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Hi Ladies,
11 dpo or whatever today.

Took another HPT and it was another BFN with FMU.

I don't feel anything so again, I don't really know what to think.
I literally don't have any symptoms.
No cramping, no bloating, no sore boobs, no fatigue.

Nothing.

Usually at this point, I have at least some indication of AF to arrive....sore boobs or cramping or something.

[b]cristi[/b]: That was weird that it was only one nipple, did it stop?
Did you test?

[b]SMC[/b]: I know what you mean, once we decided to TTC everyone around is pregnant all of a sudden.
Girl who started trying with me already has a baby girl...
Work became hard to take some days.
But soon you will have a sticky bean and the tables will turn.
Why 20 days to find out if you are preg?

[b]GVMDL[/b]: How are you?

[b]Kizzy[/b]: Thanks for sharing. I am praying that by the time I get to the appointment, my cells will be back to normal...

[b]gds[/b]: Thank you for sharing. It must be so stressful having all the smears.
[good_luck] catching the egg. Hope you do get your Aug baby!
I hope your Fiance is ok.
EWCM you know if you have it by observing CM everyday, believe me if you have EWCM coming out of you you will know, it is literally like egg white. If you are normally on the dry side, you can use PreSeed.
As for the orgasm, I never heard that. I actually heard the opposite, that if you have an orgasm it helps the flow of swimmers to the right place where there is more chance of survival.

[b]Vette[/b]: How do you now you are 5 days late? I am just wondering maybe you ovulated later.

[b]Blushing[/b]: Thank you for the hugs and wishes [smile].
Families are always hard, but you are right, you should find a way to take it easier so that you don't stress or lose sleep over it.
They will continue what they are doing, but you need to find a way to accept it and move on. I know it is hard believe me, I used to fight with my family all the time. Until I went through EMDR, now I don't fight with them and most time I don't even get annoyed anymore, that is a miracle.
I hope once you get your [bfp] it will come naturally [smile] [hug]

[b]steph[/b]: It is so hard to not symptom spot. Even now that I know the chance of me being pregnant is like 1 to a billion, it does not stop my brain from noticing every symptom and automatically relating it to pregnancy.
I hope you get a [bfp] next week [smile]

[b]acrichton[/b]: Thanks, I hope I get to see a [bfp] soon, you know the more time passes by, the more unrealistic it starts to feel.
I guess a break can be healthy for us, mentally.
[good_luck] at the u/s. This is so exciting!!!!

[b]tgpreg[/b]: 11DPO can still be to early for testing, I hope you get a [bfp] tomorrow!

[b]alyssa[/b]: Did you test???

[b]Genie[/b]: Thank you for sharing. I do feel better now that so many people shared their stories. I have a lot of hope now and try to look at positively, like a good mental break from TTC and nothing else, although I still really hope to be pregnant really really soon (like yesterday [lol]).
I hope you feel better and the short luteal phase was just a two month thing. Although 10-11 days can be fine.

[b]pennylane[/b]: did you test this morning????

[b]AFM[/b]: Nothing to report, spent weekend with sis. I swear acupuncture relaxes me and reduces built up stress because she does not bug me nearly as much as normally.
Still no idea when my test will be... but thanks to all the amazing ladies here, I feel so much better about the whole thing, and almost succeed at seeing it as a positive thing [smile]. Thank you!!!
[baby_dust] [baby_dust] [baby_dust]

Did anyone test today?? I'm 5DPO, just finsihed my pineapple. FX for a BFP around the 10th or so...if I hold out that long!!! HA HA. I have too many IC's!!!

sugar, still just one side that hurts... just not as bad when I am not cold! LOL! My body is so messed up! FX and Baby dust to you. Sounds like you are doing everything right with Temping. They say to wake at the same time every day, but on the weekends we stay up late so it would be like a 3 hour sleep and that didn't make sense to me. I have a hard time remembering to temp anyways so I didn't even try!

gds, FX you get your August baby! As for the orgasm... I was reading up on how to inseminate at home and they say to inject the sperm then have an orgasm. It causes the cervix to dip down and kind of suck up the sperm. So if the sperm are at the cervix when you O then the cervix scoops them up and helps them in. Just what I read... I don't see how it would be any different with timed intercourse! Hope that helps some. Good luck!

SMC, FX and Baby Dust.

Kot, I know... so weird! Nope didn't test today! :)

Lucky, FX!!!!!!

PBC, how are you my dear friend?

AFM, was going to test this morning but had to potty so bad I completely forgot! :) Yay... okay so I have decided I will test tomorrow morning, I will be 12-13 dpo! Praying this is it!

Sending Baby Dust and Sticky Vibes to you all.

Kotikd, what is EMDR? I want to get along with my family too!!

Just a quick post for the moment until I catch up properly tomorrow.

Congrats on the BFPs ladies :) H&H9M and sticky vibes

Good luck to those who are in the TWW and testing soon

AFM, I am on CD61 with no sign of AF appearing yet. Got an appointment Tuesday with my GP so hopefully I will find out then what is going on with no cycle in 9 weeks....

Hi ladies. It's been a busy, stressful day, so I'll have to catch up more tomorrow. Hope everyone is doing well.

Cristi - the suspense is killing me! Lol. Praying for you. So hope you see your BFP tomorrow!

CD11....out of the blue started cramping and producing a ton of EWCM. What the hey? Temp was at it's lowest this morning, but I didn't realize that could mean anything until I googled it this afternoon. Might try to corner my Dh and persuade him to get a little frisky after we get the kids in bed! I'm trying to aim for having more fun and less pressure this time around.

Good luck to everyone. Beautiful - hope your appointment goes well and you can get some answers.

Koti: Thanks for asking. First test was a flop, second with the same sample was [bfn] I'm 13 DPO, so I'm sure it's right. I'm not too upset about it since it's only our first cycle, but like a lot of others on here, it would have been fun to share the news for Christmas! Oh well. Guess I'm off to wait for [af] now.

Good luck to anyone else who's testing soon! [fingersx]

Rebecca, thanks! I hope so too, but I don't know! Oh and the video is up! Link is below!

Hey everyone my husband got the link up for the Christmas lights... hope you enjoy... turn the volume up! (The very beginning is blurry but that is my fault ooops)!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRtu3pvZQDI&feature=youtu.be

Hey guys. AF came today, so I'm out for August. I am going to check to see if the September board is up yet. (-: