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Hi everyone! I'm back from my disappearance!!!!

Just wanted to give everyone an update and let everyone know what I did differently for the last 2 cycles. Btw, I'm pregnant!! Got my this week! :)

So, I went to a new OB and so thankful he accepted me as his patient. He is highly spoken of and I am considered a high risk patient because I had neonatal death in Jan 2018. :(

Long story short, he asked me to throw out all my ovulation tracker, tempt tracker, OPK, etc. Not to look for signs and symptoms as it creates more stress. He thinks I'm very fertile but not getting pregnant due to stress from obsessing over TTC. His recommendations for ME was to have date nights, have some wine and carry on with day to day life. Also said I should be pregnant by our next meeting which will be April 2nd. We officially TTC since Sept 2018.

I've been sleeping early and waking up early.

Oh, we BD every 2-3 days. (We did this since Sept so no changes to BD). :)
Hope this helps. Good luck everyone!!!

Morning ladies, sorry about af Anna

Ladies I’m having lots of painful pinching pains in my ovaries but mostly my left side which is really unusual for me, opk’s keep gettting dark but not positive yet, could I still be ovulating and maybe missed my peak ? I’m on cd13 and out for the day so not sure when I’ll get to test but did bring one with me haha , we have bd every day this week and OH is under strict instructions that he will be doing so until I’m sure I’ve had my peak and it’s past

Scuba how did you get on with your blazin opk ?

Hey ladies
@ scuba good luck hun!
Update from me period has not started and no sign
Opk has gone negative from positiive !
Don't know what's going on!

Sam have you done a pregnancy test ?

@EMMA OPK HAS BEEN NEGATIVE SINCE YESTERDAY WHEN DO YOU THINK I SHOULD TEST AGAIN!

@jenny that awesome congratulations!!

@emma I got my positive opk yesterday and a Peak reading. We BD'd yesterday morning and hopefully again tonight. Unfortunately my daughter was up most of the night so only had 4 hours sleep and took my temp an hour later so I can't even trust the temp rise I'll just have to see what happens tomorrow now I feel like we missed the window because hubby was too tired Friday night xx

Our Preg test was negative. Very upset. Can’t believe it’s happening again. Really thought this one will be success. Don’t understand why it failed if I have so great eggs. Seems like everyone around get pregnant so easily. Why it can’t be me? But I'm not giving up that easy. I do believe we are meant to be parents. On to the next try. Don't know what that will be... Most likely IVF with donor eggs. Seems nice option in our situation. We'll let our RE make some suggestions then go from there. Girls, I wish all of you all the best!

@scuba I’m in the same boat. I feel like we missed the window. We were only able to BD once and I think it was the day of ovulation. Chalking this month up to a miss and actually looking forward to taking a mental vacation from the terrible 2ww. Hoping for the best for all of you!

Sam if you got a positive opk Friday then your in your 2 week wait so about 2dpo atm , you can do a pregnancy test around 12 dpo with first response , once you’ve had your peak (positive on a opk) then it does go back to negative, your peak shows a surge in LH to indicate you will ovulate soon