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Well Ladies, thank you for the advice, wishes and thoughts !!! They are well needed....I was having chest pains this after noon along with some minor pelvic pain when sitting, and my back has been killing severely all day, soooo we called a couple doctors, and they said I would have to go to Hospital....( that is a whole other story) You ahve to remember I ahevent been pregnant in 9 years, nor have I seen a OBGYN, as I really dont like Doctors...
soo I went fr anxiety, told them I took pregnancy test and they came out negative, Doctor has told me to try to go to ER to get ultrasound or sonorgram to confirm since its too early to test.....sooo Im in MD, and not sure where you laides are but ....I went to a hospital to get diagnosed and got sent home with the same answer I went in with ...is the test is negative for now, but I have to wait a week or two.......needless to say 6 hours at the ER, to find out what I already knew really blew me away, expecially since I have a heart murmor and with chest pains and the anxiety I was worried more about me than anything else....:( Sooo keep pryaing for me and keeping your fingers crossed, but I think for now Im gonna sit back and go with my instinct as it appears they seem to think its impossiblee. The nurse even said to me, that ohh you have a tubal, you can't get pregnant, who told you that it was possible??? I mean really......this forum and thousads of others are out there, with girls twice my age conceviing after tublas, yes man are eptopic however, how can you rely on hospitals that tell you what statistics have proven wrong ??? Im sooo upset tonight :(...
But anywyas....luck and dust your way....I hope you all have better luck than me !!! :)

Aprincessa - I'm sorry that things didn't go the way you hoped. Almost all OB offices have sonogram equip, so if you can get into one that would be my suggestion. Talk to them about the milk production, tell them you have had your tubes tied but you feel pregnant and are worried it could be ectopic. I can't believe the hospital wouldn't do a sonogram. If it's ectopic & ends up being in your tubes it could rupture, and the faster they catch it the better. Maybe because of how early along you would be they wouldn't be able to see anything on a sonogram. Anyway, good luck with it. I sincerely hope things turn out well.

Alishakaye - you know I'm a POAS addict, so I wouldn't be able to wait. I'd have to test today! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!

Hi all, I hope everyone is doing well. My is due today and no sign yet. I took a test yday and got another - it was a really strong dark line so I'm overjoyed. I just wish I could fastforward to 12 weeks so I knew everything was ok. to you all x

Hey ladies... I'm officially up to 10DPO and still going crazy. Thank goodness I have to work late tonight so I don't have a chance to test, otherwise I'm sure I'd be ducking out of the office at like 2pm to take a HPT. ha! I'm still getting a lot of pressure in my lower left abdomen and my lower back is really sore, plus this morning I noticed my bbs all of a sudden have more visible veins and have grown at least a half a cup size (not that I'm complaining the girls need to grow). So as of right now I'm just counting down the days until Friday so I can test... hopefully stays the heck away, so I can get my !

aprincessa17 - I'm so sorry you've had to go through that, honestly doctors suck sometimes! Plus to have a nurse tell you something can't happen when plenty of women have gotten pregnant after tublas! Just keep your head up and I second phatgurl maybe try using the lactation angle and see if they bite. Honestly I had to go to the er for kidney failure this past spring and I had to literally yell at the doctors to do something, because they stood there and accused me of pill popping. Sometimes a little voice raising really does the trick. Good luck!!!

to everyone!!
Tara and Alishakaye I hope you get your !!

ok so after the trip to hosp i was pretty sure i wasnt preg but there is something inside telling me other wise . i had a dream about a am i wanting this too much ??? or am i really preg and my body is trying to tell me .

i have a scan form so will try to get up there tomorrow to either have it done or book it . im scared of what they will find .

i believe in god i believe everything happens for a reason . parying that i have the strength to carry on this journey that is plan for me .

on the plus side only 5days till wedding

Morning Girls!!! I got a doctor's appointment!!! Unfortunately another bfn this morning but when I talked to the nurse she scheduled me for an appt wednesday at 2:30! Ya! And she put in a blood work order at lab corp so I get to go in today and have a quantitative blood test. So tomorrow I'll know if I'm pregnant. If I'm not... then I have a feeling I have PCOS. I looked up the symptoms last night and I have many of the symptoms...like 80% of the symptoms . But I thought...hey I had spotting! But apparently spotting is seen in PCOS. But mine was so miniscule and light. I've spotted in the past when I have an overflow of tissue buildup and this was nothing like it and I've had nothing in 2 weeks. Either way at least I'll figure out what's going on and I wont feel as crazy. I'll just feel broken . I think I'm gonna puke!

@lammy-You're in my prayers hun! Enjoy getting ready for saturday...go get a massage. It will help a ton....trust me!!!!

@sami- I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and praying that this is your time.

@aprincessa- some people can be so cruel. I like that we have ERs readily available but the employees are so tired with dealing with crap after long shifts that they just lose their compassion. I'm sorry you had to deal with that

Well, still . Have just been chilling out last couple of days. As chill as I can for a Sunday yesterday - Church from 9:45am - 12:30, 50th anniversary party for friends from 1:30-4pm, choir practice 5pm-6, church 6-7:30, you know, slow..... Anyway, been keeping busy today cleaning house. Thought a lot about poas today, but decided to just leave it alone for a few more days, probably next week, another self-imposed 2ww. Still don't think I've "given up" just trying to relax about it all...

waitingonmymiracle - please keep us posted on the blood test & dr appt results (after all, your post brought us all together in the first place)

lammy - I totally agree, enjoy your day Saturday & a massage would SO be helpful

aprincessa - I know exactly how you feel, been there with rude ER staff myself, several times. I would also agree, see what the dr has to say, even though they told you to go to the ER, they are capable to help you in the office, almost sounds to me like they just didn't want to deal with it when you called, so they just pushed you off on the ER, especially considering your other health concerns.

Blood has been drawn! Lot's of twinges in lower abdomen today. Talking out loud to myself and God today going over facts. So, if I spotted 2 weeks ago, that could mean I was about 3weeks. So today I'd be about 5 weeks. Some women dont get positive urine tests til 7 weeks. Is there still a chance ladies????!!!!! Ahhh freaking out!

Waiting - of course there's a chance. My ex's wife was 5 most pre with twins & didn't know. Anything is possible!

Waiting--the spotting could also have been ovulation, which would mean you'd be about 4 weeks instead of 5, and even more reason to still be getting BFNs. ;)