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Group for the BFPs
Hi, girls! I just wanted to create a group for all the BFPs we have gotten. There have been so many lately and i have gotten to know a lot of you and i don't want to go to another forum. I feel bad talking on other groups about my bfp when others are still trying. So I figured we could talk about things in here too! I am 6w5d today. I have a 2yr old dd and am 39 yrs old. Just starting to get a few symptoms and my eye is twitching out of control. Hope to hear from my other bfp friends!
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Hi ladies. I got the results back from the ultrasound and they have me classified as high risk. The tech found an abnormality with the heart and one of the valves is closed but the rest of the heart is fine. They want me to do an ultrasound at 4 weeks to see if it has corrected its and if not then the baby will have to have an ultrasound when he is born to check his heart but no baby should have to go through that. It's so unfair to him . It made me really sad to hear that news. So, i may be taken off work for awhile but will have to see what my doctor says tomorrow and whether or not I am getting discharged tomorrow or staying another night; which I would be okay with as walking seems to be too much to handle. I will keep you ladies posted as soon as I find out.
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6 years ago
So sorry to wake up today and read this is happening to you Dragonfly23, I hope they manage to keep your little guy in a little while longer, and I hope all is well with him too, it's usually far better if there's an issue that spot it before hes born, but fingers crossed it has resolved itself before the next scan. Good luck and you're in the best place
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6 years ago
Thanks ladies. I really don't know what to say or think right. I'm still really sad about this. I don't even want to attempt searching on Google for the what ifs. Any insight on how to move passed this or know of someone and they turned out fine. Forgive me if I get quiet a bit today but I wasn't expecting this. Will keep you ladies posted on my discharge or if I'm staying another night but in all honesty; my mindset should stay.
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6 years ago
Oh dragonfly. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. Like Larkrmw said it's best that they found it now so they can monitor it and be prepared for it when he is born. He will get all the care he needs when he is born now and that's the most important thing. They will also know if it goes away or not as your progress. I hope they help you with your mindset and getting through this. I'm here for you. We are all here for you.
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6 years ago
Dragonfly23 hopefully someone will be along soon to explain everything to you in a little more detail so you aren't left worrying yourself sick until your next scan. My basic understanding about valves, only from someone I know who far far older, is that valve issues aren't the worst problems there can be and can usually be corrected with medication or surgery if necessary, but I think they can also correct themselves too, which I guess is why they're going to rescan you later and possible after he is born. I hope a doctor comes along to explain everything to you properly when you're in a mindset where you can digest the information. Big hugs xxx
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6 years ago
Thank you ladies. The one explained to me last night that the valves are like an oven. Say I am baking cookies in my oven and you are baking cookies in your oven. Both are set the same but one has a high temp settings and that it will take a couple minutes longer for it to catch up. I know he will be in good hands when he is born. It's just the anticipation of not knowing what is going on inside. I was wondering why the tech was taking extra longer to look at the heart but I didn't think anything of it till I got the desults back. I will keep everyone updated. Thanks again ladies. I hope I'm not too much of a burden on you all.
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6 years ago
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