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I hope these are signs Joy yes hold out, you know I didn't get my positive to 18dpo so keep the faith.

Thanks soulchild.... I feel depressed. So ready to get off this emotional roller coaster...

Hello ladies. I joined countdown to pregnancy a couple of weeks back yet I still feel lost. I really havent found my way around. Please allow me to join this thread. I am ttc #5. I have 4 kids from my previous marriage and now trying for our love child with my new hubby whom I am madly in love with. we just want one little girl of our own born out of so much love, and we will be so happy and content.

This is my 5th cycle trying since I got off the pill in October last year. I am currently 9dpo and on CD 23 of 31. Hoping to test on 12 March if I dont get my period. I only have this cycle and the next to try as I dont want my baby to come next year. it has to be November or December of this year, otherwise I will put it off for almost a year.

Last cycle my body played tricks on me. I had an imaginary pregnancy. Missed my January period and experienced all sorts of symptoms. I even started announcing I was pregnant though all my tests were negative. With all the experience I have, I was sure I was pg, only to get my period on CD61. YOu cannot imagine the dissapointment. After all the heartache and crazy moments I experience last cycle, I just I need a bfp. I dont think I can handle another negative result; that is why I am planning to test late if I can be patient enough which i doubt.

So who else is expecting to test between 10th and 14th March? Anyone 9dpo? please share your moods, symptoms and experiences.

I am really glad I found this group; I need people to interact with because the 2ww is unbearable. Nice meeting you all and hoping to get to know each and everyone of you.

Buckets of baby dust to all :)

Hey Joy,

Remember you are not yet out until your period shows up, so keep the faith. Hopefully you get a bfp. I think the best time to test is the day you're expecting your period; you likely to get a good result. FC for you hun!

WELCOME Zhane-Kays,

This is an amazing group of women and we have been at it for some time now. We even support long after we receive our BFP. And I must say when God is ready he is ready we can't limit our conception time because that BFP may come bringing your love child into the new year consider it a blessing. I've tried that shooting for certain times and months only to have it back fire and drive me crazy so that is a food ful thought to think about. When I saw my 1st BFP after 2 yrs 1 mth ttc it didn't matter what month year my dream of being a mom came true. I hope you eventually get to have that same feeling.

Joy lady have you talked to the doctor about getting Clomid to help with the process yet or getting some test done to make sure nothing has changed. Don't you dare give up we've come a long way and we fight to the very end.

Thank you so much Soulchild. I do take your advise hun, I mean who em I to give God an altimatum or time limit. Infact, I think I owe God an apology.

From now on I will have an open approach to it, whenever God will bless me with this child, I will still be very happy. Its just that I was planning to enroll in studying next year and unlike others, i cant cope with school, work, home and pregnancy that's why I wanted to dedicate this year to having a baby then start school next year. But I will just live one day at a time and hopefully I can get my miracle child soon but if the baby comes next year, well and good' I will still be thrilled.

You are right when you say Joy should not give up. We will not back down until we hold our beautiful babies in our arms. it will happens soon enough for all of us. Fingers crossed for each one of us and sprinkling baby dust to everyone on here.

Welllll AF was due yesterday but didn't show.... Unfortunately I still got a this morning. I'm gonna give it a few more days and test again Tuesday.

Good sign Joy it may just be early lady. Fingers crossed and just relax this is your time lady. Speaking it into existence and fruition. You and your daughter will be delivering in the same year how precious is that?

Yes Soulchild, it would be awesome to be pregnant along side my daughter. Still no AF for me. I will test again in the morning and then call the doctor for bloodwork. My daughter has an appointment Thursday so I will see if I can just go in with her.

Have you been to the doctor yet??

Hey Joy,

Yes I went on Friday my due date is October 15 2016 . I have been spotting/light bleeding on and off and did alot of blood work Friday I go back today for an ultrasound and more blood work to see if my progesterone levels are doubling I am super nervous because I've come this far I am trying to take it easy. I don't have any cramps or clotting associated with it which they say is good so fingers crossed and keep me in prayer.