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And this one was from this morning. I think I can officially call it!

Alex - thank you! I hope this one sticks!

@Klyla. Some breast tenderness on my left breast. I am so exhausted as I'm not sleeping very well at night. Other than that, I feel alright except being emotional and physically drained. I hope your tests continue to get darker every day. Keep us posted.

Good morning ladies!
11dpo today and another bfn. At this point it’s a joke that I’m keep testing but I know I will do it tomorrow as well anyways.. Monday is expected AF day and I’m kinda glad that I’m feeling so sad now so I can be better and having it already processed.
I don’t really believe that I will be one of those who got their bfp after many negatives and super late too. I also don’t feel anything out of the ordinary so there’s that too. I’m so grampy right now and all I want is a child of my own.. why I’ve been tested so hard on this? Why I don’t deserve it?

12DPO and another negative. Af cramping is here and she’s expected either tomorrow orMonday.

Hello everybody! Sorry for not checking in more often.

to the ladies with fresh BFP's and lots and sending lots of your way!

@alex I just have such a good feeling for you! If not this cycle sometime soon. Give your hormones time to respond to treatment. I really think you'll get there! You are worthy, you deserve this, and you are so very loved no matter what happens. You can always vent here to us and we'll always have your back. Good things are coming, I can just feel it!

As for me - As I mentioned before we stopped trying but without preventing, so timing was bad this cycle with only one bd a few days before O. O day was some of the worst O pain I have ever felt! So bad that I was looking forward to AF coming so I could get my hormone bloodwork done and get some answers. I didn't symptom spot at all for most of my cycle because I knew the chances were slim, and the only thing out of the ordinary was AF type cramps on and off for a couple days. Afternoon nausea and headaches and awful PMS mood, and my temp dropped at 10 dpo as normal.

But picked back up at 11dpo... And my moods suddenly became great.

And even higher 12 dpo! And I developed a metallic taste in my mouth. Bbs less sore but seemed noticeably fuller and feel heavier. I was exhaused and falling asleep sitting up by 8:30 pm.

Today at 13 dpo (Independence Day) I had DH buy a test so I could known whether or not to have a drink at the BBQ, just in case. So I POAS in the toilets at the park, and got a clear but light - DH saw it too, it was unmistakable!! Yet another case of "The cycle we stopped trying we conceived." why does that happen lol? I have heard this same story from so many people!

It hasn't sunk in at all, and because of my losses I hardly feel excited, especially since I haven't been taking ANY vitamins at all this cycle and I have the MTHFR defect! I'm so worried. Going for my first beta tomorrow morning after Mass. Pray for me, and send all the sticky vibes for my little Sparkler! Please please stick baby, and be my rainbow!

@hpenny I see it! It's still very very early so at this point any line is hopeful!

@erin congrats on your bpf!!! I'm so excited for everyone.

DH wont believe it till it's a dark dark line. So I'm waiting till Tuesday to tell him :) we have had so many set backs (including cervical cancer) that it's great to have good news :)

Dh and I bd this morning. Hoping to get 1 or 2 more times in today to catch the egg. 3 more days until ovulation

So 12dpo. I got another vvfl.

Yesterday and this morning I've had some spotting (mostly light pink-brown) and cramping which of course is worrying me.

The combo of spotting and the lines not really getting darker is certainly dampening my excitement. I know there's nothing I can do but wait and see. But waiting sucks.