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Me too!

So I am 10 dpo today. Tested this evening and got a BFN with the Clinical Guard test (I think sensitivity is supposed to be 25 miu). However my cervix had been low since the day after O and today it went way up (can barely reach it). I wasn’t tracking cervix very closely on previous cycles so I can’t really compare with previous cycles. I know cervix position is not a super reliable thing but my understanding is that it is supposed to remain low until AF unless pregnancy happens. Anyway I’m not very optimistic at this point because of the BFN but i guess there is still hope. Has anyone noticed a high cervix late in your luteal phase and had AF show regardless?

My cervix has always kind of been all over the place so it’s not any kind of reliable indicator of anything.

Hi guys! Recognise a few of you from previous threads, I got my BFP back in August but things weren’t meant to be and had an ERPC 11 days ago due to blighted ovum Finding it really tough but me and hubby are getting straight back to it to TTC again. My Hcg dropped to 0 very quickly after the op, and my surgeon told me to class that day as CD1 although my cycles could be off for a couple months. I usually O cd10-12. Hoping I might get super lucky and catch right away! So happy for everyone with their BFP’s
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Tonix93 so sorry for the loss. It's a sad thing but if you are ready to try again, I have heard the first couple of months after a miscarriage are super fertile. If you temp or use opks that should help you figure out what your cycles are doing too. Good luck to you!

@Tonix I'm so sorry for your loss!

I don't know if it's very useful to temp or to use opk right after MC because your cycle can be really weird! Maybe just letting nature do its work (while continuing BDing, of course, if you want to) and start tracking when your normal cycle is back (if you aren't pregnant by then) is a better option, if you don't want to stress too much about that.

Personnally, after my miscarriage, I waited for my period to come back before TTC again, for some reasons and I then I used the Sperm meet egg method. Became pregnant on the second cycle trying!

I’m really going to try my best not to stress or think about it. Iv decided not to use opks until after Christmas (here’s hoping it happens before then) I just feel like it will put even more pressure on myself and disappointment when it doesn’t happen. I usually have relatively short 26 day cycles so I’m hoping they will resume soon. My doc advised waiting a cycle for dating purposes, but I’m so desperate to be preg again, those few weeks just felt right! So I’m just going to have fun trying

So I am roughly 5-9 dpo and feeling pretty normal right now. I have been waking up in the middle of the night and been wide awake! I am counting that as insomnia of a kind since I usually sleep straight through the night. Had cramping the last couple of days but now not much cramping. My cervix is high but still really soft! Hoping that is good! Plus I have a lot more sticky cm than usual. Usually right after I ovulate everything dries up but not this time so far! Definitely hoping this is it! My chest hurts on and off but nothing consistent yet.

@tonix93 definitely don't stress! Just do whatever feels right for you. After my MMC and D&C it took 3 months for my cycles to get back to where I could count on the timing and having a full period instead of just spotting so don't be discouraged if your body needs to adjust.

I’m out, big red decided to show up???? It was my first month ttc baby #3 so I’m just getting into the swing of things! I didn’t temp this month so I’ll do that for October! Congrats to all those who got their BFPs and to those who are still waiting!