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Hi im quiet new to the forum , me n my oh have been ttc for over 2 years now
we are both hopefully getting help from our doctors within the next couple of weeks to do fertility tests
anyway for a while there i had been coping not to bad from month to month and having no joy conceiving bt now have found out 2 more ppl i knw are expecting i jst dnt know how to deal with this part that every time i hear abt someone i knw expecting i feel sorry for myself
jst had to get this of my chest as i dnt really have anyone to talk to abt this, my oh jst tells me it will be our turn one day bt i jst keep wondering when will that be coz it feels like its never going to happen :( n hoped maybe people on here could give me some advice to try help me pick myself back up again
thanks

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I am sending good vibes your way Wilson for your Friday results! Again keep us posted on your progress. I have a list of questinos for my Thursday appointment. He only has me down for a 15 minute appointment. We shall see about that! If I don't get good answers and the information I am looking for I am going to switch doctors, which really won't be fun at this stage!

I know how you are feeling myfamilytime. I did a 100mg round of cliomid this last cycle and I wasn't really sure if I was doing the right thing for myself. But at the same time I am glad that I did now that I am done with the pills and o has occured. Now I am in my 2ww. Sometimes it is just better to know you are actually doing something instead of nothing. I will find out sometime next week if I have to call in another damn perscription! Good luck!


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12 years ago


hi dolphin1204

thanks for the good vibes :) i have everything crossed for him getting a positive result on friday
i will keep u all posted with any progress i really appreciate having ppl to talk to abt this :)

sending u good vibes for ur doctors appt. :) Good Luck hope u get all ur ?'s answered :))

i honestly wouldnt knw what to ask my doctor last time i went they done a smear test to make sure everything was ok n i told them abt my moods being down all the time said it sounds like depression n told me to take medication for that and evening primrose oil at night to help me sleep coz i am ttc
after friday i am going to get back in touch with my gp and really push for me to get a fertility test done
this might sound silly but what does it involve getting that kind of test done ive read a few different things
:-/

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After 1 year of TTC my husband and I both went into my obgyn office and they laid out a plan for the next month. We did the seman analysis first and a thyroid test for me. Then I had an ultrasound done to make sure there wasn't anything they could find wrong. The last thing I did was an HSG to make sure my tubes were clear which they were. The HSG was the worst part for me. But I strongly believe that my doctoer didn't prepare me for that at all! I almost passed out on the table and after the test But some people handle it differently so don't let me scare you! I am glad I got it done! When they found everything came back fine they started me on clomid. Now we are just waiting for a baby to stick and stick in the right place!

Sometimes they will do hormone tests and more ultrasounds. Just depneds on your doctor. If you have any other questions let me know!


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12 years ago


I completely feel where you all are coming from. My fiance and I have been TTC#2 (my first is from my 1st marriage) for over 2 years, and it seems like every person I know who was pregnant with their 1st around when I was is either PG now or has already had their 2nd child. I am so depressed about it all the time, no one understands me. I see people around me having babies or pregnant at the mall or whatever and i am so mad at them! I find it so hard to express that I am happy or excited for them when I feel like its always "in my face" that they are PG and I am not, even though I know that's not their intentions. :(

AF due in 3 days but Qtip already confirmed she's on her way. I don't think its in my future.

Good luck girls.


12 years ago


So I just got back from my annual appointment and it went MOSTLY good. Having to sit naked for an hour waiting for the doctor is not fun. I never understood why they make you do that??

So this is my regular OBGYN that I have been going through some infertility treatments with and I have went there for both of my pregnancy losses. One within the last 3 months. The first two things the nurse asked me today was if I was on birth control and if I wanted to get on birth control.. REALLY!! I just talked to you a month ago to renew my CLOMID!

He wants to continue the use of clomid until the specialist says otherwise so that is the plan for now! I got all my paperwork and I am set to see the specialist at the end of the month!


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12 years ago


jst another wee update between yesterday n today not been gd days for me
yesterday found out my cousins gf is having a wee girl then tonight found out my nephew has got the 16 year old girl hes seeing casually pregnant n that has jst made me depressed they wasnt even trying n to top it of she might not even keep the baby i feel like is it ever going to be my turn :( i done the whole get married n then try for kids later have i done it wrong should i have tried at 18 before i got married
sorry to ramble on jst no a gd time :( my friend is coming to stay with my nephew at the wkend so that should cheer me up plus hopeful that my hubbys results come back positive bt right now i think i could actually cry its that bad

anyway again thanks dolphin for more information i dont knw what my doctor will say next wk when i phone her hope she will arrange tests or even advice medication to take etc..
i cant believe ur obgyn asked if u wanted birth control ?? how will that help when ur ttc
baby dust & good luck with the clomid this month fingers crossed for you

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hi deedragen
i knw how u feel im the same jst now everyone around me is either pregnant or having babies i cnt log onto my facebook without reading abt scans etc
my oh trys to be understanding abt it bt not really good to sit n talk to abt it then i found this site everyone i have spoke to has been helpful and understanding

baby dust to u
keep us posted always here to talk :)

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I hate FB sometimes!! It seriously makes me feel so inadequate with every new post about a trip to the dr or an ultrasound or a new PG.

My wedding is less than 3 months away and my fiance is hoping that we are BFP before then. I think it would be a miracle. I would love to be able to announce that we are expecting during our reception. A girl can hope, right?

Dust to you all!! <3


12 years ago


Wilsonc, oh the teen pregnancy news is the worst! It sucks when you feel like you did everything right and you don't get blessed with a little one. But the thing I always think about is that teenager has a tough road ahead even if she doesn't keep the baby. So sometimes you have to feel blessed that you are not in her situation no matter how much you wish you had a baby right now! But I would say it is only natural to be upset and mad about it. The key thing is to get over it and move onto the next plan of your own. Ugh I have trouble with this very thing every month! Oh and any good news for us yet????

Deedragen did you have trouble TTC#1? I can not relate completely with you since I have never been able to have one. But I know that you are going through the same types of things this time around. I don't wish this situation on anyone! Babydust!


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hi wee update my oh got his results back today for his sperm count and everything is ok with him so thats made me feel a bit better
i phoned up my doctors and i am speaking to my doctor on tuesday to try and arrange for me to get tests done now since the last time i spoke to her she asked me to try evening primrose oil and if nothing happened she would speak to me abt tests in 6 months so times up and im still not pregnant

dolphin1204
yep i think recently i have been letting things get to me just to many ppl around me falling pregnant thinking abt it out of all of my brother and sisters in laws they all have kids even some of their kids have kids n im the only one who hasnt so they keep constantly asking me when am i having one its like plz go annoy someone else

i do feel sorry for my nephews ''gf'' she is so young and really hasnt grown up herself and if she keeps the baby she is going to have to grow up quick

still feeling a bit sorry for myself but jst trying to pull myself out of it and try concentrate on this new month and had one bit of good news and hopefully will get help with my doctor to get some answers for me now :)

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