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Hi im quiet new to the forum , me n my oh have been ttc for over 2 years now
we are both hopefully getting help from our doctors within the next couple of weeks to do fertility tests
anyway for a while there i had been coping not to bad from month to month and having no joy conceiving bt now have found out 2 more ppl i knw are expecting i jst dnt know how to deal with this part that every time i hear abt someone i knw expecting i feel sorry for myself
jst had to get this of my chest as i dnt really have anyone to talk to abt this, my oh jst tells me it will be our turn one day bt i jst keep wondering when will that be coz it feels like its never going to happen :( n hoped maybe people on here could give me some advice to try help me pick myself back up again
thanks

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hey redshadoe0, i know the digi ones are dear think coz i had some of the standard ones n didnt like them that much bt i have found a new one to try done some reading up on the net, first response test have supposed to be more sensitive compared to other tests i have bought a pack if af doesnt show by wednesday im going to test

i hope af doesnt show up for u this month and hope u and hubby enjoy ur little break together

baby dust :)

12 years ago • Post starter


I started spotting today... just on tissue... a day before AF. I'm PRAYING it's just breakthru bleeding somehow. We'll see!


Me: 27 PCOS DH: 25 Fine and dandy November 2011 First round of 50mg Clomid. December 22 !!! January 1 2012 m/c @7 weeks - Clomid 50mg round #2 Feb 2012. 21 day progesterone level at a 3 !!! Another m/c at 5 weeks - Clomid 100mg April - June epic fail - July Femara/Ovidril It worked!!! - Sept - .... lost a genetically healthy baby boy

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Wilson I am sure if those snakes went to anyone elses home they would have been both males! I prefer my pets to be furry myself! But to each their own!

Keep us posted redshadoe0! We are thinking about ya!

AFM it was a typical weekend three more pregnancies announced to me and I was with my friend who is pregnant. But all in all it didn't really effect me that much which is great for a change! Still tested + on my hpt this AM. Trying to not speculate on it being real or not yet. I have tested every other day and they have always gotten lighter from test to test but the last two have been the same. We shall see!


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Hi Everyone. I briefly read through a majority of the posts on here and hope you don't mind if I join :) Hubby and I started ttc in May of 2010 and trried until September 2010, but unfortunately I had to have surgery and my doc highly recommended I go back on the pill as getting pregnant after the surgery would be a bad idea. So after my follow ups came back good I came off the pill July 2011 and we have been trying since (on our 9th cycle).

It's been an incredibly hard journey. Almost all my friends have because pregnant and given birth in that time, or are currently pregnant. DH and I are both 23, I never imagined it would be this difficult.

We've started fertility testing. DH's sperm anaylsis came back great, which was was a relief, so onto me now. Been waiting for a call from a fertility specialist for about 3 weeks now :(

I'm anti-temp, I find it very stressful to have to think about ttc the moment I wake up every morning, so I only temped one month, but most definitely O'd. The rest of the cycles I have used opks, and have always gotten positives, except this last cycle :( Waiting for af to hopefully show on time now!? Could be anytime between now and Friday. My cycles are 28-32 days with a 13 day luteal phase.


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12 years ago


Good afternoon Wonderful ladies :). How is everyone doing.
Wilson, don't worry about the pre-seed :), I understand by what you mean by the month just flew by. Same here (cant beleive I'll be a year older on sunday, already... urghhh). Maybe you wont need it this month. Hopefuly, this will be your month. You mentioned spotting.. is this un-usual for you?? if so.. could be a good sign, FX

mrsbaurs, sorry to hear about AF.. :(.

redshadoe0: Hang in there. Hopefuly, af will stay away.

dolphin, I just read... you got a positive hpt... omg.. I hope the little bean sticks. FX for you :)

As for me, well... still waiting to O so... can't say much, LOLL


2008 - Laparoscopy for endometriosis 4 years of TTC (I suspect endo is back due to symptoms but no doctor will beleive me) July 2012: referred to Fertility Clinic August 2012: Test results are back High FSH, Low AFC (could be caused by endo) As I though, the endometriosis is back (take that doctors, I was right, you were wrong) Male factor (perfect count, they are just too stubborn and too lazy to swim properly, LOLL) August 2012: Moving on to IVF

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hey redshadoe0, fingers crossed for u af doesnt show up then :) keep us posted

hey dolphin1204, yep most ppl i know prefer fluffy pets lol, yep jst bad luck but im looking on the plus side i will have something to keep me busy in 8 wks time :)

sounds like good news getting a + on your htm, hopefully good news for u :)

welcome katiemay88
i know how you feel i never imagined it would be this hard a journey either
thats gd abt your dh's results and hope u hear back from the specialist soon maybe worth giving them a call for a update for an appointment
baby dust :)

Lisa1981, i knw feel like this year has flew in so far, hopefully it is bt if not always next month to try again, the spotting isnt something i have had before

baby dust to all :)

afm i am on day 28 of my cycle so its a waiting game now & i dnt want to test until friday if i can help it got my tests waiting just incase i want to test before then

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got me... Assuming it was another chemical pregnancy since I got a few faint positives at home. Makes 3 losses this year so far (AND ITS ONLY MAY!!!!!) my loves.
So on to the next cycle! I think we'll try preseed this time, but I'm totally not sure when I'll ovulate because I don't have any more clomid (in the middle of switching doctors to an infertility specialist at the end of May). So this cycle will be totally crossing my fingers on every aspect!!!
I'm sorry I'm not keeping up with everyone else and where ya'll are in your cycle... I think I may need to go to my primary doc about some depression meds (this trying for 2 years and 3 losses is starting to get to me) I'll try and do better!!! I saw someone got their !!! !!!! !!!!! To the rest of you, I sincerely wish you good luck in the coming cycle!


Me: 27 PCOS DH: 25 Fine and dandy November 2011 First round of 50mg Clomid. December 22 !!! January 1 2012 m/c @7 weeks - Clomid 50mg round #2 Feb 2012. 21 day progesterone level at a 3 !!! Another m/c at 5 weeks - Clomid 100mg April - June epic fail - July Femara/Ovidril It worked!!! - Sept - .... lost a genetically healthy baby boy

12 years ago


Thanks wilson :) I'm on cd 30 right now. Never got a positive opk this month so not sure when af will show. Should be by Friday at the latest though. I'm officially not testing anymore until af is late. I bought a clear blue digital for when that day comes so I'll no for sure and there will be no guess work. How long are your cycles usually?


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12 years ago


Hey girls! Hope all is well.

I am CD 10 right now, so just waiting to O. It seems like all I am ever doing is waiting. Waiting to O, waiting on BFP or waiting on AF.

I go to the doc tomorrow for my yearly exam and I am going to talk to her about some things. I will let you know how things go!

Sorry AF got you red.

Keep us posted dolphin.

12 years ago


Just a heads up I have not gotten TRUE + HPT yet. I had a trigger shot of HCG so it has showed a + on HPTS since the day I took it (Apr 18). My HPTS have gotten lighter each day so the shot is slowly going out of my system. I will know more by the end of the week or beginning of next. But as of now I would say I am NOT pregnant. I will keep you all posted though! I am on cycle day 25 right now.

mrsbaurs good luck with the waiting game! Sounds about like my life right now! Waiting for the HCG to get out of my system, waiting for the day that a + means a +... Thats my waiting game! Also good luck at the doc! Let us know how it goes!

Welcome katiemay88. Sorry to hear of your troubles but you are in the right place to recieve support! My cycles are usually 28 or 30. A few times a year they are 26.

Keep us posted Wilson. Have you talked about any other treatments with your doctors?

Lisa1981 good luck with O day!

redshadoe0 sorry to hear she came unwelcomed once again! I know what your going through I lost two in 4 months and it is a lot to go through in such a short period of time.


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