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To all the ladies who are testing you are terrible for dragging me in with you AF due in 6 days and I'm super proud that I havent tested yet but the urge is getting so damn bad I just wanna pee on something lol... But I really want to try and wait till Friday at least but so far so good... I dont have any tests in the house but I want to pick up a clearblue digi and 2 normal tests because I'll be due AF on the 24th and I'm pretty sure I wont find a place open to get a digi to give SO... Fingers crossed for everyone's bfp!! Took us 6 months with the first but we got it and now we're on month 7 so hoping so so bad that we did it !!

Oh also another update... My acne started getting bad again and my system is so so down but I'm taking more vitamins to boost it... Hopefully that doesn't change my chances for getting pregnant this month... I've been having pinching every now and again to the point where I feel like I'm only ovulating now Also found out SO doesn't want to be told we're pregnant in a cute way he wants to know as soon as I think I'm pregnant (good luck honey this baby psycho isnt giving you anything until I get a positive lol)...

@its Anna my period is due tomorrow but if it doesn't show I'm going to hold off till Friday before I test!

@k8mcm how are you feeling though? Do you think AF will show?

@ana I hope you've got it this month! DH asks every time I take a test and I just tell him the result because sharing kind of takes some of the pressure off. That being said, if I do get a positive I think I would keep it a secret long enough (5 min lol) to go get the dad shirt I bought him and give it to him.

CD 13 for me. My temp did this same little spike and drop last cycle at the same time so that's kind of interesting. O shouldn't be here until 12/24-12/27.

Guys I’m torturing my self... I took another test today and I swear I keep seeing this shadow. I’m pretty sure I got a faulty batch of tests because first of all is too soon I think for me to see anything (7 or 8 dpo), second if it was an accurate line I guess it would be darker than yesterday which is not and third I always read that these tests are not as sensitive as they claim to be.... And now I’m so sad because I know I’m giving myself false hopes that I will regret in few days when I will cry for hours realizing that I’m an idiot.. Sorry for being so cranky but I needed to talk about it to someone since I don’t want to tell my hubby I’m keep taking tests.. sorry guys

@kait super cute idea I love it !! And yeah I admire the openness you have with your husband about it... Personally I just prefer not to tell mine because I dont want him to get his hope up so I dont tell him unless it is something he should be aware of... Last time I kept it secret for 2 days and only after going for bloods to confirm I told him about it...

@alex girl you can vent/rant/cry as much as you need to this is a safe space... Give yourself some time maybe wait for another day or 2 before testing again and if it is true positives your lines will definitely be darker

@Alex fingers crossed.
@itsAna and @ki8 for sure this month
@alex i feel you. It's really hard to ttc. The monotony and not being able to share with love ones. Sometimes they do not get it.
@kait we might be ov at the same time this month. How long are your usual cycles?

Nothing to say for me. I hurt my hand (like a mild sprain) while sleeping and now i m a lefty for the rest of the year ????. We are still trying to bd every other day despise the fatigue. Does everybody else feel that tiredness towards the end of the year too? I somewhat always do.

@lalou hell yes girl the tiredness is real Baby dancing this month felt extremely difficult because all I wanted to do was sleep lol... Sorry to hear about your sprain that's no fun and I hope you feel better soon !!

Oh something I picked up is that this cycle was completely out of normal for me... I didnt get sore boobs after ovulation, I've been cramping since cd7 so no indication of ovulation other than my cp and I had a shit ton of cm this month which is weird so I am thinking I might not have ovulated because I dont get the usual stuff but also not being negative yet as I am excited to test and with our baby I also thought I was out that month like I still remembered thinking "oh yeah I'm wasting this test because no way in hell will it be positive"... One thing though is lately I keep picturing myself pregnant a lot like every time i think about doing something I'm like "oh I'm going to be doing this while pregnant" or "I'm going to be sleeping like this with a big stomach" lol

I do that to anna. Picture myself all month doing the same things but all cute and pregnant.
I'm 2 days out from my period. And super crampy today which is a little unusually. And I dont have my sore boobs.... I always get sore boobs before af, minus the cycle after my chemical. But I'm not testing again.... just gonna wait till Friday.
Last month I thought my period was gonna be late....and then it started at 11pm on the day it was due.... kick In the teeth.