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Really.....wow!!!
You can't miss my bump at 26 weeks!!
I think this baby is going to be massive...thank god I'm having a c-section!
Well at 15dpo you should get a clear answer, especially if you use fmu I really hope you see two lines.....let us know fx

I will Nikki ill be shouting from the roof tops lol after 12 weeks xx

I def think im out this month. No cramps but been for a pee and dark red drops coming out (sorry TMI)

I just feel so deflated and down :-(

Ok update - went for a pee and stabbing pains hit me hard i was nearly doubled over they are that bad, then dark red blood and clots cane flooding out. Im def out ive never felt pain this bad :-(

Oh Karen, I'm so so sorry. I'm no expert but it sounds like a chemical to me (with all the clots). I would see how the bleed goes and test when its over just to make sure. I understand how devastated you must feel, big hug xx

Nikki - i was thinking the same thing another chemical. Its my fourth in 6 months.

DH wants me to go back to the docs and ask him for tests. I just feel at a total loss. Whats baby aspirin and does it work?

Xx

Karen, how old are you and where do you live? I'm taking baby aspirin prescribed to thin my blood but I know it's taken for many other reasons. I do think you should see your Dr though as it would seem you have no trouble actually getting pregnant (which is a good start). I saw on the news last night that fertility treatment can now be offered to over 40's. do you have any children already?

Nikki i was 40 in october my DH is 37. We each have a child from previous relationships mine is 16 and i fell 1st time no problems. DH's us 9 and he took 6 months of trying.

Its weird cos my pad is clean im just passing dark red clots???

I M/C at 20 weeks before I had my daughter and found out id lost a boy. My DH has a boy and hes worried he can only have boys and hes worried i cant carry boys.

Karen, I'm not sure its possible not to be able to carry a certain sex, I think its just awful luck! My story should give you some hope but I would make a GP appt anyway to get you on the road and so they know you are ttc. They may be able to offer you some help and advice. You are only just 40 and dh is younger so you have plenty of time still :) xx

Thanx Nikki. Weve both had a good cry and lots of hugs. Xx

Hi Nikki,

How you doing? I was just thinking I had a LEEP procedure done a year gone xmas and was wondering if this could be one of the reasons for the multiple CP's??

Just a thought x