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Its hard when I have to babysit my niece and my son doesn't take naps lol

@AGamers I wish you
@Alex I am sorry for what you are going through, it is difficult to accept maybe life will not give us what we want, or maybe just when we want... I send you a big hug
@Shay, everything is really weird, I hope this means something
AFM: I tried to disconnect from TTC, (of course it is impossible and it is always in background in my mind...) visiting my family and with many activities, my hopes were really high from DPO 6 to 9, high temperatures, a lot symptoms... and suddenly a super drop in temperature on DPO 10, I was happy, maybe this is implantation, but yesterday and today my temperatures are not going too much high and start symptoms of AF coming (irritability, cramps like AF....) even knowing this is not going anywhere I tested yesterday and today (DOP 11) and I got two BFN.... of course after the two tests I felt so sad and frustrated :-( I am not going to test tomorrow and wait directly to Thursday that is the recommended day to test.

I say pray to god and he will bless you when he believes its the right now

Shay omg girl this cycle must be fetso draining for you. Hopefully you’ll either get AF so you can move on or a beautiful bfp!!!

Neisamar fingers crossed AF will stay away and you’ll get your bfp soon.

Gamers I do believe that everything happens for a reason but I don’t believe anymore to “when the time is right”... I’m almost 37 YO and I could have a teenager or even an adult by now.. I believe my “right” time passed long time ago... I guess not everyone who wants a child will be blessed to have one and that’s the sad truth...

Neisamar I totally know what you mean. No matter how much we try not to think about ttc, it is always there in the back of your mind. Ugh haha

Alex it is super frustrating for sure!! I am beyond tired with my class and everything else that I just want an answer!!!

AFM: just one more weird thing after another!!! So no spotting yesterday, hubby and I decided to bd since it had been a while and we just needed it. Well my goodness did it hurt!!! I have never had it hurt like that before. I was fine afterwards though so just kind of tried not to think about it. Well this morning my temp is still high and I had a much more obvious spotting!! Before I had only seen the spotting when checking cm, this morning it was almost like AFish but not quite. One wipe and it was gone. I have a feeling it was related to the pain during bding. I have decided that as soon as AF shows or if my temps continue to stay high for another week, I will be calling my doctor to see what is going on. I want answers and I want them now!!!

Good luck ladies!! I hope everyone is doing good!!

@Alex, I’ve been married for 10 years and just pregnant now aged 39. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and I personally do not believe in God. As far as falling pregnant is concerned, I put my faith in medical professionals and after rigorous testing and some treatment I conceived naturally. I was planning to start IVF in October. I felt so hopeless too. Don’t give up.

@Alex I'm okay with twins as long as they're healthy. I just don't want any of the issues that can come with multiples. I also kind of fear that if we only want 2 kids, we'd be done in one shot.

Kait I completely agree. I both do and don’t want twins. Hubby only wants two kiddos so if we had twins he would be done right then and there.

AFM: AF is arriving finally!! Had my normal spotting all day yesterday. Should turn into a normal flow today or tomorrow so today or tomorrow will officially be cd1. Just gotta wait and see if that is today or tomorrow. I have an appointment on Monday to at least talk to my doctor and see what she thinks we should do. I am hoping she at least prescribes something to help make sure I O since that is my major problem right now. No true official O since February with a super late and not technically confirmed O at the end of July as well. Either way that is way too far apart for it to be normal. Glad to have the appointment and hoping some good comes out of it.

@Shay an appointment is always good news. So happy for AF.
Praying for everyone.
AFM hanging there at work. Almost found a solution. Seeing obgyn for the 1st time since May. Yay!!! Hoping to have Clomid prescription. Fingers crossed. Cannot wait for Friday.
Stay brave.
@Anna due date is nearing? Have you prepped nursery? Pregnancy bag yet?

@lalou yay! We can be on clomid together. I hope things settle down for you at work.

@Shay I think most doctors would be willing to help you out at this point. You've been trying long enough and it sounds like your cycles just need help regulating.

Starting Clomid tomorrow. I'm getting cold feet about it, but I know I'm going to at least try a couple of cycles.