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Hi guys! I am back & today should be O day, CD 16 for me. I thought I might have o-Ed overnight but based on my temp I don’t think I have yet. Still having o pain and opk is still positive, my peak was definitely yesterday. Anyone else about to hit the tww or just hit it? I would love to have a chat buddy during this time as it literally drives me a little batty just waiting around.

@crystal please definitely see a doc.i had the same when I was pregnant with my ectopic. Big heavy period and faint FRER lines xx

Wow! Did I miss a lot! I for some reason felt like this was your month @anna so I was super excited to see your BFP!

As for me, I took a month off and was still thinking of taking more, but randomly BD in the middle of the night both half asleep...LOL. Anyways the next morning decided to take an opk because I hadn’t tracked at all, no temps, no opks, not even CM. Low and behold, that morning I had an almost positive OPK which was positive by the afternoon. So I think I’m sitting at around 1DPO now. I don’t think I’ll be too stressed this TWW, because again I’m okay either way. If I’m not pregnant, it’s another month to try and lose some weight. But congrats to the BFPs! Good luck to everyone else in the tww.

Seen doc today. My HCG was only 5, so it's almost back to 0, so not suspecting ectopic anymore, just confirmed chemical. Amazed FRER even picked that up!! Should be completely back to normal soon. Thanks ladies!

So sorry for your loss @Crystals.

Big congrats to @Ana. You brave through everything. I am sincerely very happy for you.

My questions now are who will take over your posting? :-)
AFM: still really busy with internship. Not really ttc ing. Very busy with school. Working on loosing weight and eating better. Hope to get back fully into it by this time next month.

@Shay your chart is looking good and symptoms are great as well !! I'm so positive this is it for you babe !!

@lalou lol I was thinking of still doing the boards and just hanging around and Alex also asked that I dont disappear lol so I'll continue with them but just not actually be ttc...

So quick update for me... Insomnia wasnt that bad last night I didnt actually have to get up to pee so sleeping was easier... Boobs still hurt and nipples decided to join in last night but feeling chilled now... The cramping is still on and off and gets worse if I lay in certain positions which I think contributes to the insomnia... Still super hungry and thirsty all the time but that's it

Thank you for your support, ladies I had an emotional breakdown last night after hearing the doctor actually confirm the early miscarriage/chemical... but it just made me even more definite in my decision to stop TTC and adopt.

@Anna: Awww, your first "bump" pic haha, you're too cute!! Try to eat little throughout the day, it should help with hunger and also keeps morning sickness at bay if you keep something in your stomach. It helped me! The cramps are going to last a while as baby gets cozy and well implanted! I'm happy you're staying with us!

And thank you for your words about our decision to discuss adoption. I just feel it will help bring balance to how I see the world, because it just seems so unfair to me at this point... That there are women out there who can have babies but not want them or care for them, and it astounds me; I'll never understand it!! When there are women like us here who love our kids and will love babies we'd be blessed to have, but we have the hardest time conceiving... so in my eyes, since we have so many problems conceiving, it just feels so right to me to adopt one of those kids who didn't get the family and love they deserve. Adopting a child who needs love and a family when we have love and family to give... I'm so excited right now, I honestly can't wait to get the process started!!

Anna will you be doing a dec/jan group soon ? I’ll be due end of December beginning of January if we catch this cycle lol x

@Anna!!! you look great!!! no bump yet!!!! lol