results the week later if his are all normal then we being refered to a fertility specialist . When dh gets paid I'm going to buy preseed and soft cups and just keep trying . I feel like a weight has been lifted I have been so positive lately that my mum and bro thing I been taken over by aliens it was just yesterday 101 things were going around in my head I just had to keep myself busy so I didn't have time to think I'm now feeling good again I'm happy with my life and we can do anything also in a good mood as dh might have a new better job as this job they still saying he being made redundant then say nope next month and this has been going on for about 9 months now

Well it's 11pm and I am once again googling pregnancy symptoms.
The 2WW.... Dontcha love it????

So I am 8dpo, and am feeling.... "off". Have the symptoms happening:
Sore bbs (with weird blue veins), lower tummy cramps, bloated, eating LOADS and so very tired. Of course, this could all be leading to AF. I just feel .... "weird"....

We'll see.

CD 14 and cervix is starting to change . About 5 more days til OV! Getting excited!

@athena- ROFL! I'll pee on a stick, but I'll stop at putting a stick in my WhoHA! I just temp orally. I read it's the same reading as long as you dont drink anything before hand. I just pop the thermometer in my mouth the second the alarm goes off.

@enbutler- I'm happy to be done with the financial aid stuff..now I just have to pay it .

@Lammy- taken over by aliens?...It's the invasion of the body snatchers AHHHH!!!! Or better yet...It's the invasion of the baby makers!!! AHHHH! I'm so glad things went well today! You and I will be doing preseed and softcups together. Praying this is our cycle!!! We need this!

@jojojo- Love it with the passion of a thousand freakin suns! My computer has been running so slow this past year from all the google searches. And I think to myself Well, you know the answer so you dont have to look next cycle ....but I still regoogle it! Being 8dpo, you could be already experiencing some symptoms. When will you test?

@waitingonmymiracle Yeah the whole google thing is just TOO tempting huh? :-)
I am having symptoms, could be the same as just before AF thouGh...but bbs feel huge! Lol. And am eating like a crazy person. This can be usual for me too, but seems extreme.
Did a test today and BFN. Did it in the middle of the day though and I think my urine was very diluted from the masses of water I drink. Going to "try" and be strong and wait until after the weekend if AF doesn't visit. Let's see hoe strong my willpower is! Hahaha xox

Ps: please excuse my typos. baby brain? Hahaha

@jojojo- Bigger boobs are a hug plus! Not surprised by the BFN but hopefully in a few days it will develop ! With being early, the diluted afternoon urine could definitely be the cause. I notice my opks will be very light if my urine is diluted.
I have a feeling your willpower will fade tomorrow morning ! But kudos if you can hold out!

@waiting, financial aid still isn't completely finished, but i'm still able to enroll in classes, which is what i did today. My first day is next wednesday. Monday i'm going down in the morning to get my student ID and my books. I now have 4 classes each Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. One at 8am, then 9am then 10am and the last class at 11am. Really excited to start school. The only sucky part about my schedule is that on weds i won't been getting much sleep cuz i get off work at 4am then i have classes starting at 8am and my last class at 11am to 11:50am and then i start work at 6pm and i live at least 25-30 mins away from school. It's going to be exhausting, but i can do it.

Gonna go squirt some Preseed into my Va Ja Ja!!!