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a wee update yesterday was not a good day for me
my husband has a 16yr old boy from his previous relationship (there is 10 years age gap between me and my husband)
anyway his boy come round yesterday to tell us that the girl he has been seeing for only 2 months is pregnant i dont knw why bt i feel like ive hit rock bottom and my oh doesnt understand why i got so upset abt it
so been thinking abt it from last night and i am going to be classed as a gran before im 29 and classed a gran before i become a mum
it jst seems to be that everyone around me is falling pregnant or having their babies i have counted atleast 10 ppl i knw friends and family in the space of a month
and to top it all of this morning af has arrived 4 days early
jst feel upset and confused i jst need to try pick myself back up again

the only plus side is i can now book in to get my blood tests done

I am sorry Wilson! Bad news all around. But this also means you are 4 days closer to getting some answers. Keep your head up and remember tomorrow is a new day!

Good luck in the next few weeks Danielle. We will be fertile around the same time. I too am going to try my hardest not to worry about testing and stressing!

I had a very interesting thought yesterday. Since I am regular on my cycles, cycle day one for me means I am two weeks away from possibly being pregnant. That is something I am looking forward to instead of dewelling on the fact that AF is here!

yep was bad news all round bt your right its a new day im jst trying to concentrate on getting some answers from the blood tests when i go for them on the 1st of march

that is a good way of looking at things dolphin :) im trying my best not to feel so down abt af being here but im feeling alot better than i did on thursday trying not to stress so much abt other people and try and relax a bit i think i am letting things stress me to easily and i knw that wont do me any favours

baby dust :)

I'm so done!! I'm emotionally drained. Yesterday I phoned our doctors office to see if they got my husbands semen analysis back. They said yes and that I could pick it up to take with us to our specialst appointment which was to be on February 27th. So of course I get the results in my hands and start trying to read them. So far all I have found is bad news. His white blood cells are triple what they should be which means colon cancer, or infection! WTH!! Plus the Ph levels are abnormal also the liquefication which is very important for sperm to travel isn't right. The count, amount and forward movement however is good. So now I'm freaking out. I can't believe they gave us these results without going over them with us. My husband has phoned our clinic twice to have our doctor call us back and he still hasn't. I'm sooo mad. Does anyone CARE!!!! So I'm already stressed to the max and then I come home and theres a message on our answering machine that says "Sorry Danielle the specialist isn't going to be in the office on the 27th anymore and we'll have to rebook your appointment for MARCH 19th!!!!". I completely broke down. I cried for an hour. I don't even know what to do anymore! I want to GIVE UP!! But I want another child. This is not what I had pictured! I'm sooooo sad, heart broken and stressed. This is not going to help our odds with me being this stressed either. But I can't stop thinking about it. This is starting to really affect my life, my job and my family.

Thanks for listening girls. I am emotionally drained.

Hi Daniell1986
So sorry to hear about the results i think thats terrible a doctor didnt take the time to go through them with you
i hope you can get a hold of ur oh doctor soon to explain everything from his test
thats no good the specialist appointment has been moved u would think they would give u another appointment sooner than the 19th
sometimes i think doctors dont care tbh n sometimes u get lucky n get a doctor that does care

I know you feel like giving up ive been there myself and whats jst happened to you i can imagine is not easy as u wont want to be stressing and getting upset, hope u are feeling better soon

I really hope u are ok baby dust for u

So sorry to hear about your troubles Danielle. You should never get test results without a doctor explaining them to you. Especially on something like this! The extended wait for the other doctor will be hard I am sure. I can relate to the stressing out part. I feel like I am causing some of our problems because of worrying about them too much.

Any follow up from anyone yet!! Do we have any BFP's yet!??

I had a positive OPK yesterday so I'm on O day today. I don't bbt so I'm not sure exactly when it happens. We're still going to try this month, even though we don't know the results of any tests yet! Still hoping for a miracle!!

Well O day is either late tonight or tomorrow for me. No positive OPK yet but it is getting darker each day and is almost there. We were able to bd yesterday and early this AM but our luck as it goes my DH had to go out for town for work this am! UGH!! I hate our luck! No BFP for us yet but I am hoping for it in 2 weeks! I actually started tracking my BBT for the first time this month. I am not sure that I like doing it. Kinda a lot of work and I think about it constantly!

Lots of baby dust your way Danielle!

Ooh we are very close in cycles then!! Thats exciting. Sucks your hubby is gone now! But its still possible for you to become pregnant!! I debated doing the BBT but I just can't bring myself to think about it that much right now. I did do OPK tests this month and i'm right on track! I'm really hoping this is our month and that we don't even need to see the specialist! Good luck. Let me know about your symptoms!

Hey girls! I have been reading your posts. All I can say is that there are some strong women here!

I got a positive OPK Sunday morning, but - up until Sunday and -since Sunday so not sure if I had a short surge or what. We are close in cycles and I could use some cycle buddies.

DH and I have been trying since June. We almost had it in October, but it ended in a m/c. We have been trying ever since. The m/c really messed up my cycles though, so I'm not sure if I am back to normal yet or not.

I can relate to the feelings of sadness, anger, impatience, etc. I need both hands to count how many people I know have become pregnant and given birth or are currently pregnant sine DH and i started trying.

It is good to find some people to talk to and share with. Keep me posted on everyone's journeys. It is about time someone gets a !!