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Well 3rd difference type of test fmu at 10 dpo, I think I can rule out evaps!

@anna well. how to explain this. is a long story. If you feel to read it here it is. I’ll be as fast as I can!
It’s been very difficult for me to convince my hubby to take pregnacare vitamins this month. He’s more in the “we’re not going to go crazy over this.. It will happen on its own time”. He doesn’t really understands how all this works and tbh he doesn’t really want to listen cuz his father (who lives in a different country and visits once per year) is a gynecologist and when my hubby was a kid, only things he listened in his house was about health issues, fertility problems, surgeries and as he describes it “ew conversations with patients” on the phone. So now when I try to talk to him about ovulation for example or in general when he happens to listen health conversations, he simply turn around and refuses to listen.
When I first talked to my doctor one year ago about my concerns and that I’m not preventing pregnancy for 8 years he said we should both get checked. He gave me my list of things I should check and for my hubby was only one check. I did everything... I still get blood work every month, I checked my tubes which is an extremely unpleasant examination and I tried to educate my self. He still refuses to check himself saying that he’s totally fine and that his father will help us. He talked to his father about this once and I don’t think he ever talked to him about it again. I cannot personally talk to his father about it to ask for help because he doesn’t speak English or my language.. It’s a roller coaster situation...
So doctor cannot give me/us medication when he doesn’t really know what to treat...
Hubbys father is visiting end of January and I really really hope we’ll find a way to talk about this and maybe he can help us.....
Sorry this was long

@alex I'm sorry babe the situation seems complicated and I understand your concerns regarding hubby not wanting to get checked/do fertility treatments... Maybe like you said when his dad is there you guys can maybe figure out a way to talk to him because I have a feeling that he'd take it more seriously if it came from his father... Hopefully that helps the situation

@Lindsay yay!!! I see that line. Congrats and prayers for it getting darker!!!
@Alex sorry your situation is so complicated. I hope your prayers are answered soon. Lots of baby dust to you!!

12dpo and I have a very very faint line. Today is DH’s bday so I think this is a pretty good present. Should it stick, due date is my son’s bday, so that is a little annoying.

12dpo and I have a very very faint line. Today is DH’s bday so I think this is a pretty good present.

Good morning everyone! Exciting with All these BFP- I definitely see them! Currently 9 DPO today and decided to test with a FRER because I was seeing ppls positives on 10 DPO. When I tweak I feel like I see something?? Temps are still high though.

Congrats to all of you guys getting lines! for all of you! And anyone with AF, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you next cycle.

AF is expected either today or tomorrow for me. I just feel like it's coming. But that's okay. We weren't really trying this cycle and I'd have to miss my brother's wedding. So I'm staying optimistic for next cycle when we officially start TTC.

@cardigan it sucks that your due date is on your son's birthday but you got a line that's exciting !!

@brenneec keep testing babe it's still early !!

@sig I'm sorry AF is coming babe but at least now you can attend your brother's wedding

Well weirdest thing just happened... My left boob got itchy so I started scratching it and the itching kinda went inside and turned into a stabbing itching pain This lasted about 5 minutes and went away... Itching lasted about 10 minutes

congrats to all those getting those faint second lines. Has my second beta draw went from 8.6 Tuesday to 48.7 on Thursday ! Go back next week to triple check !!! Prayers to all for sticky beans. Happy holidays