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@Vettechgirl11 -- Don't count yourself out until the officially shows. I'm trying to follow my own advice here as well. Try not to lose hope. Hang in there!

Ladies... spotting and feeling like you’re getting your period isn’t a terrible sign. I had heavy brown spotting for five days, then it just magically stopped and I got my bfp! Spotting doesn’t mean you’re out! @Burn2Ash - I feel like you could end up with a BFP!

I also had other normal period cramps in my lower abdomen and lower back like pms! So feeling like you’re getting AF can be a good sign! It was in my case.

@MePlus1 - how far along are you now?

Hi ladies,
Wondering if I may join your friendly group. I had a FET yesterday and really need some support. This was my 4h transfer this year, 2 ended in mc, one BFN. So I had my last remaining embryo transferred ,graded 4BB and I'm not too happy with the quality.Anyone have words of wisdom? I'm already feeling out :(

@Sirocco -- Welcome to the group! We're a very supportive bunch. What's making you feel out? Are you having any symptoms? Try to stay positive. for a sticky bean!

@Ruby0709 -- Thanks for the optimism. The spotting stopped (again). was due today, but she could pop up tomorrow. Today is CD 28 and I rarely have 29 day cycles. So, if she's not here by tomorrow, then I will know something is up.

I got my progesterone results it was 19.11 which they said was good. I have my ultrasound on tues!

@Dragonfly23- Don't feel like you are out, I had all sorts of weird stomach feelings prior to and since my BFN.

@Vettechgirl- You are not out until AF shows!

@Sirocco- Welcome to the group! This is a very supportive group.

@Burn2ash- Spotting could mean good things, don't lose hope!

Aww, thanks Burn2ashes for the warm welcome. Good question, why do I feel out already? It's that my best embies didn t work out, why would the worst quality one turn into a baby? I have no symptoms, nothing. I will update for sure. Crossing fingers for you and all the others here!

Welcome Sirocco!!! A friend of mine just did a fresh transfer with a similar graded embryo. She only has that one to transfer from stimming. She's now 18 weeks pregnant with a baby girl! Hang in there! I'll send some prayers and good vibes your way.

@Burn2Ash. Just a quick reply. More like a pullness as all day I felt pulling down my back. Went to hold my daughter and my left hip felt like a cramp like when one has a workout. My right side now has a pullig ache. If its implantation on both sides, that would mean twins? Explain flops pleae.

@dragonfly23 -- Oh, yea. The pulling. That too. Flip Flops. Like your stomach churning. Not really gurgles. More like being flipped upside down. Almost like butterflies.

Thank you cronins, I so appreciate your encouraging words and will hold on to that!