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Emma I’m sorry to hear that. I wish you strength to overcome whatever is going on right now and of course along with the unfortunate bad news to receive some good ones soon

thanks Alex. I am not feeling very hopeful still BFN on IC's at 10dpo and usually have AF by 13dpo....I am however going to get some FRER today with hopes that it may pick something up. I have been having weird cramps here and there but not AF cramps and normally by now my CM is dried up and hasn't this month. My boobs are sore, I also have been constipated (TMI) for a while now. I also had a little dip in temp this morning as I was sitting here figuring out when I should test by I remembered that when I conceived my first child I took a test on April 21st and it came back as a BFP. Wouldn't it be something if it happened that way again?! But then I would feel bad because they would have to share a birthday....Guess I'm still just waiting it out for now

Took a pink dye this morning and don’t think I see anything. Going to just wait and see if AF shows up. This morning I cried to two songs on the radio like a baby. Maybe my hormones are just out of whack.

Mama and NASA I know these last days of tww could drain us emotionally! Just keep the faith girls and hopefully we will see those bfps and not the ugly witch

@alex im so happy that you're getting answers. IVF is a personal choice for you and your husband to make. No one would blame you for not wanting to go through it. Like you said, at least you know what you are facing now. Hugs to you, I know that can't be easy news to get.

@anna that's an awesome milestone to make! Congrats! I know it's one that I have always anticipated in my mind if Im ever pregnant again.

For me, I need your eyes ladies. I have no idea where I'm at dpo wise because I haven't been tracking. All I know is that 34 days is the longest normal cycle for me and today is CD35. Normally, AF shows in the morning and it's now midday. So I took a FRER. No real hold and a decent amount of liquid intake so I know my urine is for sure diluted, but I see the faintest line. You can see it more in person so I tried to get as close as possible without a shadow or glare in the picture. I'm nervous because I know FRERs have had horrible indents for some. Picture was taken around the 10mm. What do we think?

Ugh, I can't see it at all in the picture...

I took a bunch of internet cheapie tests this morning and pulled lines on all of them. I took this just now. I feel like I see something?

My gut feeling tells me we will not get a 2019 baby. Still barely a shadow and I've started to see that super light pink tinged cm that turns in to spotting and comes 2-3 days before af. So, I'm almost 100% sure that I'm out. Not much I can do about it but keep trying and hope that our miracle will come one day.

@jessica I feel like I see something too. Shouldn't a FRER line be darker than an IC though?

@pandorica I'm sorry you're seeing the start of AF. Maybe it will subside?

@kait064 the internet ones aren't dark at all but I can see them without squinting too much lol

I should be getting my period today but no sign of it. Not even any cramps really! I didn't get a positive with my first and 3rd kids until AFTER I missed a period. My middle kid came up at like 10 dpo but he's always been an odd one lol. I'll just hope AF stays away and that I get a sure positive tomorrow. It sounds odd but I'm tired of obsessing over it. I just want a yes or no answer!