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(Ross from Friends depressed voice) Hi, so my blood test was negative. I cried myself to sleep last night. I just dont know what I'm doing wrong. I know this takes time but FUCK, how much more time!!! How many more times do I have to have ultrasounds while on my period and then another one a week later. Now I have to have some random stranger do a Dye test on top of the ultra sounds!
I am sorry I needed to vent. Pitty party of one here!

@Brenneec It could be a mix of both. Mind playing tricks and actual symptoms. With my two teenage daughters, I got a positive test at 8dpo. With my toddler, I didn’t get a positive until 10dpo. But the symptoms were definitely there. Unfortunately, the majority of the symptoms are also pre AF as well. Good luck!!

@lalou I use opks but I haven't started yet since O is further away. I get a cheapie bundle off of amazon that's 25 hpt and 24 opk for $20. Oddly enough my BBT chart thinks I O'd already because of the way my temps are. I doubt it lol. I hope we both O on schedule for Christmas!

@deecar I love friends! But I'm so sorry that your test was negative. I know how frustrating all of those doctors appts can be. Hang in there!

@ana I'm making progress! I put my notice in at my job today so that's a relief. I should be able to finisthe biggest project tonight and then crank out the little ones. I don't know if you wound up getting your tests, but my new philosophy is hold out as long as you can. Good luck!

Hello everyone, I haven't been on here since I conceived my princess 7 years ago. TTC again with IUI again just took HPT and I'm 11DPO and it was negative so things are not looking so good so far. Last time around I started taking HPTs 10DPO and I had a very very very faint line and it finally darkened on 14 DPO. I started taking HPTs this time around using internet cheapies, 1 clear blue and first response on 9DPO I had a very very very very very faint line but today at 11DPO I saw nothing. I take my blood test on 12/21 so there's still a little hope . If I were to conceive the baby's DD would be 8/31/19.Sending everyone's way!

Good luck curl! You arent out until your bloods show different or af shows!

I broke down and took a test, couldn't wait it out a second longer. And its negative. So now I'm being crazy. Like maybe I o'd later after my positive opk and I'm really only dpo 11 or maybe 10! Or maybe I'm the .00005% that doesn't get a positive hpt! Ha. Even though I know I'm not pregnant I'm still going to be so mad when af shows tomorrow.

I'm baking cookies today (11dpo) for my son to give to his teachers and my husband to take into work, but the smells are making my stomach turn. I know this is probably just the change in my meds but I can't stop overthinking it. No more PMS symptoms after that one day (8dpo) of feeling a bit crampy and sore boobs. I really didn't want to symptom spot since so many PMS symptoms are pregnancy solutions but it's so hard not to over analyse every twinge.

@dee aww girl I'm so sorry for your negative blood tests and vent as much as you need we are here for support

@kait I didnt get any tests I'm holding out till Friday but I feel like we might have done it

@mommy I hope you get a positive your due date would be one day before mine

@essence Hopefilly she stays away it's still early to test so there is still hope

@sig I get it babe but we cant help it, its what we do...

So update for me... I've had a couple of drinks with the fam tonight and had a good time without feeling bad... Also found out that close friends of ours are on month 2 of trying so I found a friends to talk to yay Hopefully we both have positives soon

@itsAnna I've made it a rule that I don't test until I get a missed period or else I would bankrupt my family buying pregnancy tests haha. Also for some reason I feel less disappointed and upset when I just get AF instead of seeing that negative test. ????

@espence you're right thanks!

Hi ladies, Im joining yall hope you dont mind :) I got to read a couple posts so far and I think me and few ladies have close cycles. Im due for AF on Christmas weve been trying for #3 for a year this month. I have endometriosis this go round I didnt with my first two pregnancies. Would love a bfp for christmas this year , BABY DUST TO EVERYONE