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I was hoping to have October baby too, but I've been spotting for 5 days now and test came negative :(

@bimini definitely trying to stay positive babe

@kaja oh no I'm sorry girl I feel you

12dpo test this morning was negative again not even an indent line

Okay I need to talk or vent or something I dont know...

I am honestly super upset about the fact that I got another negative today... Part of me feels like yes its 2 or 3 days before AF it's still too early and I still have time but then another part just wants to rip my hair out and go on a rage... I just dont get it I dont understand why its not happening... I go to the doctor every 6 months to have them tell me that everything is okay and normal and I should have gotten pregnant by now but I havent so why not? I'm at the stage where I consider getting a second opinion from someone just so that I can be sure because I dont know anymore it's been 15 months of trying all together now with no successful pregnancies and I just want answers. I want to know whwhy it isnt happening and I for reals dont want to feel this way for a few more months...

Anna I could totally understand why you would be frustrated. 15 months is a long time. I would get a second opinion at this Point. Also this cycle I really relaxed. I recorded nothing thus far in Ovia, haven’t been checking CP and didn’t temp once. I decided I would start BD every other day starting today CD7. Then every day at cd13 for a few days. And not test until AF is due unless I’m vomiting or something extreme. I have no idea how this will play out but I feel confident the pressure we put on ourselves causes a negative reaction in our bodies. So I’m trying to be calm. Hope during TWW I remain this calm and rational. A girl can only try.
But Anna it’s still not over for you. Keep your head up and you just enjoy SO. You encourage us all the time now we need you to be encouraged.
@Kaja I’m really sorry...

Oh wow Photomama congrats! Man i'd love twins eek. I'll never get that lucky though as we have no history of twins on either side.

@bimini I think what gets me is every cycle i plan for a possible pregnancy you know? I plan on telling SO, I think about the bump I'll have when we go to certain things in the next few months and with every negative the bump just gets smaller and smaller and I think that hurts the most along with not knowing why...

@photomama omg that's s

@photomama omg that's so exciting I'm so happy for you !! Congrats babe I'm shouting !!

Okay so my cervix dropped, went soft and is starting to open so I think AF should be here within the next day or so (cd27)

Anna I hope af stays away for you x