Group for the BFPs
Hi, girls! I just wanted to create a group for all the BFPs we have gotten. There have been so many lately and i have gotten to know a lot of you and i don't want to go to another forum. I feel bad talking on other groups about my bfp when others are still trying. So I figured we could talk about things in here too! I am 6w5d today. I have a 2yr old dd and am 39 yrs old. Just starting to get a few symptoms and my eye is twitching out of control. Hope to hear from my other bfp friends!
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@kelliria I'm so sorry about your mom. I can't Imagine having to deal with those emotions whilst pregnant. I'm praying she makes a full recovery.
@calvingirl ughhh I'm so sorry your going through this, I know those feeling so all too well. I had a similar breakdown about 2 weeks ago due to extreme fatigue fro, working a hectic schedule, long hours, and work travels. My body felt like it was shutting down. And I felt so much guilt that I was overworking myself and dooming my child to the same fate as my daughter whom I lost. And I felt incredibly sad for my daughter, all over again. I left my office and drove home crying. I had to call a close friend to meet me at home and call me off the ledge.
I know it's so much easier said than done, but please try to stay calm and positive. Remember the power of positive thinking: your baby will be fine. Your anatomy scan will show a thriving, healthy, growing baby. You will NOT lose this baby!! I hope you're able to get some rest soon and that it makes you feel better.
1 year ago
I hope everyone had a good and restful weekend. Mine was rough. My little sister found out she had a missed miscarriage and had to have a d&c. So it was a heartbreaking weekend, to say the least. Seeing her heartbreak and tears was so hard. It also brought a lot of emotions from my loss flooding back in. Not to mention, I'm in the same week I lost my daughter in October and I'm trying to deal with those emotions. It's just a reminder that this life is so unpredictable.
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@neomasie. I'm truely sorry to hear about your little sister having a mmc. Try not to worry about your little one. I remember early in my pregnancy when another lady and I were to have our baby around the same time and she had a misscarriage and the same thoughts crossed through my mind. I had to keep telling myself, just because it happened to her, doesn't mean it will happen to me. Now that my pregnancy has progressed farther and am able to feel him more and more, he reassures me that everything will be alright and not to worry. With that, I am sure your baby will be fine.
1 year ago
Neomasie, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister :( what an awful weekend, and I completely understand the anxiety you must have too. How are you feeling now?
We are currently half way through out holiday, it's all going well and im ok if i stay out of direct sunshine, i had 20 minutes burrying my husband on the beach with my children the other day and I felt like I was going to collapse and throw up all at the same time, it's been around 40'C here so very hot. I was ok again after a nap and have stayed in the shade ever since.
I'm currently just over 25 weeks, baby literally never stops moving, is awake kicking all night and all day so I think he/she many be a handful when they arrive lol. You can now see lumps and bumps poking out of my tummy when they are moving. Is a lovely feeling.
How are all the other mama's progressing? xxx
1 year ago
Lakarmw I am happy to hear you are enjoying your holiday! Definitely take it easy and try to stay cool.
I am counting down until I can feel those kicks and movements! Currently 7weeks after many loses and just embracing all of these strong symptoms :)
Nausea has hit full force if I don’t keep food in my belly and the exhaustion is unreal. I find myself at my desk during work nodding off between conference calls!
I go in next week for my first ultrasound and am anxiously hoping to get to hear/see that little heartbeat!
1 year ago
Neomasie thank you! I sure hope you are feeling better this week. Loss is always hard and when someone you know goes through it it’s hard to not bring your own emotions to the surface. Hold your sister close and be the support that you needed through your loss. Sending lots of love and happy vibes!
1 year ago
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