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@Lindsay and @its Ana i have my toes and fingers crossed for y all . I am seeing a line in both y all pics.
So tonight I got a mill cramp on left ovary for about 10mns I think. I might be ovulating. We bd on Monday and Wednesday. Could not on Thursday hopefully we will today in the hopes to catch the egg.

I forgot to say welcome to all the newbies.

@lalou yay ovulation time !! Hopefully you catch that egg girl get it !! Lol

Good morning ladies (at least is morning in my part of the world)!!

@anna & @lindsay I think I see a shadow too on both of your tests!! Fingers crossed it will be darker tomorrow

@lalou Good luck!! Things are getting exiting for you now!! Hope you’ll catch that egg

I’m so sorry for all the ladies getting AF. This sucks and I know I’ll be joining soon. I haven’t cried yet which is a good thing but I’m probably still on the phase that I keep making excuses that I’m this one extraordinary case of a positive outcome.
Yea I tested again this morning (and tested about 3 more times yesterday) and had only BFNs. There is a freaking tiny shadow on my tests now but the camera won’t catch it. Idk what my lines was the other day but it was so unfair an cruel.. idk if it’s possible to have a chemical this early (I’m still 10 DPO) but honestly I would prefer a chemical rather a negative because I’ve never been pregnant in my life after all those years and at least a chemical would show that I’m kinda capable of getting pregnant. Idk if that makes sense to any of you but I would like to know that my body can actually do this because I truly start to believe that my body is just not made to get pregnant

Hi ladies, thank you for yur answers. I feel much better now knowing that Im not the only one with PMS changes after having a miscarriage.
Im so sorry for all the ladies that are getting AF, I´m still hopefull many of the girls on the board get their Christimas miracles soon.

@Alexplpl I know the feeling of thinking your body is not capable of getting pregnant or sustaining a pregnancy, but try not to focus on those thoughts, they only cause you harm and help for nothing. A chemical pregnancy can happen anytime after implantation occures, so yes you could have a chemical at 10dpo if you implanted earlier than that. Usually a chemical pregnancy is followed by the quick start of AF, so if you are still waiting for AF to come, I would try and stay positive.

@itsAna, thank you for welcoming me in your board. I think I also see a faint line on your pg test. I would try to wait it out a little before taking the next test, specially if you want to use the digital one you bought.

@alex thanks girl we'll see what happens... Babe I totally get it like this weekend someone asked me if we haven't gone for fertility testing yet but i dont feel the need to because we got pregnant before so even if it didnt last i know i can get pregnant so I'd want the same I'd rather deal with a chemical than a negative... But hopefully your line darkens !!

@vs I'm only planning on testing Sunday or Monday again but I'm not gonna take the digi if I dont get a positive on one of the other tests... I hate wasting digitals like 2 or 3 month ago I got a false positive on a pharmacy digi so I was excited to use my CB digi that came back negative and I was so disgusted that I wasted it lol so if I dont get lines on other tests I refuse to use my digi

Thank you @Vs ! I don’t have any signs of AF yet. I only had this morning (weirdly) ewcm which I read somewhere it’s maybe an indication of AF coming due to estrogen rising (?) I don’t really know.. I hope everything goes well for you too!

@anna I really hope you get that positive this month! You really deserve it!!!! As for me unfortunately I’m not having any lines anymore so I can wait for them to darken. I’m getting some shadows but at this point I’m convinced that I’m dealing with a very faulty batch of tests
Tonight I’m having another event at work. Time for a couple of drinks for me! Cheers

@alex Girl I believe in the "I'll drink till its positive" thing because you never know when it might be your last drink for a while lol... Have fun at your party and unwind a little let go of some stress

@anna well if that’s the case I’m seeing my self with a drinking problem in the future lmao Sometimes I know this might sound overdramatic but I believe it’s never gonna really happen fore me. It’s been more than way too long for me... Anyways! I don’t feel really sad atm.. I’m just very unamused and in a blah mood! Poor hubby today lol

I think I see a line as well! Good luck!!

@alex have you guys talked about maybe going on fertility meds? I understand if there are reasons you might not want to but it's worth a shot? I'm sure you'll get your positive some time though I'm hopeful that it'll happen

@momma thanks babe we'll see what happens