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I’m a complicated one on cd36 but only 7dpo I’m later than my usual 33 days but then again I’ve had upto 50 day cycles too anyways I’m optimistic as I’ve actually ovulated this cycle and we dtd most days this cycle, I poas but obviously with only being 7dpo it was negative still it was sad to see it , good luck everyone

for the Ladies that have had a BFP, I was recently talking to a colleague that said that she was advised by other couples that were successful in conceiving to try multiple times a day. She stated that the month they conceived they tried the multiple times a day method and it worked.
Any thoughts?

@kait af is due Jan 10 When is your af due?

Sex multiple times a day? We havent done that. But I'm sure it's a good one...I mean the more spermies the better! I mean I'm always in favor of more sex!

So am I lol, plus it cant hurt right?

@jilly Jan 7th! Good luck to us both. I wish my LP were longer but then again that would probably just mean more waiting....

@DeeCar multiple timees a day would be an interesting theory but it could not work for us as DH works all day and I will be starting my student teaching next week and will be gone most of the day too. I am just glad that my mama will be here to stay and care for my babies as I do not care for Daycare before a certain age and I would not feel comfortable with a stranger in my house alone with my child.

@Kai you have a triphasic chart it looks fantastic. it is your month
@photomama welcome back my dear
@Ana I completely understand. Hopefully you will get that baby soon like the others said
@Alex you are right 9-10 dpo is pretty early for most people
@Espence stay brave mama and everyone else as well. For eal, thank God for forums.

I am feeling better today just scratchy throat really. My temps went back up 98.4 I believe this morning. I feel really warm. But my cervix went back down and seems open a bit. I have to say I am not too confident this cycle even though I can also confirm that I ovulated for real this cycle. But I am patiently awaiting to test as well. 5dpo today.

I’m at 4dpo and feel like a crazy person with my symptom spotting. Have had cramping and weird burning sensations in my lower back but I know it’s too early for implantation. TWW is for the birds.

@deecar the only negative I have heard about multiple times a day is that if you do it for too many days in a row it can decrease sperm count since they don't have enough time to regenerate.

@lalou I'm really hoping that temp goes up again and you're right. I'm literally trying to will this into existence. I'm nervous though because I caught a little bit of spotting again. The tiniest little bit that I never would have seen if I weren't checking everything. I don't know if it's IB or a sign AF is on her way. This cycle has been so strange. I'm glad your temps are back up! Maybe you guys were still able to catch the egg.

Kait. Strange cycles are good! Lol
When I had my chemical I swear I knew from day 5. It was just in my bones.... when I tested and it qs positive I was like well duh lol
And that whole month was odd. Spotting, my cervix was all over the place, hot flashes.... the works. So I hope this is it for you lady.

I am so lucky to have all of you to share this journey with!!