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Well apparently this pregnancy wasn't meant to be. I just took a FRER and it came back negative. I'm 14 dpo today. My temp also dropped pretty low. I guess I had a cp.

oh no, Idk I'm so sorry for you. that really sucks. I hope it makes you extra fertile next month.

Welcome overtondg.

Oh, Lolo and idk!!! I am so sorry to hear your news!

Lolo - maybe you are just still early?! I am praying that is the case and that you continue this pregnancy!!!! Stick, lil bean!!

idk - Are you sure it's negative? I would keep checking until you get your period! Maybe it was just a bad test?! I was so excited for you!!

Margie - and praying for you!

I really don't want to see you ladies on the October Board!! No offense, but I was truly hoping and had for you all that this would be a great time of new life! Don't give up yet!!!

Lolo and IDK....:(

Lolo, there is nothing bad that can come from the progesterone pills or progesterone cream, so I'd try it. It's one of those, can't hurt-things.

I conceived with the progesterone cream twice a day and didn't stop using it till 15 wks because I was diagnosed with low pg. If I missed even a day, I started getting cramps even up to 10 wks along.

LOLO and IDK I am so sorry. Was hoping we wouldn't see you on the October board. LOLO...does your RE have any ideas why this is happening?

AFM: I am officially jumping over to the October board. Had IUI and O yesterday with a higher temp spike today. MY EDD is 10/5.

Hi Ladies,

Thank you all so much for your support.

Got a call from the doctors office this morning and because my numbers are so low, the RN said that it's looks like an abnormal pregnancy and indicative of an early miscarriage and didn't think progesterone would help at this point. But if I wanted to take it I could. Since I have them I am taking it. I still don't have cramps yet except for a pulling/pinching with a slight pressure feeling. Doesn't feel like it did before, in the last mc. Who knows maybe I will get my miracle but I am losing that hope extremely fast. I am at work today but wishing I was still home crying in my hubby's arms. It's really hard to feel positive when your RN and doctor don't feel positive about it either.

idk3333: I am so sorry you are also going through this. It is so hard getting your hopes up just to see it fall away.

nharty09 & calvingirl: I keep praying you are both right but when I heard the nurse say she didn't think taking the progesterone would make a difference my heart just broke. The #'s for 1st Trimester Progesterone levels are supposed to be between 4.7 - 50.7. Mine is at 3.0. Really hard to keep positive with that one but yet, here I am still taking the progesterone in hopes it will help.

NikkiN: No the RN and doctor haven't indicated why this could be happening...whenever I go in for my next appt maybe then I might get some answers. But they seem to think that abnormal pregnancies happen and it was just that. The RN made it sound like I should have waited another month before trying again. Maybe she is right. But the doctor said we could try on our own. Not sure what I am going to do this time around. When/if the miscarriage takes place then I will obviously wait til I get my first period and decide after that. Emotionally right now, I don't know how I feel.

I doubt you will be seeing me in the October board, unless I decide to come over and say hi and check up on you all. Not sure yet if I will try for a Nov baby yet either. to you next month!

overtondg: Welcome and

Noooo Lolo. I'm so sorry! Hang in there. I'm thinking of u!

LOLO- screw what that nurse said! Although they like to think they are doctors THEY ARE NOT! Someone should slap her! Again maybe it's still really early, and things will turn around. I would keep taking the progesterone too! I hope you don't have to go through this again, and if so hopefully the Dr. can give you some answers.

Thank you all for your thoughts today. I've been feeling down most of the day. Thankfully my dh took care of our dd's once he got home from work and I've been able to relax most of the evening. I've been chillin for the past 1.5 hours watching New Girl to cheer me up, and it's working.

Lolo, I'm so sorry you're having to go through what you're going through too. It's times like this I wish I could just reach through the computer and give a hug. That's about the best I can do. Usually I would say something consoling like, you'll be ok, but given my experience today I say kick and scream and drown yourself in chocolate! (Snickers and kisses were my drugs of choice today.)

everyone!

Good morning ladies.

Idk - I'm sorry that you had such a rough day yesterday. I feel for you though I can't even imagine what it would be like to be in your position right now. I hope the chocolate helped.

Lolo - That nurse had no right to say what she did to you. I'm hoping that she's wrong and the extra progesterone will help the BFP stick. my heart goes out to you and much like the others I wish I could just give you a hug through the computer.

AFM - 15 DPO. I've never been 15 DPO before, I'm so worried that AF is going to show at any moment. I woke up this morning well before I would normally temp and my temp had dropped but i rolled over and went back to sleep and when i woke up at my usual time my temp was back up to where it had been yesterday. I took a test with FMU and it came back a very faint BFP! I thought I was seeing things since I could only see it when I was up close, but DH could see it too. I feel bad getting a BFP when you guys are going through a crappy time. I hope it gets darker tomorrow, otherwise it might just be in my head.