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@ana so weird you say that! My friend was ttc last month and thought she got AF like 13dpo. Spotting, two days of normal flow, then spotting. Had cramps and more pain than usual. Few days later she was feeling nauseous and decided to test and got her BFP! So must have just been late/intense IB! Sorry if that doesn’t help your will not to test but symptoms are symptoms!

AFM, I’m 9dpo and feeling like crap. Slight nausea, headache and just achy. Hoping it’s not the flu and is actual pregnancy symptoms but BFN again this morning. I can’t kick my POAS habit. Oh well, maybe tomorrow.

I hate myself. I was stupid and peed on a frer. Even though I hate them because of the indents. And now I'm staring at the indent trying to wish color into it.

Same as you ladies. Im now 8dpo and i poas yesterday and today. BFN both times.
I really wish i had the will power to wait until the day af is due. But i don’t.
My aching throbbing and leaking boobs have eased up some but are still sore to touch. Idk if that’s a bad thing or good.

@espence I’ve went back and looked at mine from this morning three different times hoping I see something faint. Torture.

Good morning ladies, ok so TMI I have been having the worst case of gas - it started on Monday not super bad but I noticed it. But last night I was soo bloaded and had the worst bubble guts ever!! Mind you I have been with my DH for the last 13 years and I have yet to let one slip in front of him on purpose. yes I know that's crazy and call me old fashion but there are somethings that he should'nt hear come out of me. but I added the symptom to the list and now its says that my probability is lower. lame!!

@Espence don t say that you hate yourself. I have compassion towards yourself. Ttc is hard. Just cry a bit and keep going. We all go through that. It was just like me this morning. Supposedly 10dpo tested and not even a hint of 2nd line and i waisted my last hpt as well. And i kept staring and finally broke opened it for nothing. Just keep going.

Welcome everyone else.

So my cold seems to be back in full force. My temps are 98.3 this morning and i could not reached cervix. And my cm is becoming creamy. I am having some mild cramps too so i am starting to think that maybe AF is on her way. I really have nothing that showed me that this is pms or early pregnancy. And also since I am still nursing even though it
has lessen, I cannot really rely on my boobs to tell me anything. Just wait and see. I am praying that we have plenty of .

Lalou thank you. It's so easy to beat myself up but I need to treat myself with kindness!

I hope you get your bfp this month!

Hi Ladies, so I feel horrible just by writting this post but I want to get you guys input on it (please with no judgment).
So I have this friend that is going through IVF and Im hoping for it to work out. She had her first try recently and the baby didnt stick. I know its a hard situation and obviusly she feel sad about it, but when she called she kept comparing loosing the baby (embrio not implanting) to my 14week miscarriage. I know obviusly she is in pain, and if she would have had a successful IVF she would have been 3weeks pregnant right now, but I feel its not comparable to what we went through and it made me feel angry inside. I cant really describe what I felt, but I dont feel she can compare our loss to theirs.

@Espence dont ever say you hate yourself, we are all a little poas addict and its completely normal.

I really hope all you leadies nearing the end of your tww get your bfp soon.

Vs. I hear what you are saying. I had a friend lose her baby at 13 weeks and I never compare my chemical to her loss.
Maybe she is just trying to connect in her grief? Every loss is a loss and can hurt. It's ok to be angry but still love and support someone. I'm sorry that you are having to deal with those emotions.

Thank you for encouraging me :) we are all a little poas

Hey ladies! @ttc I tried acupuncture when I fell pregnant with my daughter. I think it was the deciding factor that cycle. I'd had an ectopic previously xxx

Hi ladies! We have been ttc for 2 years now with nothing but bad luck, including more than a few chemicals. Had my last period december 21st and ovulated around january 4th. Trying really hard not to count each cycle day or dpo this time, so instead of apps I made a small note in my bujo of my lmp, +opk and next expected period. Hopefully that will help me stop counting each day. I feel like I was more relaxed when we where ttc our son, but that may be my imagination since it's almost 5½ years since he was born. And he took us 17 months to conceive (was conceived same cycle as a HSG).

Sending baby dust to all of you and I hope the new year brings a lot of bfp's.