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It's hard cause with my daughter, she was a complete accident! One accident and 8 weeks later I was dying with morning sickness.. Second pregnancy, completely accidental yet one accident and I miscarried at 6 weeks. Third pregnancy, got it the first try! Miscarried at 6 weeks. This time, trying since November and nothing! Now I know I can't complain compared to most on here but I am thinking to myself "WTF!" Lol
I do also believe that it will happen when it's meant to happen. I refuse to get depressed and stressed over it right now, I might feel different in a few months but for now... For now, I am learning all I can about TTC from this wonderful group of ladies I have met on here and realizing that there are many many more out there dealing with way more than I am :-)
Good Luck ladies!

Took a test at 6:30 after a 3 hour hold...negative but not surprised . I'm soooooooooo tired!!!! Going to watch Grimm on the dvr with dh and then head to bed. I'll wake myself up early tomorrow so I can test and let you ladies know.

@xomandy- I've taken Fertilitea but now I'm doing preseed and softcups post to keep the swimmers up there in Cervixland! Read dh your post about the message you got from your sister...he said the answering machine would have gone thru the window!

@athena- I'm sorry lovebug! It's amazing how our pets just know. There is no sugar coating it...the shower will be rough. But the upside is that cause you're hosting it...you're so busy doing stuff, there isnt much time to think.

@staggart- Good luck honey! Cant wait for an update!

@soarys- That breaks my heart. My sister is an RN in labor and delivery some of the stories I hear lately have been making me cry my eyes out. Praying for your sister in Christ! I'm stressing too worrying that my sister is going to start TTC again before I have one.

I want to share something with all of you. I completely forgot about this this morning. When I woke up, still groggy, I heard a soft voice whisper, " Romans....8.....18". I just remembered it about an hour ago so I grabbed my bible and this is what it said, "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.". Talk about a word from God! Keep holding on ladies!!!

Well my oldest niece is 11, she was a surprise baby born 8 days after their first wedding anniversary. They started trying for a second baby and my sister also has pcos, so it took 5 years to get my 3 yr old niece. She went on her bc to regulate and went off it and bam got pregnant. I was in the room with her when she had my 2nd niece. She had decided not to have anymore for fear of having another girl. She forgot her bc when they went on vacation and couldn't go back on it til she got her cycle but she didn't cause she was pregnant and she is having a boy. She is due april 4. So not much longer esp since she is already having contractions.

I'll be ok. I just want it so bad. Has anyone ever tried the sperm meets egg plan. I downloaded the free book from amazon.

The one thing I'm dreading is everyone asking so when are you going to have a baby.

The one thing I'm dreading is everyone asking so when are you going to have a baby.

For SO many years after my son (the past 4 and a half tyvm) My reaction to "when are you going to have another?" has been... "When Sheep fly, and man goes back to the moon"
I was afraid, that maybe I waited to long, My husband is QUITE a bit older than I am,(he will be 53 this year) so when all the pregnancy symptoms came... I was sooo stoked... then... when the other stuff came, at first I was ok... then... I broke down (for like a day... ) then...bounced back... by reading my bible, and praying on Gods will <3
Thank you for that Quote from Romans <3 how strange he can whisper just the right words <3

Another BFN... Sigh

Sorry to here you got on one too @waiting!

I'm trying to stay hopeful. As long as Stays away- then there's still a chance! I still have a few days before she's supposed to show up, so all I can do is keep praying.

Thanks for sharing the bible quote! It was a great one. It's really amazing how he can speak to us.

Well my temp took a major dip so the BFNs I have gotten are correct, the witch will be here tomorrow as scheduled! Trying a few new things this round so I have high hopes!
good Luck everyone and I will check back after church to see who got their BFPs!!!!

For the ladies that got BFNs like me, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! Next month will be our month..

Well ladies I have some news. Dh and I got $1000 in travel vouchers last summer for taking a later flight when our plane got over booked. So we sat down last night to decide where we are going. We decided on Mexico, which we have been there before, but I decided that we should hold of ttc til we go. I think it we will be safer that way and we can just enjoy our trip. So I'll be out of the ttc journey for the next 2 months. But I'm not going to waste this time. I'm going to spend this time losing as much weight as possible and getting as healthy as possible to make it that much easier to have a baby when we get back to ttc starting in Mexico. I am also coming up with a better plan of action in this time. I love all you ladies and will still come on here and chit chat.

Athena - enjoy your trip!

Soarys - his age shouldn't affect your fertility chances. Whenever you think about your sil getting pregnant before you just imagine how miserable she'll be changing 2 in diapers. :)

Xomandy - If you don't use Pre seed I've heard Mucinex can help if you don't want to take Robitussin.. I've been using Vitex, but it's hard to know if it's working because dh & I BD so infrequently.