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Oh no Basia, i am really sorry dear. Please girl be strong. This should not have been happened and there are no words to make you feel better, but at least it happened early and maybe the nature has protected you from worst situations. I am terribly sorry. That was a punch in my stomach.

Thank you girls for your support. I actually never picked up the phone when they called. I just knew it and they left me message. I am glad I did not talk to them. I was not able to compose myself for a bit. I'm doing better now - not great but better. I was just told to stop progesterone and to re do blood work on Tuesday. I just hope this will be quick.

Basia, i have tears

Basia-I'm so so so incredibly sorry!!!! It is just so completely unfair!!!! You are in my prayers!!

Basia- holy sh*t. This is just the worst news- I'm so so so sorry. Hugs!

Being so depressed this weekend after Basia' news coming shortly after ttclate's bad news, having followed all your stories and your difficult path to become mothers, having in mind my sister in law's story of having one mc, 5 years of trying without success,7 iuis, 1 ivf with success until 3rd month when they found out that the baby was lost due to rare genetic abnormality and of course my case... I had a call from a relative told me that she is pregnant and wont keep it because the 2 children are enough. One of the reasons is the financial uncertainty of the country.
I cried, i got upset, not knowing who to blame!!! Sorry for the baby, sorry for us who are not blessed with having babies, sorry for the couple that is afraid to keep the baby, angry with those who brought us in this financial crisis, upset with the couple.
And i have a question, why did she tell me this? She knows that i try without success...
I like being here girls! I love you.

Ket, ever think it was her way of asking you about the baby? Could she be hinting if you would adopt?

Happy Easter ladies. I know we are all filled with doubt, fear, sadness, and anger. But also try and remember the assurance,security, happiness,and joy in the promise of today.Love each of you beyond words. Don't give up the fight just yet. I am here fighting beside you I promise.

Kethryes - did you think about adoption? Is this something maybe you would consider?

Texas - how you feeling today?

Happy Easter everyone!

I feel ok. Very bloated still. Think the progesterone is working cause my boobs hurt, and I have creamy yellow cm. Tim sorry. How are you love.

Weirdest conversation..a friend off a friend b heard I was doing iui. She tells me remember no orgasms during your wait. Wth never heard this and hello your a stranger talking v to me about orgasms.

I dont think she told me this for adopting the baby and i couldnt propose it and maybe i couldnt have their baby, being their baby. We are very close relative she is my husband's sister. I guess even with proposing this, our relationship might enter a not peaceful phase. Unfortunatelly, i cant do anything for this baby and i feel guilty. (After i heard the news i asked my husband, if we can have it, it was the first thing i said. He didnt say anything.).

Texas, my doctor told me to stay away for 5 days after the iui (except the same day and the following of the iui ). She might wanted to help you with that info!

Happy easter to all of you! Being orthodox, easter for us is the next weekend. My best wishes to all the girls, no matter they celebrate easter or not!